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Mn Vogue vol. 2

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MarshaBrady · 02/09/2012 11:25

For anyone who likes to talk about style, nice stuff that they've bought and so on.

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DonaAna · 13/09/2012 09:52

Marsha depends where you are and what kind of environment it is. Am going to a chichi one on Sat in Florence (fashion people), will report back. Went to a similar in Milan last spring and felt vastly underdressed.

Art/fashion etc are one thing (relaxed / edgy cool encouraged - your style will be fine). If it's an important art thing in a big-name place you'll get politicians / government people in suits too. Daytime booky/academic ones another thing (work clothes / frumpy looks fine, it's a black slacks/cardigans - jeans/blazers crowd, plus some suits and trouser suits), and corporate / advertising things yet another.

PS went once to a vernissage with DC at 10am (an artist friend does cartoon art and felt tip pen drawings). Dress code: rubber rainwear, runny noses and strollers Grin.

MarshaBrady · 13/09/2012 09:54

Oh they sound divine Portia thanks! Will google.

I like skinnies. But some of them have zero pocket opportunity. Love shorts with pockets too. Best dressed the other day was someone in grey charcoal shorts and white shirt with pale grey jumper. Good bag (can't remember what). But it was the crispness of the white shirt v the nonchalant city shorts. Need to recreate! I have some grey shorts which I love, but sadly no pockets.

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MarshaBrady · 13/09/2012 09:57

Thanks Dona I did quite a few about five years ago. And didn't think about it as much then. I remember overdressing for one, and under for the other! I need to get it right. It also has a tendency to make me more physically self-aware so need to be very at ease in what I choose.

Except for the time I had to wear sunglasses to give a talk because I hurt my eye. It was that or a pirate eye patch. It was a different language so didn't understand my explanation and people just thought it was a quirk. I'd rather not do that again Grin

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Bonsoir · 13/09/2012 09:59

I'm having a wardrobe crisis! I have a Ladies Who Lunch lunch at Ralph (as in the Ralph Lauren flagship store on boulevard Saint-Germain) and not enough new season clothes! And it's sunny but quite cold. Help! Trousers and heels?

MarshaBrady · 13/09/2012 10:00

Today Bonsoir. No time to shop?

yes sounds lovely, with silk shirt? Sounds utterly gorgeous btw. Would love to be doing that!

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MarshaBrady · 13/09/2012 10:15

And yes do report back Dona good for ideas!

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Bonsoir · 13/09/2012 10:17

Yes today. No time to shop. Have just glued up part of the strap of my silver Sergio Rossi wedge-heeled sandals and am thinking new season khaki Sophie d'Hoore trousers, last years dusky pink silk blouse and new Cos sleeveless grey wool coat...

MarshaBrady · 13/09/2012 10:22

Yep sounds perfect.

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Bonsoir · 13/09/2012 10:27

Not very original but sadly have no time or clothes to do better I think!

Portia4 · 13/09/2012 10:50

Dona if its not too much trouble, do you have any hotel recommendations for a winter (November) break in Tuscany, we are hiring a car and so are flexible, but are going to a concert in Florence so would like to include a night there, thanks.

Bonsoir · 13/09/2012 10:52

The focus on my wardrobe has led me to purge! Out go five pairs of unwearable winter trousers (to add to the two pairs of dead summer trousers I got rid of earlier this week). I shall soon having nothing to wear. I think part of the problem stems from the terrible summer we have just had: I ended up wearing my winter wardrobe until mid-July and bought very few new summer clothes this wear. When I look at last year's winter clothes they look (a) far too familiar (b) incredibly tired. So they must go. Hence I have nothing!

I must focus on all the wisdom on these threads before shopping, however.

MarshaBrady · 13/09/2012 11:19

I'm wearing something I wore this time last year. And it's like groundhog day. So dull.

Luckily at a new school otherwise it would be worse (people would remember at my old one). Although new school isn't as good style-wise. I need new avenues. Might have to go out even more.

Bonsoir we need your wisdom too, your new season stuff is always good. Enjoy lunch, say hi to the super Wink. I'd crumble under the pressure of that one Grin

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Hopefully · 13/09/2012 11:37

lol Marsha I went past our local primary school on the bus this morning and I suspect that It will make yours look like a catwalk. Although everyone looked v friendly and were chatting to one another, so am optimistic.

Have just bought these TS leggings (jeggings? Shock) and have ordered these wetlook ones to try. Also bought a couple of sweaters but cannot decide - they are nice shape, but manmade crap, but it seems almost impossible to actually get natural fibres atm.

