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Royal style & gossip: what do we want? Frock shots! When do we want them? Now!

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QueenOfTheAndals · 15/11/2018 18:41

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Quantumblue · 18/11/2018 20:33

Wow, nothing illustrates the difference between Meghan's and Harry's worlds more than the fake celebrity approximation of a country pile. Harry and his friends have grown up in the real thing. He must find it weird being in a Disney celebrity version.

beanaseireann · 18/11/2018 20:42

Megan's Roland Mouret dress is beautiful.
Gorgeous neckline.
Wasn't it wishful thinking by a poster on an old thread that Max would help the Japanese lady ( if she needed help) ?

CurlyWurlyTwirly · 18/11/2018 20:57

Just read the gushing Condé Nast review. Soho Farmhouse is of course a sanitized version of the country side for townies. I bet Meghan got the rent for her Great Tew place for buttons. She continues to be a brand Ambassador for Soho House, however inadvertently.

She is acting like an Emigré and exporting her American lifestyle to the UK. It is definitely shaking things up in the RF.
She has brought the celebrity back into the RF. (Not seen since Diana). However much she tries to dampen it; it is in her DNA. I suspect this will not play well with William as it is the antithesis of what he stands for. The 2 separate courts of Cambridge and Sussex are the natural evolution of the 2 brothers maturing and growing in different directions.

user1457017537 · 18/11/2018 21:13

Do they really need two Courts though. Harry and Megan are not next in line to the throne after Prince Charles. I can understand an office but I think Court is stretching it a bit. William is also very anti press, celebrity and promotion. It is very strange re the flat in Kensington Palace as we had been told it had been renovated and that W and K and H and M would be neighbours.

SenecaFalls · 18/11/2018 21:30

I can understand separating their offices. It makes sense in preparation for the future. William's responsibilities will include managing the Duchy of Cornwall, among other expanded duties. Meghan and Harry's focus will be different.

SenecaFalls · 18/11/2018 21:32

Just as now, the activities of Charles's siblings are not managed from his office.

MartaHallard · 18/11/2018 21:38

....and that W and K and H and M would be neighbours.

I think, however fond you might be of your family, you don't necessarily want to live next door to them.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 18/11/2018 21:47

Anyway, seems (Charles) and Camilla are happy enough, although I understand they live separately a lot of the time

Make that practically all of the time ... and please don't ask me exactly how I know this, since it involves someone who works in RF security

IPromiseIWontBeNaughty · 18/11/2018 21:54

We have friends who live apart, different countries to be precise, and they base their continued successful marriage on this. 2 weeks together on holiday is the most they can take. But they’ve been married for 35+ years so it clearly works for them.

Family member have only just started living together as they’ve both now retired & can’t afford 2 homes. They’ve been married for 40 years or so.

Works for some.

itswinetime · 18/11/2018 21:57

Courts is a fancy way of saying staff isn't it so press secretary pr and a likes yes I would say that Harry and Megan need that given everything at the moment. This is none news though anne Charles Andrew Edward and the queen all have their own offices don't they?? Even if Harry had married Pippa Middleton they still would have split eventually it's not a sign of anything it's practical.

And as for the Kensington palace stuff who told us the press? Who knows what the real plans were, if there were any plans at all

fieldgold · 18/11/2018 21:59

Going off topic, but someone said to me years ago, that the secret to a happy marriage/partnership is two separate bedrooms, two living rooms and two TVs. LOL.

SenecaFalls · 18/11/2018 22:05

I think the old fashioned royal term is actually household rather than court.

fieldgold · 18/11/2018 22:08

@Puzzledandpissedoff

no surprise to me. But they can afford it with all their homes everywhere.

Good luck to them. But if anyone ever said they lived separately from their husband on some threads here, there might be hell to pay!

One law for some....

Puzzledandpissedoff · 18/11/2018 22:18

they can afford it with all their homes everywhere

They can indeed, @fieldgold, so I wonder why Camilla maintains her own place at Ray Mill

If they have to live separately it seems odd they can't do it between the many RF properties, rather than us have to pay for security at yet another place. After all, they supposedly waited long enough to be together ...

