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Walking in a Crepey Wonderland!

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MrsSchadenfreude · 17/12/2013 01:01

I couldn't see that anyone else had started a new thread, after Stropps carelessly finished the old one without starting a new one, so here you are. Xmas GrinXmas GrinXmas Grin

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lalsy · 05/01/2014 15:34

Ooooh fantastic Wilbur, I will use adapt and present to my dc. It just isn't obvious to many people - including me if truth be told.

bigTillyMintspie · 05/01/2014 15:49

Thanks Wilbur - have just adapted it to an eight point plan for the DC and will laminate them tomorrow!
I do not hold out much hope that things will change, but at least I could use it as a definite checklist for them when things are looking grimSmile

Glad you mentioned school shoes, BD - DS's badly need cleaning!

Glad you got home OK CV.
Auriga, haven't seen you for a couple of days - hope you are OK? Flood-wise, I mean!

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motherinferior · 05/01/2014 17:35

God yes, Rudy. DP can be - and usually is - v pleasant and affable once forced into public but he is utterly anti-social by nature...

...apart from sodding t'ai chi which he is off to do again from next Friday. I am going to need that meet up!

Blackduck · 05/01/2014 18:07

Dp is very anti social... Happy with his own company...

originalpiratematerial · 05/01/2014 18:15

motherinferior, your house sounds like ours - one side of it is shipping water Shock

Nobody but NOBODY can be more of a fusspot about dishwasher-stacking than my (not-very-D)H rolls eyes

originalpiratematerial · 05/01/2014 18:16

Oh yes AND he is totally unsociable. One of his oldest friends is having a 50th birthday party next Saturday and he is whinging like mad about having to go to that and how tired he'll be next day. Diddums.

Blackduck · 05/01/2014 18:53

I wonder what would happen if we stuck them all in a room together Grin

Here lack of enthusiasm abounds... Chinese takeaway beckons...,

motherinferior · 05/01/2014 18:56

I am going to drink the last of the Hoegarden in front of Sherlock...though will have to de-nit DD1 first.

bigTillyMintspie · 05/01/2014 19:00

Hmm, DH is generally OK socially, but I do see a lot of my friends without him!

Back to the grind tomorrow, but at least it's an INSET day. DC are off - one planning to get her nails done (yes, uniform rules very lax at their school) the other planning to go up to Oxford Street with his mates, but is NOT going to buy anything. ApparentlyHmm

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herbaceous · 05/01/2014 19:25

Gah. Trying day with the Young Master. Decided to take him to see Frozen, so as a Special Treat got on the train, met up with DP, and collected our tickets at the Barbican. Only to be told it's the 3D version. Which is totally not OK for DS - it would be all weird and blurry for him. So we raced up the Central Line and caught a showing at South Woodford. All this time he was angelic. Then he had some post-showing ice cream, and turned into an utter shit. And has continued to be an utter shit all evening. Tempers have been lost, sweets thrown in the bin as punishment, and I may have just bodily lunged him into bed as his fourth return.

Two bloody inset days coming up. One of us may die.

I think he's becoming more aware of the eye issue. Says he doesn't want to wear his cosmetic shell, as 'no-one else does'. Can't decide how much to tell him about his condition, without giving him a complex.

motherinferior · 05/01/2014 19:55

DP is becoming obsessed with DD2's eating and I'm rather worried he's turning it into a Major Issue...

bigTillyMintspie · 05/01/2014 20:08

MI, DH is becoming obsessed with DS's eating (for the opposite reasonGrin) DS at the top of the normal range for BMI for his age/size and I'm rather worried he is turning it into a Major Issue too...

herbaceous · 05/01/2014 20:59

He got out of bed 17 (seventeen, XVII) times before going to sleep. The other night he was straight to bed. WTF?

MrsSchadenfreude · 05/01/2014 21:10

MI - that's the last thing you need. Can you get him to lay off at least until you've seen the GP?

I do not want to go back to work tomorrow. DD2 has gone back to school tonight, and DD1 goes back on Tuesday night. DD2 did not want to go back, but only, it transpired, because they limit internet usage at school and she will no longer be able to speak to her friend in Texas into the small hours...

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Stropperella · 05/01/2014 21:57

Herbs, dear me, was there something odd in the ice cream he had? Or do you think he's a bit antsy about going back to school?

Re: antisocial - I'm not sure who is more so, dh or me. Yesterday, the singer from dh's band wanted us to go with her and a few other people to see a band at a local pub - it was a last-minute thing and I'd just come back from being in town with the dcs, so said no. Dh said he didn't want to go if I wasn't going, so that was that. Apart from a brief coffee with a neighbour and her dcs (at her suggestion), I've not seen anyone other than immediate family for the last 2 weeks (not counting extended family on Xmas Day and Boxing Day) and I'm perfectly happy with that. I like a lot of space. Dh, dd and I are all the same, but ds not so much. He is more of an extrovert type who likes company all the time.

Sympathies to those with worries about their dc's diets. Ds would eat to excess all the time if he were allowed, so he is not allowed (cf: puking after being left unsupervised in the midst of vast numbers of cupcakes). I am currently debating putting a lock on the larder door. TBH, it might also help his father.

I am currently trying to be gently supportive to help dd get herself halfway ready for going back to school tomorrow. I have just looked at the school website and see that the deadline for 6th form applications is a week on Wednesday and I'm pretty sure dd has lost her application form. She will probably make an enormous song and dance about having to request another one, i.e. she will expect me to sort it out. Ho hum.

I had to spend some time drafting and redrafting an email to a cousin this afternoon, after receiving a raging and bitter communication from said cousin. He was diagnosed with lymphoma a few months after dh was diagnosed with cancer and he had to have horrid chemo etc. He decided he couldn't cope on his own and moved back in with his parents (he is 49, single, and his parents are nearly 80) during treatment. He sent graphic "newsletter" updates about his treatment and state of health to everyone in his address book every couple of weeks. TBH, much as I am fond of him, I found his constant "updates" really wearing, especially as we didn't have the easiest of years last year ourselves, one way and another. Dh was the polar opposite and told no one about his cancer and treatment. OK, cousin's chemo was very nasty, but lots of other people in a similar situation would not have the support he had, i.e. free food, accommodation, taxi service and a laundry slave for 6 months. He has had good scans and things are looking as good as they can do at this stage, but he is full of fury that hardly anyone went to see him whilst he was at his parents (in Surrey, so not near here), response to his newsletter was "poor" Hmm and in a particular rage with me because I didn't call him when he "could have died". I never call anyone, aside from my mother (and that's because I have to), which he well knows. Also, he wasn't close to death at any point last year. And when cousin calls me, he blithers on for up to 2 hours sometimes, usually moaning about the way some other relative slighted him 30 years ago, which is exactly why I don't call him. Also, he has turned into one of those people who "doesn't do Christmas" - fair enough, except that he requested that no one send him any cards, presents or invite him to any Christmas gatherings, but now is in a grump because no one contacted him.

Gah.

Stropperella · 05/01/2014 21:57

x-posts, Rudy. Oh my, that is rude of your guest. I would also be Angry

motherinferior · 05/01/2014 22:06

GAH to all of them.

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MrsSchadenfreude · 05/01/2014 22:27

Rudy - I had that done to me, except it was a friend who decided she was going to crash a work do of mine, for my team. We had 19 people, and you may think, well one more won't make much difference, but we could seat 19, at a squeeze, but not 20. She plonked herself in pole position at the table and directed the seating around her. It was all slightly awkward (not least because I was steaming mad) - the others all worked together, she worked in the same building, but for a different organisation and didn't really know anyone.

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