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Black bra under white silk top?

44 replies

SwearySwearyQuiteContrary · 06/06/2015 10:03

Is it sexy and cool (as the mags would have me believe) or "obvious and trashy" (as opined by the ladies on ask yahoo)? Have no idea whether it is still an "absolutely not!" in the real world.

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noddyholder · 06/06/2015 17:42

I like it if done in a certain style

DosDuchas · 06/06/2015 17:43

snigger at red lip

Single - you ol ponce

DosDuchas · 06/06/2015 17:44

thats barely a top, tbf

DressingGownFrown · 06/06/2015 17:46

I do it. I'm slim, and 21 though if that helps... Blush

I also believe that black is better than any other colour showing through. It either has to be nude (i.e invisible) or black and plain, no lace etc, otherwise it does look accidental 'got dressed in the dark' or 'rough'. Also I wear it with a loose chiffon shit buttoned to the top and the rest of 'my look' toned down.

noddyholder · 06/06/2015 17:46

s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/736x/e6/3f/2e/e63f2e38319080997348b2c0e54b166c.jpg also like if you have the confidence

DressingGownFrown · 06/06/2015 17:48

Also, white is not 'invisible' and that annoys me. Everyone can see it. It looks bad.

DressingGownFrown · 06/06/2015 17:49

Ok, I'll stop after this one,
but I have a small chest which 'helps', I think it makes the 'look' less sexualised perhaps and the shirt/bra isn't straining at all.

FreakinScaryCaaw · 06/06/2015 17:53

No, it looks common, no matter what colour the lip is.

GobblersKnob · 06/06/2015 17:54

Meh, I do it, I like it, I sure ain't under 20.

I also wear vests with a huge cut away arm hole that show off a whole lot of bra, or tops with low loose scoops that reveal the top of a bra, it's not tit, so don't see what the problem is, people can see your bra? Shock horror I am wearing a bra.

Actually don't see the problem if you can see tits either, but I have very irritable nipples they would hate chaffing against a top Grin

FreakinScaryCaaw · 06/06/2015 17:54

DressingGown shit is never a good look Grin

noddyholder · 06/06/2015 17:55

Common :)

SinglePringle · 06/06/2015 18:38

I do personally think a bit of lived in eyeliner a la Chrissie IS minimal make up but each to their own.

valerie123 · 08/06/2015 22:48

Any sheer summer top is going to expose your bra straps, so I like to show that I am properly boobed-up and supported.

I typically like to wear a nice clean white bra, and I ensure the band is horizontal and my straps are vertical, with no twists. I don't want people to speculate that I am in the wrong size or that I didn't take care to fasten it properly!

I like to feel confident that I am firmly presented, with no risk of my boobs slipping out or mystraps slipping off. A visible back band and straps are then of no consequence.

Seriouslyffs · 08/06/2015 22:57

It's skanky.
And I'm not averse to a bit of bra strap showing- I rarely wear white bras as the straps go grey but wear lacy ones with colourful straps.

coffeenut · 09/06/2015 03:38

I've seen some women pull it off. Skinny, gorgeous women who are otherwise dressed very stylishly.

It's like anything really.

Eastpoint · 09/06/2015 05:05

Although the woman in the black leggings & shirt looks good I don't think she'd look good dressed like that going round Sainsbury's with a couple of toddlers or in an office. It looks very much like a going out for a drink in a scruffy bar in Mallorca where there aren't any flashing lights or tourists. Hard look to carry off in the UK.

50ShadesOfSummer · 09/06/2015 06:13

Night out, Yes. Work, No.

(I have been known to do this. Also black bra under black lacy top as well.)

SwearySwearyQuiteContrary · 09/06/2015 06:36

I had no idea it would cause this much controversy! I chickened out and went for a nude coloured bra.

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