It's the blurred lines that are problematic. Do you remember years ago the mumsnet scarf became a thing? There were so many threads about it, long leopard print scarf... conveted by many a mnetter. When i look on Insta i see something similar... all the white middle class women in some kind of uniform. Biker jacket, chunky boots, animal print dress/ skirt/top. It's capitalism and it's actually quite disturbing. Even the houses are looking the same.
What I find most disturbing is the subliminal messaging. If you want to be with the cool mums you need to wear x y z and have this rug and this coat etc etc. If you've followed someone for a while and they've built a good relationship with followers it's very easy to sell to them. The power dynamic is different to when you see an ad on tv. Last week I saw an Insta mum selling a pdf anxiety course and it made me really uncomfortable. Aside from clothes, shoes, rugs, holidays surely they can't commoditize mental health issues and treatments? Is it ethical for someone to develop a loyal following then sell the followers mental health treatments off the back of that social media relationship?!