DonaAna · 13/09/2012 13:45

Portia we have just decided to go back to Il Civettaio for a long weekend mid-Nov during olive picking time. Maremma is a less-known area of Tuscany - we love it because its relatively tourist free. We were at Civettaio last year and want to go back to stock up on their organic olive oil, wine and grappa, plus it's next door to one of the best wine areas in Italy. Weather can be cold at night during that time but the place has brilliant central heating that you can control plus big fireplaces. Another place that looked promising was Il Frantoio (have not been there, dates did not work out). I don't think I have ever spent a night in Firenze - have always been in just for the day (1.5 h from Rome on Frecciarossa / Italo bullet trains) or staying with friends.

Bonsoir your outfits sounds great. Simple things are sometimes best. Ladies who lunch can be intimidating but I don't think you'll have any problems fitting in.

DH came in for lunch, which I had forgotten to cook (work progressing well and extremely absorbing): thank God we have a hole-in-the wall in the garage of the neighboring house - potato pizza for all. He broke the bad news that he will have one more trip this month (to Malta). I don't mind because I've been planning a weekend trip to Paris (without family, with some friends). The more he travels, the more leverage I will have in the negotiations Grin.

Marsha, can understand feeling self-conscious in sunglasses but hey ho - you probably just looked the part. Wear gray sweatpants and the pirate patch for the next one? Wink People will just think you are very arty. DH once met an up-and-coming designer in a similar setting. She was wearing a cobalt blue muumuu and a matching felted helmet and looked like an extra from Star Wars. He found it difficult not to stare...

Just received a pile of packages - lovely new accessories, the vintage Pucci scarf is perfectly me. The green matches my Zatchel and my green COS dress exactly

MarshaBrady · 13/09/2012 13:53

lol Dona yes they probably thought it was what I do - wear sunglasses in brightly lit places Grin I'm going for simple. But good. Hell! that's quite hard.

Well done on travel to Paris with friends, how gorgeous. I'm meant to be going too in a couple of weeks but I think I'll wait for my family to come here to London instead. Mooch around shops together.

They look great Hopefully. Am sure mine are friendly I've met a few who definitely are. But I secretly miss the incredible amount of new stuff at last place. Ds2 will be in there soon will hang out for that Grin

Keep reading about the felted helmut and laughing.

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MarshaBrady · 13/09/2012 14:48

Pop hello! good to see you.

Well done on the interview. Sounds like a very intensive process. It's hard to start the updating isn't it, I need so much not sure where to start. But I will soon.

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MarshaBrady · 13/09/2012 14:49

Outfit sounds great.

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mignonette · 13/09/2012 15:37

Good Afternoon everybody -

Interesting debate on the benefits of High St versus 'designer. I do think that the definition of High St is becoming blurred these days with better made or limited edition ranges in so many stores. I've never bought from the designer collaborations with stores such as Hennes/\TopShop so cannot comment on their quality. The H&M 'Anna Del Russo' accessories range due out soon looks intriguing albeit a little 'vivid' for me. I'm interested in the Margiela collaboration soon out though. That's one worth investing in.

Preen for Debenhams is quite good- I bought a long print skirt from them last season which has longetivity. I haven't looked at 'Somerset' by Temperley in JL. I'm not too sure about Temperley. A bit 'trust fund' for me. (Hope i haven't offended anyone!)

Hobbs sale is always good- I purchased a pair of leather/nubuck pumps last year in orange/pink two tome and they have lasted. I got them for £40 down from £120 and although I realise that this is still not what many of us would call 'inexpensive' they are good enough quality to be re-soled and heeled and to last with care.

I won't buy clothes simply because of the label. Some labels I won't touch because they either sell items that fall apart/lose buttons (Plum Sykes wrote a fabulous USA Vogue article on the problems of designer buttons not being sewn on properly a few yrs ago). I also avoid Westwoods's lower price point ranges because she just churns out the same old, same old each season. Same bags, same cardigans with a logo which bumps the price up by £160, same 'bustle' skirts, same breast plumping draped neck tops/dresses and the fabrics in some of her R-T-W are awfully cheap looking.

Day Birger et Mikkelsen and the Malene Birger range have great reductions on the Outnet. I love Acne designs but they are grossly overpriced and uber trendy and ubiquitous. Same with Isabel Marant- loved her earlier work but when she became 'in', her prices shot up and I have been told there have been issues with quality control because of the challenges of increasing production for what was still, a smallish company. I do think Christopher Kane has 'grown' his fashion business beautifully and is responsible for a great deal of our new credibility in the international fashion world. As is Erdem, Jonathan Saunders etc.

Heimstone has good basics. Sportmax have great blazers, jackets and overcoats and they last and last. Less pricey than MaxMara, their 'parent' too. Toast, Goat, Old Town and Margaret Howell are cost effective and this season Paul Smith's diffusion lines have some great separates at mid High St (Hobbs) prices. Again, I cannot reiterate just how low the cost per wear of Helmut Lang pants are- I have pairs of straight legs from 1990's that I still wear. I just ensure they are washed and ironed inside out at low temperatures and hung properly on good pants hangers. Margaret Howell shirts and pants last too.

