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How do I stop looking so washed out? Help!

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disneydatknee · 14/02/2018 19:54

I've got quite pale skin and dark circles under my eyes. Whatever makeup I try, I always end up looking washed out and tired. Any tips? I used to like experimenting with eye shadows but now a days I end up looking like a clown as it just doesn't go with my skin tone. I'm blonde with blue eyes and 29 yo. I have pretty good skin, but uneven skin tone if I don't wear foundation. I'm going makeup shopping on Saturday so would like to try something new. Most of my makeup is benefit or Laura mercier. Help!

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AnaViaSalamanca · 14/02/2018 19:56

Look into bronzer and blush. Not wearing blush is a bad idea IMO. Also wear mascara.

Chocolateyescakeyes · 14/02/2018 20:05

How about some light fake tan, it can do wonders! Clarins golden glow booster is great, mix it with your regular moisturiser and you can go as light or dark as you want.

JennyHolzersGhost · 14/02/2018 20:07

Blusher.

wheresmyphone · 14/02/2018 20:07

Came on to recommend the Clarins stuff and been beaten to it. Fab stuff. Lasts ages.

TheOneWhoKnocks · 14/02/2018 20:08

Benefit Dandelion. I put it over blusher when I want to look like one of the living...

RiskIt4Biscuit · 14/02/2018 20:11

A foundation that suits you.
If you have dark circles, then a concealer (and corrector if needed).

Blusher makes a massive difference.

I also think that mascara and brows help. I have really light coloured brows if I don't tint them/use brow products, and if I don't do anything to my brows, I look really washed out.

Alienspaceship · 14/02/2018 20:13

Take your courage in both hands and get your make up done at some of the counters Smile You will need to kiss a few frogs but if you try a few you should end up with some products that look good on you. (I hate it and feel self conscious but do it once or twice a year and it’s worth it).

Ponyboycurtis · 14/02/2018 20:17

I'm pale Op & have many freckles, I use the Garnier face tan (spray) once a week, I never look orange but I do look healthier. I never get the same effect with just bronzer/blush. Also, I need mascara,lip stain and lip balm every day as I'm so pale (my brother says I'm almost see-through Blush).

disneydatknee · 14/02/2018 20:50

I use blush and bronzer but I don't think I'm doing it right. It doesn't really match my foundation. Dare I go makeup free entirely and approach the makeup counters?! I used to love the Laura mercier high coverage concealer that came in a tube but it's been discontinued. I cannot seem to find another concealer that fully covers my dark circles. Have researched colour correctors to use underneath concealer but can't find anything decent. In my early 20s I could use high street anything and look nice but it's so much harder now! Is it my kids? I'm blaming the kids.

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WipsGlitter · 14/02/2018 21:09

Are those glow drops any good if you are really, really pale? Would it not leave your neck white and your face tinted? Or do you do face and neck (including the back of the neck)

halfwitpicker · 14/02/2018 21:11

You need to wear colours that suit you...

Your skin and hair sounds similar to mine : wear jewel colours, they'll make you look less washed out.

halfwitpicker · 14/02/2018 21:12

Also, a blob of fake tan on your face every day does wonders I find...

Mistoffelees · 14/02/2018 21:14

Wear lipstick. I always look washed out and don't look alive until I've put some.lipstick on. The Barry M lip kit Runway is easy to wear and long lasting.

PaperdollCartoon · 14/02/2018 21:15

Hourglass Ambient Lighting Powder, this one, all three all over your face. Life changing.

How do I stop looking so washed out? Help!
Nearlythere35 · 14/02/2018 21:16

Hi. I had this problem, little baby not enough sleep. I use bobbi Brown serum corrector and Clarins concealer, also Clarins flash balm underneath a Dior foundation. Bronzer definitely helps too and a good mascara, I use Lancome hypnose. This is really helping and although it's not a complete cure is a lot better. I'm also using some La Roche Posay products, including something with hyaluronic acid to help with dehydration and in the evening their retinol product to help with fine lines.

Chocolateyescakeyes · 14/02/2018 21:21

wipsglitter I am really, really, really pale and it work wonders. I put it on my neck too, although it is quite subtle so I doubt it would look too obvious if I didn't apply to my neck. Ponyboycurtis I used to use the Garnier spray, but found some of them didn't spray properly and so did some research and found the Clarins one which I find is better and works out cheaper, although marginally more of an effort to apply, however has the added benefit of moisturising at same time.

keeponkeepinon · 14/02/2018 21:27

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Chocolateyescakeyes · 14/02/2018 21:31

I use the body one on my face now as it's better value, exact same ingredients on the bottle, the counter lady said the same thing. Reckon it's just marketing.

CotswoldStrife · 14/02/2018 21:39

I look so much better when I dye my eyelashes.

GlitterGlassEye · 14/02/2018 21:48

I’m pale too but with almost black hair. My dark circles make me look deathly but when I can be bothered to put some light fake tan on, it makes a huge difference. I don’t even need to bother with as much makeup on my skin, just a little concealer and a bit of blush.

SukiTheDog · 14/02/2018 23:07

For those of us with a bloodless, Nosferatu vibe, you have to do blush. I look like death without my. Obvi Brown Telluride which I use as blush and a cool pink lippie. Eyeliner (optional) but always....mascara.

You can drink all the H2o you want, it won’t give a pale lady the “glow” that a decent blusher does.

SukiTheDog · 14/02/2018 23:10

Apologies.... some autocorrect fuckups ther.

FlopsyMcDoodle · 14/02/2018 23:13

I have very similar skin colouring. Kevyn Aucoin concealer is fab. I use it everyday and I’m only halfway through a tiny pot that I got over a year ago.

EnidButton · 15/02/2018 14:11

Blusher and a pink or red toned lipstick. (Not a 'nude')

Bobbi Brown do Brilliant blushers and their shimmer bricks are very good for adding a subtle glow. I've found them to be the best for doing make up lessons and giving advice etc if you want to go to a counter.

I personally don't use tan as I'd have to use it all over and I don't like the look of it. I think because I'm cool toned naturally so it looks a bit odd.

theunsure · 15/02/2018 14:16

TheOneWhoKnocks

Benefit Dandelion. I put it over blusher when I want to look like one of the living...

Absolutely agree with this. I am really pale but love this product. It makes me look alive without seeming to add much in the way of colour.

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