I’ve come home muttering ‘sour-faced bitch’ to myself but actually nearly crying and wondering if there is truth in this comment. Trying so hard to build my confidence around clothes but wondering if I got this all wrong. Please tell me!
Walking dog, still warm here, we walked through park and along beach, with a few hundred yards along the high street to get back into park on way home. On the high street part I met this woman who I used to be friends with, mainly as our DDs went through a spell of being BFF for a few years about 15 years ago. Anyway, I’ve got on navy Boden chino shorts (4inch leg), Hush burgundy lighting bolt tee and Nike trainers. I’m also wearing hair so I really didn’t think I looked out there at all. Her first comment was ‘oh, like the tee, presume it’s pinched from DD?’, then a few minutes later when I commented on the weather she agreed that it was boiling and ‘I wish I had the nerve to wear shorts. I gave them up years ago though, just couldn’t carry them off once I was past 35’. This woman is at least 10 years younger than me, and has been a size 10 all the time I’ve known her. I really felt she was telling me I was too fat and too old to be out dressed like that. I know the whole ‘wear what you want’ thing, but I really don’t want to look ridiculous either. Is this an outfit for the garden only?