Bd that sounds very healing to me. Just what your leave is meant for.
Tilly if you shop just over the state line in New Jersey there's no sales tax on clothing. At least that was the case when I was last there. 
Hooray for the return of the prodigal hamster. And for stropps improving work outlook.
cresset you are very nice about us! Glad you're here to stay. Where are the other newbies?
Aren't all relatives bonkers in one way or another? We certainly have had our fair share of gamblers, drinkers and unknown-about children crawling out of the woodwork. However in DMs generation all this was covered up saying "we don't talk about her/him" The first of her generation to get divorced was known as "Ex Auntie Mildred," spoken with a cats bum face. 
Oh monty you poor thing. I will text you back soon. I hope it'll sort out. Breathe, breathe....
I have taken DM out for breakfast today...what a time to try and celebrate her birthday. She did seem to enjoy it though but kept looking at her watch and all conversation led back to DDad of course. She just texted me that the Rabbi visited DDad at the home and DDad responded "appropriately" whatever that means. I texted back that if the rabbi visited me in hospital I would pretend to be asleep..... 
In other news I have spent the rest of the morning in a fruitless search for a chain link belt, 70s style for the party at the weekend. Will try Amazon.