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A Crepey Advent-ure

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MontserratCaballe · 21/11/2016 18:21

Over here, my darlings....

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addle · 02/12/2016 19:52

BTM - I'm so sorry. Glad you're getting a night out.

Cocoa - there's a surprising amount to do I think plus quite a lot of adrenaline. Look after yourself

Lalsy · 02/12/2016 23:13

Yes, Cocoa, quite right, avoid run hide.

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MrsSchadenfreude · 03/12/2016 10:17

BTM - sorry it wasn't better news for your DS.

Rudy - shingles is grim and so painful. I'd second immune system boosters (particularly one that comes recommended as working) - they seem to speed up recovery time from shingles, glandular fever and other "hits you when you're run down" sort of illnesses.

Yay to perfect job, Herbs! Is it Caravanners Monthly? Flat Pack Special? Paintstrippers Digest? Grin I am contemplating a move to Foreign Parts (half heartedly thinking about putting in job applications anyway).

In S & B news, my 12% glycolic souffle night cream appears to have been discontinued, or only available in the US at vast expense. Any ideas for a replacement? I have also lost my facial epilator, so am sporting a lovely beard. All I need now is a red hat. Ho ho ho.

herbaceous · 03/12/2016 10:55

Perfect job is as yet a twinkle in my eye. I have to go through the usual humiliating process of 1: spend a day writing application letter and tweaking CV 2: Not hearing anything back OR 3: having an interview and failing to get job.

I'm getting mighty pissed off at the amount of emails etc that come to nothing. That school who wanted me to teach my workshop? Gone quiet. My potential tutees? No answer. Plain English Campaign to whom I offered my services? Zilch. I mean how long does it actually take to type 'please go away'.

This terrier is losing its mojo.

Bit worried about DP. He's been working until 10 every night this week on super high-powered conference, and now he's visiting MiL. As he left I gave him a hug and he cried. And tomorrow he's working. And meanwhile I'm just doing nothing.

Anyway, all this is but nought compared to so many other crepeys and their tribulations. BTM - so sorry news re DS isn't what you'd hoped. Is it a case of going backwards to go forwards? And Cocoa - just do what you need to get by. Those outstretched arms and tilted heads can be called upon when you need them.

Don't think I can do lunch on 10th. Have school xmas fair, then long-booked trip to Santa in Chingford. This might be the last year of 'believing', so want to make the most of it!

S&B-wise, my skin is drier than the sahara. Maybe I need one of those sheet mask things.

MrsSchadenfreude · 03/12/2016 11:17

Herbs - I can recommend the sheet masks (although mine dripped distressingly into my ears) for a quick boost.

Cremolafoam · 03/12/2016 11:26

Mrs S this Vichy one has glycolique in it

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Cremolafoam · 03/12/2016 12:11

and this one too Mrs S. Although a bit spendy.

Wow Rudy. I am 'testing' today's offering as we speak.Grin

There is a queue of about 100people at the garden centre hereabouts, for fresh Christmas Trees. Surely the trees will be wilted by the 25th? Seems today is a big tree putting up day.

MrsSchadenfreude · 03/12/2016 13:04

I am thinking about getting this one Crem, though the Vichy one looks good (and cheaper). Have just ordered this one with retinol and will see how I go with that.

wordassociationfootball · 03/12/2016 13:35

In queue to return things to Primark, surely close to the nadir of human endeavour.

9 of the 10 editors passed on my book. Expect same from 10th. Many lovely comments that mean nowt at mo. Agent will submit to the further 6 in new year, but the 10 were where the money is.

Feeling surprisingly resilient. I loved writing the book so much: it was a wonderful puzzle for myself and pushed me beyond what I was capable of. Sad obvs and maybe or not something will come off with next 6. All will be well though.

I like the Rodial peel from calendar and skin feels great.

Happy Saturday Crepeys.

My mum got shingles when in Dingle.

Rosebag · 03/12/2016 14:34

Do not...NOT give up waf. There is an editor there looking out for you. I do know what you mean by enjoying the process.... it will happen Flowers. Hang on in there xxx

Same with herbs don't give up. Keep knocking on doors. So sorry that Dp is distressed. He obv needs you. And you aren't doing nothing. More bolstering when we get together....

