hydeparkhottie - here is the thing though, and I'm really not trying to be harsh here. If you don't want to be ignorant about an issue - especially an issue as controversial as the fur trade - then you need to suck it up and actually do some research about it. It's kind of pointless to say "I want to know if it's really that cruel" but refuse to do a google search because you already know the sorts of things you will see!!
The documentaries will be just as gory as anything you can see online. They pretty much want to serve the same purpose as showing people the truth behind things. They don't try and pretty it up to allow for people's sensitivities. Blimey, "Our Daily Bread" is one of the most horrific documentaries I've seen (it's about the food industry not fur).
We have vintage fur coats at home (two, to be precise) which were my great grandmothers. None of us have ever worn them, and they might have even been thrown out.
Frankly, there is never any excuse to wear fur unless - at the absolute limit - you live in the depths of Siberia or in the arctic circle. Fur is cruelty at its most pronounced. It's completely and utterly pointless, very expensive, and based on the suffering and slaughter of large numbers of animals (how many mink do you think it takes to make one coat?) which often don't even feature in the food chain.
For people who compare fur to mass produced meat or battery eggs..it's a very tired comparison and doesn't even work very well.
How many people do you know that actively seek out battery eggs? I don't know anyone who eats battery eggs unless they simply can't afford to buy free range ones. The difference in price is undebatable. The same for shitty meat.
People aren't actively seeking out immoral products just for the fun and kudos behind them - they are buying those things because they can't afford the ethical alternatives. Sure, you could argue that if they can't afford the ethical stuff then they shouldn't be eating them at all, and to me personally that would be the ideal - but then you are denying people those things simply because of their level of income, which is pretty classist. Eggs especially are a staple product, and it's pretty difficult to find alternatives. Being a vegan for example is not a cheap lifestyle, and it takes a fuckton of time and effort (I tried being vegan and had to stop after a month). Unless you have the luxury of time to shop around, and to cook everything from scratch then it isn't a very practical diet.
Fake fur on the other hand is pretty much cruelty free (for animals at least), the coats and other clothing are often absolutely beautiful, and frankly, they ARE very warm if you go for decent quality. They are also an absolute fraction of the cost.
So what possible reason do people have to wear real fur? Absolutely none whatsoever aside from pretentious demonstrations of wealth and a complete lack of conscience.