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The Crepertoire - put on your peignoir and get into the boudoir

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MrsSchadenfreude · 31/03/2017 08:39

And out of the armoire.

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Rudymentary · 11/04/2017 09:01

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magimedi · 11/04/2017 09:03

Love the idea of norks on the back!

This lot (used to be Braintree) do lovely tops - a bit pricey but I have had some for 3 years, worn & washed a lot & they look great. (And they have 10% off first buys)

Sea Salt are another make I like.

For T shirts I usually buy mens as they are much longer & better made. Am quite fon of H&M basic ones.

herbaceous · 11/04/2017 09:05

MI, I take great joy in just sailing through DP's grumpiness (not just confined to mornings) by erecting a cheery deflector shield, and always just slightly, on purpose, missing the point of any sulking or barbed questions. Well, I say 'joy', I mean PA smirk.

Cloud - I'm embarrassed to say I can't remember what course it was you've just got on. It was a few pages back that you mentioned it, and I'm senile.

Mrs S - have you booked that holiday yet? Leave colleague and lazy family to stew.

Day of domestic and professional serfdom here. Have to come up with an editorial plan for this mag, re-cover a chair, go to the supermarket, make an Anglo Saxon axe (badly enough that it looks like DS has done it), and do a trial run of the 'new regime' cycle to school with DS.

MrsSchadenfreude · 11/04/2017 09:13

Lalsy - have a look on the TK Maxx website. There is lots of Jaeger stuff on there reduced (have they gone bust?) - some quite nice Breton tops, among other things. I got some posh facial serum (Lierac) in TK Maxx from their reduced counter for about a tenner the other month. It is £120 elsewhere. Shame it's nearly finished and I can't afford to replace it. Ah well.

DD1 is not sure she wants to go to university. But she can't make a decision about anything (apart from not to go to Ayia Napa on the "senior trip" as she doesn't want to "just get drunk all the time", which seems sensible to me). I didn't go (to university or Ayia Napa!), and it didn't do me any harm, although it has prevented me from getting other jobs, all of which seem to use a degree as a sift. I remember having an odd conversation with HR in an organisation, who told me I fitted the criteria perfectly, but as I had no degree, they couldn't accept an application. If I had had a degree in mime or cross stitch, or other completely irrelevant subject, I'd have got an interview. But no degree, no interview.

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herbaceous · 11/04/2017 09:14

Lalsy - Uniqlo are good for no-nonsense clothes, though can be a bit ungenerous in the bosom department. Gap, also.

I have another question. My new job requires such an early start that I'm thinking breakfast could be consumed at work, in the form of a smoothie. This is making me wonder if I should get one of those NutriBullet devices, once again joining a trend about two years too late. Do any crepeys have one? Are they worth the money (though I'll probably get one second-hand)?

Rosebag · 11/04/2017 09:17

[[www.whitestuff.com/womens/tops-tees/jersey-tops/carnation-pink-stripe-nolon-jersey-tee/ pretty top

lalsy this top popped up on my fb feed recently and it looks lovely for summer. I will look for some more. I absolutely loathe the cold shoulder tops around ATM. Very happy for a bit of S&B amid the challenges, stress and gloom.

Well done indeed cloud. I sense optimism in your post which can only be a good thing!

Poor DDog...Rudy. the whole uni thing is so vexed. dC having to make big life decisions at an age where they are at their most fickle.

I feel really unwell and am going to have the morning in bed, having cancelled writing with ConS. I have more cooking to do for tonight's Passover service and meal and I just can't face it yet. Last nights one went on til after 11. I am praying that I'll be better tomorrow as we're off to the flat. I need to get there.

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Blackduck · 11/04/2017 09:27

I take posh yoghurt with a handful of granola Herbs. I find it filling.....
Fingers crossed for DHound Rudy.
Catch up in a bit - on my way out.

herbaceous · 11/04/2017 09:27

I'm just not sure how much time there will be for eating when I get there, that's the thing. I get there at 8, lessons start at 8.30, and I can't be sitting there in a classroom with some porridge. If I have a smoothie in a cup/bottle, I can chug it back at my convenience!

I am already addled by choice. Four types of NutriBullet, a Magic Bullet, and now you tell me about a Nutri Ninja?

motherinferior · 11/04/2017 09:46

Rose, darling, let them cook.