I am intrigued by the rodial peel and today's little beauty which is supposed to work on my wrinkles. DD handed both over to me in disgust. I will sample on my return. I am now sitting in a hotel bar having arrived earlier and will go to Ds2s concert tonight. He's in rehearsals so I may mooch around the Bull Ring for a bit. Am being an insufferable princess and getting taxis everywhere.... Blush well ...there's a black cab rank opposite. It'd be rude not to...

cocoa how are you? I too hated people giving me funereal looks but don't isolate yourself totally. Flowers I am thinking of my Ddad today, it's the religious memorial weekend. DM seemed a little Hmm that I'm not home to light the candle and kept saying DH had to light it for me on the right day. I am resolved to light it when I get home tomorrow in my own time. I am not lighting it today just because some smelly rabbi says I have to. it would set off the smoke alarm if I did it in the hotel

Mi did you get north of the border ok? There is monumental disruption on trains going north of the border from Euston although kings cross seem a fine!

Cremolafoam · 03/12/2016 14:53

Rosebag quite right about the candle.
Its not as if you aren't thinking the thoughts. I have lighted one today too, for my darling brother who would have been 57 today. Having been having a lot of ( mainly drug induced) dreams about him lately. Ah , so it is.

Waf, stress not. The right person will come along. Shingles in Dingle is hirarious. You must incorporate that into next book somehow.Grin

I have bajed lemon and raspberry financiers dontcha know. The Madeleines sold out on Thursday night, so am enjoying minor triumph. They charged 75p each so raised about £500 yo!

Blackduck · 03/12/2016 16:07

I went to do the Christmas shopping and managed:
Posh dog biscuits for, worm the dog,
Simply Nigella (6 quid) for me
Lunch with ds
And, erm, zero, zilch, nada, presents.......

Ho hum.....

I am very tired and Dmum is much in my thoughts. Even ds said said 'Christmas doesn't seem very planned this year'.

Blackduck · 03/12/2016 16:27

WAF hang in there - can you send me a copy to read (promise I'll buy one when its published :) )

motherinferior · 03/12/2016 17:02

I did get north and now know more about my Scottish Botanist. Is very lovely here. Though am also swamped with (a) present work (b) worry about future work.

WAF, keep going. As we all know it is a commercial business not a test of literary merit.

Herbs, the Garnier moisture sheet mask is terrific and only costs £1.49 full price and you ought to be able to pick it up for 99p.

Stropperella · 03/12/2016 17:02

Dd is very pleased with the peels etc of the M&S calendar, as I knew she would be. They would all just trigger my rosacea, which is why I didn't get one for myself. I got dh a cheap chocs advent calendar, as he has never had any sort of advent calendar in his life. He was like this -> Grin

Waf, sorry you've had no positive responses so far. I'm hoping no. 10 will be the one to come good.

Rudy, I hope dh is feeling better soon. My dh had shingles when the dcs got chickenpox when ds was still a baby. I remember all three of them being extremely crabby and whiny, and I struggled to deliver appropriate levels of sympathy to all after about day 3.
Hope your ds2 has had a good term, despite the homesickness. And I hope ds's scan goes OK.

Well done on your baking sales triumph, Crem! How's the kitty search coming along? Are you looking for one or two?

I am having a late-afternoon oloroso, and contemplating getting some Christmas tat out of the loft cupboards. Am also contemplating cleaning out the hamster's sleeping quarters, as this job has not been done for weeks and it is now possible that the neighbours can smell him when we open the windows. In my defence, he does not like me cleaning his house and sulks for about a week afterwards. When you only live 2 years, a week is quite a long time to be in a massive grump.

Dd is buying my little car off me, and I am getting a nearly-new automatic. This has meant plundering the small amount of savings we have, and much belt-tightening, but I hope it will enable me to avoid back surgery for the next while at least. Dd is happy, as she has a bargain, and she is attached to the little car because she took her test in it.

Dd rang today to ask for present hints for ds and dh. Dh v chuffed that she is even thinking about him. He has sent me all sorts of links about car insurance to forward on to her, and she appears to have actually read them. She and her prospective housemates for next year are viewing a house with a garage next week. Shock

To give heart to those whose teens are currently struggling with MH issues: when I look back and remember how things were with dd this time last year... She had told her HoY she was leaving school; things at home were so unpleasant that ds was developing signs of clinical anxiety, and I was extremely fearful for dd's safety and welfare. Most of this year has been a painful and dreadful battle. I am sure there are further challenges around the corner, but I think she has managed to prove to herself this term that she can stand on her own two feet. And has also perhaps proved that she doesn't need medicating, but very much did need to leave school/home.

