I have the worst hair ever. Please please help me sort it! I actually feel ashamed to leave the house!

[Ihatemybarnet]

My hair is very thin, very fine. I can't have a fringe. It won't lie flat. The sides won't lie straight - it sticks up in whispy bits. It can't go longer, it looks witchy. I haven't had much success with it shorter. I don't have the time to go to the hairdresser regularly, plus I really have a fear of hairdressers akin to he dentist.

It's dyed but lots of gray underneath.i can't decide if I should go gray or continue to dye. It is so fine and flyaway. And I can't get any volume in it. Plus at the front there are many teeny baby hairs which never grow longer. I've left some of my face in the picture, so you can get an idea - I look so old and horrible, and my awful hair is just exacerbating the overall horrid look

Is there any cut or colour or treatment anyone can suggest? I'm really desperate.

[EvelynWardrobe]

This stuff is fab, super cheap and plumps my hair right up.