Much sympathy to WAF for her abscess and MrsS's stomach problems. I continued to have stomach upsets after my gall bladder removal, by the way. The first one was two days after the op so I went to A&E as instructed by the ward sister. One of the things they did was to take blood and it was discovered I had raised levels of something or other. Because of this, over the following months every time I had an episode I went to see the health centre phlebotomist. Best thing I did because they couldn't ignore me: they eventually sent me for an MRI scan where it was discovered I had a stone in the entry to the bile duct. It was removed and I haven't had a problem since. Worth thinking about, MrsS?
I have been to my friend's memorial service today: the church was packed and people had difficulty parking. It was a lovely service, quite upbeat. Her choir sang The River Tyne which was her favourite song and friends, colleagues and family spoke about her life. The quote which affected me most was something which had been sent to Sally's DH - we can be surrounded by the love of family and friends, but the mind can still be lonely.
I am a bit
at the talk of funeral plans, although not for ageing parents. I occasionally make comments about having such and such sung at my funeral and think I want to be buried in a local churchyard so I can watch the sheep in the fields
but that's as far as it goes. Almost off topic, but similar, I know someone who walked down the aisle after his wedding to the Match of the Day tune.