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Crepeys/Hagsnet - come to the candlelight!

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MrsSchadenfreude · 18/06/2011 11:33

As the last thread is now full...

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Blackduck · 20/07/2011 11:26

loving MrWilbur's resposne! Was it a pleasent surprise though Wink

wilbur · 20/07/2011 16:48

I believe it was reasonably pleasant....

motherinferior · 20/07/2011 16:49

I have to admit I had to think quite hard at how exactly the Hitler resemblance worked.

As opposed to the GB Shaw look.

bigTillyMint · 20/07/2011 18:47

Only reasonably pleasant? Wink

2 more sleeps to go Grin

MrsSchadenfreude · 20/07/2011 18:55

I favour the Catweazle look. As you are all as old as I am, you will know what I mean. Furriners can google.

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Blackduck · 20/07/2011 19:39

Two more sleeps to go? Do you mean til end of term? One here, ds finishes at 2.00 tomorrow.......(as I keep reminding dp, or the poor little soul will be sitting on the step waiting....)

bigTillyMint · 20/07/2011 19:43

Yes, till the end of term Grin

DD finishes at 11.40 on FridayHmm, and they are planning to go to the park for a waterfight. Last End of Term, the police were called - the 2 rival "outstanding" local comps squirting each other rather too enthusiastically, I believe! Anyway, DH will be in charge at home, as I will be in the pub with my colleaguesSmile

CointreauVersial · 20/07/2011 19:52

We don't finish til Tuesday!

herbaceous · 20/07/2011 19:57

Hello there hags. My, haven't the age-spotty fingers been busy!

I am thoroughly bushed. (Rather like Wilbur.) Yesterday, drove through London to my sis's house, as I thought our parents were going to be there. 1.5 hours later, got there, to be told that no, it's next week. Still, turned out quite fun - went with her, her three kids, plus her MiL, to a Shetland pony riding club, run by the world's poshest woman, sporting a mis-matched tweed suit ? no doubt passed down three generations ? and those mega-expensive leather riding boots. We then had a rousing game of Monopoly. Then I drove another two hours back through London. Honestly, it's only 30 miles, but has to be the slowest 30 miles in the entire world. And DS insisted on listening to the SAME INCY WINCY SPIDER CD all the way there and back.

And today, drove to Moorfields for a test on his eyes. They stuck electrodes on his head, which was not received well. Once again, had to sing incy wincy spider repeatedly to stop him sobbing and tearing the electrodes off his face. Drove home. Sat in car while he napped. Drove in again. Saw doctor for results whose English was so heavily accented I couldn't understand what she was saying. I asked for a copy of the results, and she queried why. I resisted saying 'because every buggering time I come here it's a different doctor, and we have to start from the beginning again, and no-one knows the whole story except me, and I can't understand what you're saying, and don't patronise me bitch'. But I didn't. By this stage DS was going crazy, running around the room and having 'dramatic' falls. Anyway, upshot is he is totally blind in one eye, and has to have a general anaesthetic in two weeks time to take a mould for the creation of a 'shell' to make his bad eye look normal.

And I've run out of red wine.

motherinferior · 20/07/2011 19:59

Herbs.

Oh lovey.

xxx

wilbur · 20/07/2011 21:16

Oh gosh, herbs. Sad He will be fine and do brilliantly in life, of course, but that doesn't make the steps towards that any easier. xx

Blackduck · 20/07/2011 21:18

Herbs {{ }}
and can't dp get more wine?

Stropperella · 20/07/2011 22:01

Herbs - BIG hugs for you and your ds.

herbaceous · 20/07/2011 22:07

I found some rose in the fridge.

We knew he was very prob blind in that eye, so it wasn't a huge shock. And I'm almost glad it's been confirmed, as it means he can have a cosmetic shell, and at least look normal and as beautiful as I know he is. (his blind eye is very small, and grey, unlike his big, brown good eye.)

I'm always so proud of him at the hospital. He's so stoic, and charms the pants off the doctors.

Blackduck · 21/07/2011 06:44

hope you got a good nights sleep Herbs, new day and all that. It must be a long road, but this bit is over and decisions made so that's a positive. And Wilbur is right, he will be fine and adjust (partly because he has you!).

bigTillyMint · 21/07/2011 07:22

Oh Herbs, what a daySad But as the others have said, he will be fine with you supporting him, and the only way is up now.

rubyrubyruby · 21/07/2011 08:11

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herbaceous · 21/07/2011 09:43

Oh ruby! Don't cry. Honestly - the worst is long over. When he was five weeks old ? and just after I'd realised there was something wrong with his eye ? we had to take him to the Royal London to be investigated under general anaesthetic to see if he had retino-blastoma - cancer of the eye. That was an anxious 40 minutes. And then when he was 12 weeks he had to have it again for further investigation. So we've known since about then that he probably had no sight in one eye. I was very upset for a long time, but have accepted it now.

From googling, and the occasional helpful doctor, we worked out he can wear a cosmetic shell, and that his life won't actually be very affected. He can drive, do anything he wants. Other than join the Air Force, or be a fireman. His career as professional cellist (that I'm aiming for) is not in danger. Or his position as general secretary of the UN.

wilbur · 21/07/2011 12:05

And herbs - watch out for those delicious big brown eyes - ds1 is a brown-eyed boy and when he does the puppy dog look he can twist me round his little finger and all my consistent parenting goes out the window. Blush

Glad you found some wine. You deserve several cases of good Burgundy.

herbaceous · 21/07/2011 12:20

He already winds me round his little finger, with his smile. I've taken the liberty of posting two pics of him on my profile, so you can all admire him. One shows him full-face, so you can see the eye issue.

CointreauVersial · 21/07/2011 12:55

Aww, what a cutie! The eye thing is barely obvious to the casual observer, and I'm sure with a matching pair it will be even less so. But I can just imagine how you must have felt in the early days - it's natural to want your child to be perfect in every way without any dark clouds looming over their future health/happiness. It will always be a challenge for him as he goes through life, but, as you say, not one that you and he can't overcome.

Shame I didn't read this last night - you could have shared my Rioja (and I wouldn't have drunk so much of it myself).

Blackduck · 21/07/2011 12:56

Oh what a cutie!! Mine is brown eyed too and everyone says he will be a heart breaker.....

And HOORAH we are getting another sweatshirt back - some other kid had taken it home.......

herbaceous · 21/07/2011 13:29

Praise be for the jumpers coming home to roost.

Sorry for making you all be nice about son. Bad form. Back to lighter matters - need to have a lunch that doesn't involve bread. Only because we don't have any, rather than because of any diet. It may involve instant mash. Mmmmm. Mash.

motherinferior · 21/07/2011 13:40

He is gorgeous. I am most Envy. World peace is safe in his paws.

Am hiding here from a thread BTM and MrsS have also posted on, and where we are being castigated for our ineffectiveness and naivete, also our inabilty to Get On and Make Networks.

I have some more work (phew) courtesy partly of Edam who has now got Proper Job and doesn't want it (this is because I'm so crap at networking, you see Hmm).

herbaceous · 21/07/2011 13:47

I too am awful at networking. Can't bear the idea of foisting myself on others, who then feel obliged to give me work, which is then shit and they hate me.

OTOH, I hate it when others get ahead by networking, and are even worse than me.

Where is this terrifying thread, MI?

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