I am editing this thriller into shape. Apparently I have 'carte Blanche to make it readable'. Well, I'll do what I can. Within budgetary constraints, ahem.

herbaceous · 11/04/2017 09:55

I'm writing an editorial plan. But I don't really understand the subject matter. I can feel a lot of commissioning coming on...

hattymattie · 11/04/2017 10:23

Nice tops Rose, I'm not keen on ordering online from the UK as it's such a faff to send back. Probably no bad thing as I'd be at it all the time otherwise.

Mrs S - Jaeger are indeed bankrupt. I feel a bit sad as DM used to like to browse (although she rarely bought) there. I think all those brands - Jaeger, Alexon, Windsmoor have gone.

Re university - I naively though that degrees are useful if applicable to the job you're doing or to help get the first couple of jobs. After that I rather assumed it was what you had done since. I find it incredible that in your 40's and 50's you degree or lack of is still a shortlist criteria.

Have waved off DD2 on the Eurostar, complete with massive suitcase (almost bigger than her) and weird clothes. She really seems to have come on. I'm so hoping she succeeds in these exams which will give her the confidence she needs to stand entirely on her own two feet. She needs to know she can do it.

Hope DDog is a little better Rudy.

Seems very empty at home now - only me and Adrian Mole (DS). Trying to get him to activate himself in any small way is like drawing teeth. Quite looking forward to back to work as nearly all my friends that would normally be available for adult and sane chat have inconveniently gone on holiday.

Stropperella · 11/04/2017 10:40

Rudy, I have my fingers crossed for ddog. Hope she perks up today.
Re: university - I have completely re-educated myself on this subject and dismantled several of my outdated ideas. There are ways of getting a degree that do not involve university e.g. doing higher level apprenticeships, which will also get you valuable work experience and leave you without any student debt. And there are plenty of A* students who choose this route. I know many of dd's friends who got As and Bs in their A levels who have not opted for university, or who are taking the "I'll work for a while and consider my options" route. Whilst a degree is used as a filter for many job apps, it is also worth noting the huge number of graduates working in jobs that don't really require a degree. Of course, I would say all this, wouldn't I, given certain, er, things, wouldn't I? But actually, I'll also now be encouraging my ds to take a broader view than just looking at the traditional university route.

bigTillyMint · 11/04/2017 10:50

Completely agree with Stropps.
My cousin's son decided to take a gap year before thinking about uni and got a job in something financial. He loved it and never went to uni, but has climbed the career ladder happily.
A gap year with some relevant work experience might also help firm future ideas.

DD is still planning to go to uni in September (given the right grades!) but still has the possibility of a gap year on the back burner.

Now might be a good time to snap up a Jaeger bargain?!

Stropperella · 11/04/2017 11:38

I've had cause to remind myself that my academic pathway wasn't exactly smooth. Because I didn't enjoy any of it, really, despite being labelled "very able" (haha). I went (as previously mentioned many a time) to a very academic boarding school to do A levels, hated it on every level possible, got very good A level results, school invited me back to do what was then called "7th term Oxbridge entrance", and I declined, resisting HUGE pressure from every quarter.
My df was extremely disappointed and never got over the fact that I opted to go to what he termed a "jumped-up polytechnic" rather than even try to get in to Oxbridge. Aside from any other considerations, I knew that the kinds of traditional degrees offered in Mod Langs at that time were not for me, and I wanted to go to either Bath or Herriott Watt to do Mod Langs instead. I had offers from Exeter and UCL and can't remember where else, but Bath was my preferred choice, despite epic moaning and dissing from the school and my family. However, when I got there, I realised I fecking hated academic study of all kinds. Did the bare minimum of work for the first year. Didn't even set foot on campus for 4 months before exams in the second year, because I was too busy having a good time working at the theatre. Did badly in exams, but not badly enough to be chucked out, but that was only because I had a very lovely personal tutor who argued with me and with other lecturers about what exactly was going on. Went off on year abroad where I did no work except for my dissertation, but came back fluent in German thanks to my sleeping dictionary. Decided to actually do what I was supposed to in the final year and got firsts in enough stuff to balance out the appalling marks from the rest of it to bring grades up to get an acceptable degree. And then left university still not knowing what I wanted to do, as the milk round left me cold, so went back to Germany to live with the sleeping dictionary again and pretend to be a student for another year, while actually working for cash-in-hand. Don't actually feel like the degree was much of an achievement. In fact, it would be a fraudulent claim if I said it was.

