curly haired mnetters, come and help me!

[JamaicanMeCrazy]

My hair is curly and a bloody mess half the time. I'm struggling to tame my mane. I've tried frizz ease, what next? It'd pretty dry too so how do you get it soft and make your curls pop? Getting wed next week and want my hair to look less like a homeless shelter for stray birds

Our water is really soft where I live Nancy.

I grew up in London and moved to the highlands when I was a teenager, the difference in the water is massive! It's not done my hair any real favours though, it's still tangly as he'll, just less 'squeaky' iykwim as there's less build up of chemicals from the water.

MyFirstName that is interesting. I always thought rinsing your hair until it was completely clean was the key to soft curls.

Nope - had definitely been "stripping" my hair iyswim - we do have the most amazing power showers though. And have quite a bit of grey these days under the colour But absolutely. Just leaving a bit of conditioner still there has helped with the flat-frizz that had resulted.