I'm a strong believer that if you want to buy a clothing classic, for example a pair of Broges, then buy from companies that specialise in them such as Church's (sales are great) or that manufacture in the great shoemaking towns where there is hopefully still pride in their craft. Buy Desert Boots from Clarks. Shirts from shirting specialists or again, Margaret Howell and her ilk who use these experts to make their shirting or tailoring. A wonderful gift for a special birthday would be to have a tailor make you a jacket or blazer or a full suit. Not as prohibitively expensive as one might think.

Dona

Love hearing about your Italian experiences. We go to the less 'well visited' regions of Sardinia each year (apart from the beach in the NW called 'La Pelosa'), at the beginning or end of the 'season'. Away from 'Costa Smerelda', there are not too many tourists and I have been in love with the island since 1987 when I visited as a mid term primigravida and was cossetted and loved to within an inch of my life by the locals.

We have been to quite a few of the islands- Elba, Capri, Lipari, Salina, snorkelling off the cliffs of Lampione and day visits to Marettimo.
I'd like to one day hike the 'spine' of Italy.

Being born Italian is to be born lucky.

mignonette · 13/09/2012 15:46

Pop - re 'dead conservative' fashion. Tory Blue is in fashion to take your comment literally......! Plenty of decent shirts and blouses about.

Forgot to post today's outfit -

I bought these www.net-a-porter.com/product/317624

and am wearing them with a grey slouchy sweater and old DKNY suede open toe wedge ankle boots in a kind of mouse colour!

DonaAna · 13/09/2012 17:27

Great updates all!
I had a really great work day: 7 tomatoes. Sounds little, but I only count focused writing time. If you write anything, you know how hard it is (particularly when you are starting something entirely new). DH left for his trip, a thunderstorm is raging over the city (hitting really close - the church next door?) I've already reached my weekly work quota. Will put in a few extra hours either tonight or tomorrow morning - have been hitting flow states where anything and everything is effortless

As a treat and reward, can take time off tomorrow afternoon. A friend is coming to visit and we'll go to Florence together.

Pop sounds like you aced the interview! Great. If you wore anything resembling a suit (or split up suit), you can just re-skirt or reaccessorize it.

Mignonnette always enjoy your posts and style musings. Love your relationship with Sardinia too - we wanted to go last summer but did not have time to do that. My home base in Italy has always been the North (Verona and Bologna) - have enjoyed Rome but my palate is still Northern. Prefer Northern wines and Northern food. Bought by accident pecorino instead of grana padano to put on pasta and almost gagged Grin.

MarshaBrady · 13/09/2012 19:39

Mignonette I agree on VW. It feels like someone else is following the template. Ie not designer-led. I nearly bought some Helmut Lang skinny legging type things with a black band at the waist (love black bands) from Liberty but sadly they didn't have my size left in the sale.

Dona good work! Yes sometimes I write stuff for other work and the beginning is very painful. I like it when it gets more effortless. Well done for getting to that stage.

Love those JCrew skinny pants. Am quite tempted.

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MarshaBrady · 13/09/2012 20:07

Scrap that am on a trouser ban. Need too much other stuff to even think about getting more.

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DonaAna · 13/09/2012 20:16

Yep, great find! Would be tempted but find that I'm not a colored pants person. Wore green pants with white top yesterday - had a red bag. Realized (too late) that I look like pizza margherita Confused. And tried to wear my floral jeans today but they distracted me.

Not sure what my look is like tonight: eccentric? Trying to work after getting DC to bed, wearing my lovely, soft MiH jeans, a white vest, the Mumsnet scarf (yes, I have the blue/navy leopard one) draped over my shoulders and have made a chunky bracelet out of the Marni for H&M flower necklace. It might be my most versatile accessory yet: works well as a DIY bracelet, double-times as a belt, but also makes a great 1930s style wedding/ fairy headdress for DD1 and a beautiful lgarland for DD2. The one thing it is not good for: wearing as a necklace Grin. But am in love with it as a superchunky bracelet.

One of the most unexpected things about DC growing is how spending time with them becomes so much less of a chore. I used to hate it when DH traveled for work and I was stuck at home as a single parent (=dinner time, bath time, bed time were nightmarish with a hungry baby and a hyperactive toddler). Now they play together, change into pyjamas on their own and remind me that their teeth should be brushed. Plus we have very interesting conversations Grin.

Getting performance anxiety re: Florence dress. Practicalities: train trip, 25C, mostly indoors (I know, I know). Must look chic.

DonaAna · 13/09/2012 20:17

Yes Marsha me too. I have so many jeans... Need decent tops but they are so hard to find am fussy.

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