What shoes and wrap/ cardi to wear with this dress?

[Lainey1981]

Hi,
Have just bought this dress for a wedding I am going to on Friday in Budapest.
I have no clue what colour shoes to wear with it. Also, i have horrid fat arms so want a cardi or wrap to wear with it too.
I was thinking silver, but am clueless. Please help. I would prefer flat or flatish shoes as am fairly tall 5ft9 and not used to heels.
Thanks

Lol a dress? For a wedding?! Lol

? What does your comment mean? Are you laughing at my choice if dress?

*of

No.it's fine.

Just go to monsoon and get a cardigan

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HallnOates - why be so horrible?

The dress is lovely Lainey. Not sure how I would accessorise but not a cardigan.

Cream pashmina?
Cream shoes?

Thanks collision was thinking had commited a mumsnet faux pas by buying something from monsoon.
pashmina, good idea, any idea where I can get one that is not too expensive? and like the idea of cream, will have a look

How does someone buy a dress without giving actgiught to how you'll wear it.

It's me

Just bored of these threads. Yes i know don't click. Yada yada

Someone who only had an hour away from their baby, and who looks crap in nearly everything they try on.

NOW YOU ARE TSLKING. Ok. Stand by. Am moving onto pc.

rolls up sleeves

ok
dress nice
weather in BUDA is HOT on friday. so you need to consdier.
are your arms really that bad?
can we see them? IMO if they are a bit tanned no one cares, no one in buda will be covered up surely

i like this www.monsoon.co.uk/boleros+shrugs/silver-lindsey-shawl-shrug/invt/93313609/&bklist=icat,5,shop,women,womenparty,bolerosandshrugs but god viscose in that heat?

i think a pashmina will look at bit old lady and will you be fannying around pulling it over you all the time

get fake tanning

www.monsoon.co.uk/boleros+shrugs/silver-lindsey-shawl-shrug/invt/93313609/&bklist=icat,5,shop,women,womenparty,bolerosandshrugs

Shoe wise i think the solution is come dancing silver type

Yes i see it will be hot. I am size 16 so yes and have v fat arms ( working on it)
wedding is inside, but obviously don't want to be roasting
Def not tanned, v pale irish skin, fake tan not an option as never looks human on me

brb

vase just combusted

Thanks for suggestions, shrug is nice, but yes don't think I could cope with that fabric in the heat. Has given me some ideas though, so trawk the shops tomorrow with ds, a lot easier when no changing rooms to contend with.

take a pic of arms

let us judge

No camera, but seriously trust me they are yuk. I just wouldn't feel comfortable.
Have always had disproportionatly (sp) big arms even when I was size 10. Weird genes.

why not change dress then for small sleeves

would be more useful

I did think of that, but was the only dress I liked that wasn't indecently short. I will figure something out.
This has definitely focused my mind towards serious diet and excercise as hate planning clothes around my bloody arms.

yes i know what you mean.
think shrug will be de trop though.
go to John lewis?

Contrasting shoes. Bright yellow. Then you can go bare-armed and no one will notice because the attention will be on your shoes and dress. The dress is gorgeous, by the way , and will be fantastic with your colouring.

Definitely trip to dept store called for. No john lewis in my town, but a fenwick's and debenhams so should be something there.
Thanks for your help.