VIn in those situations you have to do what feels right for you, not what you think you should do. I am so happy you got the P&J coat
It is so lovely, and those buttons I bet you look gorgeous in it, it will be perfect for your new life in Paris!
OWW your dh is a gem, sounds like he more than makes up for his mother!
marsha come back and tell us about the party 
NY how's the snow situation with you? No more snow here but still freezing temperatures so roads and paths are shockingly icy and dangerous. I tried to buy winter tyres yesterday to attempt to get back to normal life, but it seems they are not sold here 
LTEC I can't believe there is a purchase that is too big to share here, that's our raison d'etre, surely?
Enjoy ds' birthday.
Saw some lovely things yesterday, will see if I can do some links.