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Russianred · 08/02/2012 20:12

Inspired, eh?!

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OllieinOrange · 15/02/2012 22:26

Did Blue post today? Maybe today was the day? Oooooohhhhhh.

AmberNectarine · 15/02/2012 22:34

marsha my DS loves nursery - he brings his nursery bag and shoes to me and shouts 'GO!' on his days! He gets to do all the awful messy stuff I won't allow. They literally strip them to nappies, give them paints and brushes and let them paint themselves, and bathe them after! When DD goes DH and u have agreed to take one day of holiday per quarter and just do grown up things like cinema, posh lunches, shopping or even staying in bed all day. Terribly indulgent but after 3 years of constant pregnancy and bf I think I deserve it!

ny I have boob, arse, thigh and bezza (thanks red) angst. Ah well, I'm not too bad from shoulders up!

Sitting on sofa drinking leftover champers after completing all chores. Shame DH stuck at work!

AmberNectarine · 15/02/2012 22:36

Ooh good spot ollie, I reckon baby blue has made/is making an entrance!

OllieinOrange · 15/02/2012 22:39

Has MiM checked in today too??????

Russianred · 15/02/2012 23:20

Ooh, I've missed rather a lot tonight - am back to a silent house and am too awake drunk to go to sleep immediately.

I really like the Whistles jacket - it wouldn't suit me, but I love stripes too much not to wear them. I know I shouldn't with my D cups, but can't help myself. DD has a couple of Bretons for spring - must make more of an effort not to dress myself identically to her - it happens too often...

Best of luck for tomorrow Ollie.

I think we'll be seeing some kind of birth announcement or two tomorrow. How exciting.

Marsha like everyone else, DS was definitely ready for and receptive to that nursery environment at 2.5. Hope you can work out the right thing for you all.

Had a lovely evening with my friend - think she's a keeper in terms of going beyond all the playgroup/park dates stuff. I'm a bit tired of putting myself out there all the time and would very much appreciate my friends all moving to Bristol. Am hoping things get easier soon as I still don't really feel like I'm at home.

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blue2711 · 16/02/2012 07:06

Thrilled to tell you our beautiful daughter has been born! 11pm last night, weighing 8lbs 6oz. All went well and was nice and speedy but I'm feeling quite fragile now! She is perfect. So happy.

Hopefully · 16/02/2012 07:08

Hurrah! Huge congratulations to you and your family Blue

ApuskiMcClusky · 16/02/2012 07:15

Fab news! Congratulations to you all blue! Take care of yourself.

MrsCampbellBlack · 16/02/2012 07:18

Oh well done Blue and baby Blue Smile

blossoming · 16/02/2012 07:19

Lovely news blue! Huge congratulations!

notyummy · 16/02/2012 07:21

Stuck in traffic (bloody Saxondale roundabout... which will prob mean something to notts folk.) Blue- delighted for you!! What a good weight given how petite you are. Lovely news. Hope you are enjoying snuggles.

ApuskiMcClusky · 16/02/2012 07:21

Red, I know what you mean about the 'putting yourself out there', I can totally relate. It (hopefully) just takes time - though part of me wonders if you can make new close friends once you get past the big life change stages of your life of growing up, uni and house sharing, which is when I met my closest friends. They just don't live anywhere near me!

Portia4 · 16/02/2012 07:31

Wonderful news, congrats Blue and Baby Blue.Thanks

Belated birthday wishes CarciofiSmile

Hi to everyone else, am reading the thread but a bit too preoccupied with real life to post. Keep up the great links! I still can't get my head around the big florals that seem to be everywhere for SS.

OllieinOrange · 16/02/2012 07:32

Morning.

Red I know exactly what you mean about getting tired of putting yourself out there. All but 2 of my original group of close friends over here have since moved away (expats) and I havent really filled the gap. Ive got a few different sets of friends here, but not friend friends iykwim and Im getting a bit fed up of always being the one to arrange things socially. Its like if i didnt email round about meals or cinema trips, Id never see them and never go out
Sometimes I think this thread has replaced the support network I had in real life. One of the reasons I want a job is to meet new people, a bit like joining the brownies when you are 5!
Sorry for the pity party first thing in the morning.

Am actually dithering over what to wear to the hospital. Im looking for something that says dentist chair chic Smile. Thanks for all your kind messages. Back later hopefully numbed to the heavens.

Hope there is some baby news today!

AmberNectarine · 16/02/2012 07:32

Oh what lovely news to wake up to! Huge congratulations to you and your family *blue, look after yourself and enjoy your gorgeous babies!

OllieinOrange · 16/02/2012 07:33

Blue - big congratulations to you. So happy for you x

Russianred · 16/02/2012 07:44

Well done blue and huge congratulations! x

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IceCreamCastles · 16/02/2012 07:46

Hooray - congratulations Blue! What a fantastic weight - no wonder you're feeling fragile!