Stropperella · 03/12/2016 17:18

Enjoy Edinburgh, MI.

Herbs, I am so sorry to hear the updates about your Mil. And about your job-hunting frustration. KOKO, because something WILL come up eventually.

NUFC69 · 03/12/2016 17:19

Stropps, your paragraph about DD really made my heart sing; it's all so encouraging to read and, yes, there may be the odd trial or tribulation ahead, but you know that she can do it. Flowers

WAF, keep your chin up, it's amazing what you have done, and there will be somebody out there who will want to publish your book.

Rose, enjoy your performance tonight and do your remembering how you want to do it.

Herbs, poor DP and, you see, you do support him, so stop focusing on your monetary worth and concentrate your mind on that relationship.

I have been getting on with cards, etc., although DD came round this afternoon with the DC to help us eat up the pavlova and apple pie I made last night for our friends. I obviously need the creams from the Advent calendar as DGS2 looked at my hands and asked why I had wrinkles! Out of the mouths.....

Cremolafoam · 03/12/2016 17:37

Wow Stropps, all positive re dd-I am so pleased. I can't believe how well she sounds and how positive the move has been for her. There must be some kind of limit they have for living st home and it being unbearable. It did become that here with dd too, although when you are living through it, you can't see that the best thing for everyone involved would be for them to move on. Dd is moving a little more towards being so completely self centred I hope, but not quite yet at the stage of considering buying gifts for others. I don't think so anyway.
I know I spent a bit on my dp's when at uni as I noticed yesterday the vase I bought dmum in Liberty ( basement sale) for Xmas is still in use. ( quite amazed at both self and vase!)Xmas Grin

Have had foray to B&q with dh. I don't know which was more annoying. Dh running about like he'd never been in a shop before, or the zillions of folk buying, you guessed it , Xmas trees. Completely forgot they dealt in these or I would not have gone. Now ready to stab dh with a fork and have a lie down.Xmas AngryXmas Sad

Rosebag · 03/12/2016 17:56

crem Flowers for you....I didn't know you had lost a sibling xx

stropps lovely to have the positivity of your message.

I have come to the conclusion that I can't hack it in big crowds. Nevertheless, I have wandered around the Bull Ring, Grand Central and the German market. It's HEAVING. I have therefore scuttled back to the safety of my hotel, having satisfied myself as I feared, that much as I yearn for it, I will never have the right figure for Cos... I am consoling myself with too many cinnamon flavoured nuts from the German market and contemplating that point where I have to do something about the bloat. Gah...

IDismyname · 03/12/2016 18:05

Herbs - just keep that terrier instinct going. (Grrrrrrrrr....) - it WILL happen.

Rudy - what kind of 18th ideas? as in a 'famlee' kind of get together or an 18's only one?

BTM - sorry to hear the latest news. Hopefully there will be another step forward soon.

BlackDuck - I 'hear you' and your tiredness; you should be picking up on all the Crepey advice dished out in my direction - such as "Just do what you have to do to get by" (Thanks Herbs)

Stropps - more importantly - what colour is the new car?

I'm enjoying my advent calendar, although yesterdays offering would be the last thing I'd apply to my face - Mega Acid Face Peel? Errr, No.

However todays offering of a Time Filler looks just up my street; may have to order it by the bucket load if it does what it says on the tin.

I managed 2 hours of serving tea, coffee and mince pies in the church today. I only got pounced on once, by my very stiff upper lip neighbour.

I then chatted to several elderly ladies helping out, who were delightful. They had no idea, and I wasn't about to tell them. It was a lovely break.

Then got home, hugged the dog and burst into tears.

I need to get some of that Blinc mascara.

(Did you know those advent calendars are being listed on Ebay for £75?!)

IDismyname · 03/12/2016 18:07

Crem - Wine for you and Flowers for DBro

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Collymollypuff · 03/12/2016 18:39

Rudy, we did something like that RIB experience for our wedding anniversary, with ds and his gf - I got the idea from Beachy. It was really fab, and we all enjoyed it. Combination of a boat ride and a rollercoaster ride, plus sightseeing. I wouldn't mind another go.

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