A few years later, I applied to Oxford to do my PGCE and was accepted, but a few weeks later I was offered a place in an NHS specialist treatment centre for eating disorders. I chose the psych ward over Oxford. Grin But apparently they take "any old person" at Oxford for post-grad stuff - as I was informed by someone with 2 Oxbridge undergrad degrees (and dodgy social skills).

Ironically, my df desperately wanted me to do the kind of job MrsS does. At which I would have been vvvvvvvv bad. Would not have even got as far as the interview for an entrance level job, I am sure.

motherinferior · 11/04/2017 11:41

I bloody loved academia. I don't mean just in an 'I should have been like my parents' way - I just really enjoyed it.

motherinferior · 11/04/2017 11:42

And then had NO IDEA what to do and drifted rather hopelessly before finding out slightly by accident that there was something I was ok at (and worked of course for a Fabulous Boss Grin).

Lalsy · 11/04/2017 11:52

Oooh thank you, all. Like that website Magi, a new one to me. And I don't find TK Max or White Stuff too hideous to go to so will do that.

Uni - that's quite a lot to get the family brain around, Rudy. Over-rated doesn't sound like the nub of it (it may well be, but that doesn't mean not worth it, necessarily??)...And dd - does she know what she wants to study, if she can? My dc school (which is v university-focussed) told us last year there are more "learn as you earn" options now, and plenty of academic dc take them. Some of the big employers that traditionally recruited via the sort of third-year events that made me want to hide in a cave have introduced school leaver schemes too. But, as one one of ds' teachers tactlessly said at parents' evening, university can give you a chance to grow up and learn to have fun properly before grim reality of work hits. It is all very interesting and confusing but the main thing to me seems to be to make decisions for positive not negative reasons. Enthusiasm and knowledge not fear and ignorance.

Speaking of which, as well as some tops without holes in, I would like to do something different (ie not me sitting at my laptop on my own) work-wise but have few ideas....

Collymollypuff · 11/04/2017 12:45

Like Stropps, I have a forced pragmatic view that not getting a degree via uni may be a far better route.

Buy clothes, everyone, it's Spring, yay. Hope you recover quickly, Rose - rest up!

Funny you mention fabulousness, MI. Grin I have taken to shutting up the negative guilt thoughts ('It's all my fault! I should've done X!') by countering with 'You're fabulous!' I find it sufficiently over the top to defeat the guilt voice...but I'll report back on whether it works longer term.

Lalsy, dc are only here for 2 weeks; gf only here till Monday, so I'm making the best of it. I do love having a houseful of Young People.

MI, I love your tale of pass-agg breakfast. It makes me feel better about awful hostile breakfasting here, when there are no young people to lighten the mood. Although the dog does good work in that respect - we can always have a laugh at his daft face. Hope your ddog is better, Rudy.

Stropperella · 11/04/2017 12:58

Ooh, yes, MM, I like that site!

In addition to my burbling post above (which is really just navel-gazing, as I mull over recent events in my immediate environment), I'd like to add that I would have been better off doing entirely different A levels and following a more sciencey path, as that's what I'm really interested in and probably would have enjoyed at university, but also found more challenging. I've got an ear for languages, but hate studying literature and writing essays. Changing schools at 16 meant I wasn't allowed to change my A level options from the subjects that I had taken school entrance exams in back in the January of Y11. I did try to drop out of university, but wasn't tough enough to go my own way, like MM.

Lalsy, I entirely agree that decisions should be made for positive not negative reasons, but sometimes the definitions of positive and negative can be rather subjective, I feel. Certainly my df's takes on positive and negative were not the same as mine. And dd's also differ from mine. And may not be entirely wrong Grin

motherinferior · 11/04/2017 13:10

Accentuate the positive! Eliminate the negative

I have sneaked off for lunch with a friend as (a) it's Easter I may have stopped in hotel choc en route (b) her mum died recently so need to be Supportive Friend. I may even support her in a glass of wine. I'm supportive like that.

motherinferior · 11/04/2017 13:12

In S&B news I have taken delivery of some retinoid serum from that new cheapo The Ordinary site. I shall report back if there is any marked de-crepitization.

hattymattie · 11/04/2017 13:28

Stropps - I need to get you to talk to DD2 who is doing sciencey stuff and thinks she should be doing literature Grin.

I loved doing geography and geology, loved uni, would have stayed there all my life if I'd been clever enough to do PhD's etc.