QueenOfTheAndals · 18/11/2018 22:26

Do you suppose Camilla was perfectly happy with their arrangement as it was, and only agreed to marry Charles (and take on royal duties) if she could keep her own house and escape to it at weekends? If it works for them...

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drivinmecrazy · 18/11/2018 23:10

Is such an arrangement so unusual?
A friend of mine has decided to 'split her household' and sell the marital home because their blended family isn't working out so well.
the upshot is going to be to sell the primary home and buy two separate homes.
My friend will live in one with her kids and husband will live in the other and have my friend visiting a few nights a week.
Sounds ideal to me! !!
If it works for them why knock it?

fieldgold · 18/11/2018 23:55

It is unusual, but makes perfect sense to me.

Time together and time apart. Great, if you can afford it.

And as for sleeping together, I would have two doubles in the bedroom each with their own duvet etc. and a spare room to escape to also.

Living the dream lol!

IdaBWells · 19/11/2018 00:10

I read somewhere just in the past few weeks in one of the many PR articles about Camilla and Charles that she goes to her home Ray Mill every weekend on Thursday and spends time with her children and grandchildren. I also wonder if they were actually both happy with the arrangement of two separate homes (which are 10 minutes away) and Charles insisted they get married so that she could be at his side for all the official stuff and be his official consort, otherwise of course she could not have an official role. He apparently refused to go to certain events before they were married when due to protocol she had to (literally) have a back seat.

Also, I thought the secret to a happy marriage was not separate bedrooms but separate bathrooms!

Moononthehill28 · 19/11/2018 00:32

Just read the review for Soho House. Never read such pretentious twaddle in my life! If this is what Meghan aspires to it says something about her .

PawneeParksDept · 19/11/2018 01:16

At their age, i don't think it's unusual, they've known each other about 40 years, the small talk dries up.

HMQ and Phil have had similar patterns over the years, Phil has his own digs on Sandringham for um, entertaining or at least he did entertain, probably not so much now

user1457017537 · 19/11/2018 01:55

Moononthehill28 Quite! Especially all the beautiful country estates the Royals have at their disposal. MM was an ambassador for the brand though.

IdaBWells · 19/11/2018 02:20

Charles seems to have always preferred a batchelor lifestyle, or at least one where he sets his own schedule. In the early years of their marriage Diana was often left at KP alone while Charles disappeared off to Highgrove for days, if not weeks at a time. He described their uninspiring “Honeymoon” on the Royal Yacht Britannia in his diary, where Diana would go off to talk to the naval shipman and the cooks as he preferred to sit and read through his many books by Laurens van der Post. He thought it was idyllic, poor Diana!

Then they went up to Balmoral for a month or more with the RF and a crowd of the Prince’s friends. He would go off deer stalking from 9-5 while leaving Diana lonely and bored in the castle. I just don’t think he has ever had to really change his ways for anyone. Camilla was very wise to keep her own place, she knows how he likes to live.

VanillaSugary · 19/11/2018 06:37

Also, if Camilla has her own place then all she needs are the security staff who stay outside the door and a trusted Housekeeper who might not live in.

She can burp and fart in peace without it ending up in the Daily Mail.

Don't forget Frogmore House near Windsor Castle. Philip entertains there a lot (or did when in better health).

CurlyWurlyTwirly · 19/11/2018 06:39

Very sensible Camilla keeping Ray Mill house.
She probably looks on Duchess of Cornwall as a job.
There is the practical side that her maintenance from APB was “only” about £20k pa. Now she is secure for the rest of her life.
So Charles just basically lives the Bachelor life and Camilla and the children & grandchildren are just wheeled out to show he is a family man.

IPromiseIWontBeNaughty · 19/11/2018 06:56

Most of my parents friends have separate places or at the very least separate bedrooms. Dh & I have separate bathrooms.i don’t think it’s that unusual. They’ve just adapted the marital homes when their kids have gone. My childhood bedroom is now my dads. If it works & all that...

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