Good luck today Ollie. Hope it's not too bad.

Know what you mean about friends Red. I met my 'best' friend here through a sport when I first moved up here.

MarshaBrady · 16/02/2012 08:01

Congratulations *Blue! How wonderful!

Good luck today Ollie, think Hermes.

OllieinOrange · 16/02/2012 08:14

DH taking me to the car showroom en routebto hospital, to look at his shortlist for a new car - he thinks its a good distraction.....honestly.

MidnightinMoscow · 16/02/2012 08:24

Blue, fantastic! Congratulations and what lovely news to wake up to.

Sorry, nothing as exciting to report here I'm afraid Grin. Just one of those days where I couldn't post yesterday due to DS climbing around.

Ollie good luck today. I had all 4 out a few years ago, and it wasn't half as bad as I thought it would be. Rest up later.

Red glad you had a good time last night, I understand that whole put yourself out there thing, its hard as you get older. I have found that the further up the career ladder I climb, I am making less friends. When you are a staff nurse on the ward you get invited to drinks etc and it's easy to forge some friendships even if they are fairly casual. No one invites Matron for a drink though. Smile

I hear the pain regarding childcare costs. DS's is £60 a day, which is the going rate here. One thing I didn't realise is the the 15 hours free once they turn three is only for term time only, so only for 30-odd weeks a year. Like you Amber my salary will be wiped out when I return to work after DC2. However, jobs in the NHS are so fragile that I suspect working and trying not too wince at the cost is the best way to go really. I could look at a nanny share, but DS is so happy in his nursery and I think the eating in big groups that they do at mealtimes is really helping with managing his allergies. Just have to remember its not forever. Marsha agree that if you look for a pre-school group in the area, they will be cheaper but will do morning sessions only.

I understand what you mean about maternity stripes Sanuk, same for bf tops too.

Have decided that I would like to track down some olive green Houlihans for the summer. I have a pair of olive TS skinnies that are really worn, but I loved them. I am picturing olive Houlihans with a bright pink belt.

Hopefully let me know about the Me and Em if it comes today - am still thinking about it.

FritziGreenEyes · 16/02/2012 08:38

Welcome to the world baby blue!!!

ollie Hope you have the ice packs ready for when you get home.

Best friends... hmmm. I think you can meet them at any stage in life really. My "bestest" friends are:

  • Friend from primary school. We are still very close but don't see her more than once a year and speak very rarely on the phone.
  • Friend I met when I did my teacher training almost 15 years ago. Live hundreds of km apart now but have shared so many things and feel very close.
  • Friend who used to be colleague. We shared an office and developed very strong close bond when we were both bullied by the team leader from hell. Also lives far away but talk/email often.
  • Some Mums of DD's friends who all live just around the corner. With some I sometimes go out, with some I meet for coffee and know I can rely on (and they on me) in any kind of emergencies.

Having my big birthday celebration how many lovely people I have in my life really, although I don't see as much of them as I would love to. Agree with red and ollie that it takes effort to get to "find new friends" and on top of everything it is sometimes overwhelming to make that effort. Love, love, love our thread and the fact that I know what people have got in their wardrobe without having met all of them in RL Smile.

Sorry, long post. Can you tell I'm procrastinating work again?

OllieinOrange · 16/02/2012 08:53

Crap. Managed to get ourselves stuck in a huge traffic jam on mway. We havent moved for 15 mins. Am nearly in tears at the thought of missing op after mentally preparing for it. Have 30 mins to hope traffic starts to move.

pickledsiblings · 16/02/2012 08:57

Blue, I'm so pleased for you - how wonderful Smile.

Ollie, I usually sing an inane song in my head when in the chair. Last time it was '1,2,3,4,5, once I caught a fish alive'. Hope it goes as well as it can for you.

Off roller skating now!

blossoming · 16/02/2012 08:59

You know, I thought it was just me. I was telling my friend who visited at new year, how, by moving here we have completely sacrificed our social lives and even some friendships. What we have gained though is the healthy lifestyle that comes from living bang in the country, an hour away from out of town shopping; close to family, with house prices a fraction of what they are in the city. I did try with the mother's group I joined shortly after moving here, but it just wasn't for me. Too much heavy drinking and smoking and bitching.
So I'd say my friends are my school friends; dh's schoolfriend and wife (who have been together since 19 and we are all mutual friends thanks to the close knit welsh speaking university world); one university friend; and 2 friends I made in the town we moved to when this house was being built, when we had our first dcs together, and were there when I had all the trauma of dc2's birth and diagnosis etc. It has to be enough. I have to depend on DH for friendship in this town though! Or go to the cinema by myself. Love the friendships from this thread though.

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