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Be honest: what should I do?

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tigerdriverII · 08/01/2017 21:34

I am massively unphotogenic so ignore the bonkers look on my face.

What do you think I should do to look better? Skin, make up, hair: but no fillers or surgery.

Be honest: what should I do?
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pyjamasonbananas · 08/01/2017 21:36

I think you look lovely.

Catcrazy08 · 08/01/2017 21:40

I'd say brunette definitely , I am a hairdresser...

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tigerdriverII · 08/01/2017 21:41

pyjamas : that's very sweet of you. Maybe I should have named this thread: 'how do I stop looking bonkers in photos '!

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tigerdriverII · 08/01/2017 21:43

Cat. I'm naturally a very dark blonde but now plagued by white temples and salt and pepper roots. Going light blonde but not middle aged highlight helmet seems like the best option

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3strikes · 08/01/2017 21:45

You look lovely just as you are.

And you don't look bonkers, just friendly and approachable!

Batwomanrisesagain · 08/01/2017 21:45

I think you look lovely too, you have amazing skin with no lines. Do you wear makeup, your eyes would look amazing with makeup. Perhaps book a session at Mac or somewhere for up to date ideas?

EmmaC78 · 08/01/2017 21:47

You could go to one of the make up counters and get a make up lesson. I got a free make up lesson at the Bobbi Brown counter and they were really good and recommending colours to suit me (and did not pressure me in to buying anything).

I think you would look nice as a brunette too with perhaps some layers cut in so you could straighten it and make your hair look a but sleeker. I say this as a person who hardly ever has the energy to dig out the straighteners Smile

DorothyBastard · 08/01/2017 21:51

You look lovely. You could pull off a strong lipstick

Jayfee · 08/01/2017 21:52

Your face and skin look lovely. I think your hair needs taming a bit. Lots of products (I was going to try the horse shampoo in Boots (for humans) but not sure if it suits curly hair.

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tigerdriverII · 08/01/2017 21:52

Ooh, some great ideas here.

Have tried brunette, not very successfully, but TBH it would all be coverage now so I think tricky.

I'm wearing BB cream, mineral powder and eye makeup in the picture. Sounds like a trip to a good make up counter would be worthwhile!

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tigerdriverII · 08/01/2017 21:54

Horse shampoo!

I do straighten my hair but felt it had got a bit samey samey. It's about 3" longer if I straighten it!

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lougle · 08/01/2017 21:59

You've got lovely clear skin, and a really warm, kind looking face. I'd feel very comfortable meeting you, and you're not at all unphotogenic. Don't change too much, whatever you do. Be you.

thethoughtfox · 08/01/2017 22:03

Work with those waves but make it a bit more polished. Blow dry it smooth then wind bits round a cheap wand (Bayliss do one for £25) This=nk Claire for Modern Family.

Chickydoo · 08/01/2017 22:04

You are lovely!
Fab skin, amazing smile. A bit of frizz eaze in the hair ( I have exactly the same issue) if you wan't to tame it.
Your warmth shines out. don't change too much. 🍸

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tigerdriverII · 08/01/2017 22:14

Gosh:thank you all! I feel a bit choked up with all the unexpected nice comments!

Sounds like grooming the hair and a bit of eyes would make a difference.

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SleepFreeZone · 08/01/2017 22:15

I would use product in your hair to eliminate the frizz.

burnishedsilver · 08/01/2017 22:16

Babyliss Big hair.

Twogoats · 08/01/2017 22:17

You look very friendly and happy. You have a lovely natural blush in your cheeks.

I think you could wear a bit of mascara/ eyeliner to bring out your eyes more? Try it and see. Smile

Bestthingever · 08/01/2017 22:20

I love your bouncy hair! I wish I could get my hair to look like that. However I'd consult a good hairdresser about the colour. I think you need a colour that adds some warmth.

Pinotwoman82 · 08/01/2017 22:20

Don't go brunette, it looks lovely as it is, maybe just tame it a bit? I've been to Clinique for a makeover and tips before and found they were very good. I'd love to try Bobbi brown but there isn't one near me.

blowmybarnacles · 08/01/2017 22:20

I would love to have your hair! I would make the most of those curls.

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tigerdriverII · 08/01/2017 22:25

Right: going to sort out a makeover. My hair's particularly frizzy as I had little time to dry it this evening: only wash it once a week as it takes aaaaages to dry and style but I can tame it reasonably well when I have time. I've never really bothered with makeup but maybe should have a go at getting it right!

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Katelocks · 08/01/2017 22:29

I think you look lovely too. You could also try a keratin treatment to smooth your hair down (mine is similar to yours and this has worked miracles in making me look more done).

Maverickismywingman · 08/01/2017 22:31

You look lovely. A conditioning treatment on your hair every so often but tbh I wouldn't change anything

ChishandFips33 · 08/01/2017 22:35

You look lovely! Very friendly and bubbly Smile
There's a thread about frizz and conditioner-washing that might help your hair

Maybe define your brows and eyes a little more??

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