Aw, have been following this thread off and on, and somewhat horrified by some of the responses, OP. I haven't lost my hair through chemo, but I'm bald because of alopecia. I know how hard that has been to deal with, and that's hair loss without all the scary feelings and the reality of chemo to cope with as well. I wear wigs all the time, so my faux-hair radar is set pretty high, and I would not have considered that was a piece. So while I understand wanting your own hair back, this is also 'your own hair'. You may not have grown it from your head, but it's yours - and it looks as if it belongs to you. It doesn't look false, it doesn't look like a hat, it's doesn't look ugly. None of these things. The one really brilliant thing about faux hair is that you can have the style you want - so if you don't want this one, choose something else. But do it for you, not because someone made you feel bad. You look and sound like a lovely person, and I suspect you are also a very brave one. Be healthy, and never feel bad about your hair. Lots of good wishes.