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DP Shaving

54 replies

sxround · 01/07/2017 16:55

At times I have felt like the only woman in living memory that has never undertaken some form of beauty regime down below if you know what I mean (!). Anyway, I am going to take the plunge and whip it all off once I have settled on which cream to use. My DP has offered to do it for me which I quite like the idea of, however I would be interested to know if anyone else lets their significant other undertake such an intimate job and if it is pleasurable?

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PratStick · 01/07/2017 17:14
Hmm
BlahBlahBlahEtc · 01/07/2017 17:21

Erm.. I'm not sure where to start really. Is this a sex thing or a beauty thing?
The pleasurable bit threw me. Hmm

BlahBlahBlahEtc · 01/07/2017 17:22

Wait ..are we talking "waxing"?

Migraleve · 01/07/2017 17:23

You think people will find hair removal pleasurable Confused

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sxround · 01/07/2017 17:26

Very much a beauty thing......
I cannot face waxing (or any of the other gruesome sounding methods available) but getting DP to do it is an option. I am slightly larger than average and not always straightforward.

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PratStick · 01/07/2017 17:27

Yeah op, dh got me by the short and curries and then ripped em out. Was well sexy.

PratStick · 01/07/2017 17:28

My DP has offered to do it for me which I quite like the idea of, however I would be interested to know if anyone else lets their significant other undertake such an intimate job and if it is pleasurable?

AfunaMbatata · 01/07/2017 17:28

There are forums for this type of kink I'm sure.

PratStick · 01/07/2017 17:29

op's parents probably put a filter on his computer

bananafish81 · 01/07/2017 19:53

Hahaha

Well whatever your kinks, mate

(I use an electric razor then Lumea, which involves me + bathroom floor + small mirror. can't quite get the perineum as smooth as when I used to get Hollywood bikini waxes, but no fucking way am I asking DH to pluck strays from my bumbeard thank you very much.)

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sxround · 01/07/2017 20:31

Shame people feel the need to turn this into something sexual.
Guess I will have to keep quiet. MN used to be quite good....

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SpongeBobJudgeyPants · 01/07/2017 20:37

We have a sex topic now...if you have been here long enough to post.

Migraleve · 01/07/2017 20:39

shame people feel the need to turn this into something sexual

Right then. Did you forget you said this.....

I would be interested to know if anyone else lets their significant other undertake such an intimate job and if it is pleasurable?

PratStick · 01/07/2017 20:48

Did anyone else read 'pleasureable' in their heads as a sort of 70s moustachioed porn star?

bananafish81 · 01/07/2017 21:18

Enter plumber to fix the washing machine stage left....

(OP you're the one who asked if it was a pleasurable experience to have your fanjo shaved by your partner. The rest of us either get a beautician to wax or shave ourselves cos there's fuck all sexy about hair removal)

AddictedToDrPepper · 01/07/2017 21:22

My exp shaved me once when i was heavily pregnant with DC1. No it wasn't pleasurable, got a couple of nicks in the process. Never happened again.

Justhadmyhaircut · 01/07/2017 21:24

Took immac on our wedding night away for dh. . His testicles were red raw and blistered. . Not at all pleasurable for him. . Wish I had chance to do it a few years down the line when I realised he was a twat!!

BlahBlahBlahEtc · 01/07/2017 22:13

Wish I had chance to do it a few years down the line when I realised he was a twat!!

Grin
AkimboLimbo · 01/07/2017 22:57

Trim it first then use an oil, not cream.
Yes it can be very pleasurable.

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sxround · 01/07/2017 23:22

Many thanks to those who have given positive advice.
I feel sorry for the rest of you who appear a little jaded and bitter with life for some reason......?
For many women, an anonymous forum like this is a lifeline if you do not feel confident enough to discuss in RL.

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AddictedToDrPepper · 01/07/2017 23:24

sx it's the fact that you asked if it would be pleasurable. Pleasure isn't something one normally associates with hair removal.

AddictedToDrPepper · 01/07/2017 23:25

Just GrinGrinGrin

JaneJeffer · 01/07/2017 23:42

I feel sorry for the rest of you who appear a little jaded and bitter with life Grin good one

bananafish81 · 01/07/2017 23:59

I feel sorry for the rest of you who appear a little jaded and bitter with life for some reason......?

If this is in fact a serious question, in the hundreds of threads on hair removal, I think you'd be hard pushed to find many people singing the praises of lady garden maintenance as an erotic activity

A serious answer - for most people, the prospect of having their partner holding their labia taut and going at them with a razor wouldn't be their idea of foreplay

If you want it all off, go and get a wax. Don't get a strip wax for the love of god. Get a hot wax - preferably a lycon wax. Barely hurts and you'll float out feeling AMAZING

Shaving doesn't get anywhere close to as smooth as a wax does. And regrowth is horrible.

The feeling of a freshly waxed downstairs - now THAT will get you in the mood

Your partner trying not to nick your perineum with a razor blade, not so much

sallysparrow157 · 02/07/2017 00:09

When I was 18 the bloke decided he liked the idea of a bit of lady garden pruning. Sadly we were in his bedroom in his parents house so couldn't do this with a razor and some soap in a nice private bathroom. So he went at me with a pair of scissors. I still have the scar!! (And it is one of my funniest (and least erotic) memories)