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blossoming · 16/11/2010 13:32

Come join me!
Not so inspired but I do so hate being threadless.

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MarshaBrady · 18/11/2010 12:08

You sound fine yangy.I was a mess being woken every hour or so. I am happy to night bf if for hunger but not to be a sleep aid. Too hard.

Also happy to co-sleep. And as you say a nice way to have closeness. If it's not making you feel horrid from tiredness then I wouldn't feel any pressure. Lots of my friends co-sleep for years. (in particular one who worked ft own business and liked to be together at night).

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traceybath · 18/11/2010 12:12

Yangy - DD fed a lot still at 9 months and only really eased up on the night feeds at 12 months. I didn't do any sleep training it just sort of happened as she was walking, eating more solids and started sleeping better.

MarshaBrady · 18/11/2010 12:13

And also had to stop the sleeping on me as work when he is asleep! (although back to it now for a bit)

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MarshaBrady · 18/11/2010 12:15

Tracey could your dd fall asleep on her back or did you feed to sleep?

MarshaBrady · 18/11/2010 12:27

Just reading on another thread that however they fall asleep (bfding, rocking or co-sleeping) is how they will want to be every sleep cycle (every 60 to 90mins). So co-sleeping isn't a problem as you will still be there.

mrsjuan · 18/11/2010 12:28

Sleep training currently working beyond my wildest dreams!

All we have done is put DD in her cot, tuck her toys in, say night night and then either DH or I sit in the rocking chair until she falls asleep. If she cries we say 'shhh, night night', if she stands up we lay her back down.

I have to say DH is much better at it than me and she falls asleep quite quickly for him. I think she thinks I'm more likely to pick her up but so far I haven't. I am amazed really because she is a little limpet and has never fallen asleep without a lot of help. I was convinced she would get hysterical but really, there hasn't been more than a bit of whingy crying and one of us is always there to reassure her.

Results: she falls asleep in under half an hour and has slept through for 6 nights out of the last 9 which is an out and out record Grin

I wonder if the reason it has worked is because we have waited until she is a bit older (18 months) and can understand a bit more - we've done quite a lot of playing involving tucking her dolls and teddies in little beds and saying night night.

Hope you get back on track marsha it's only natural that there will be disturbances due to illness etc. when they need more comfort

Anyway - completely off topic but I hope that's of some use.

Yangy I got DD some Startrite cruising shoes when she started walking as she was too small for proper shoes (size 2!) and it was during the summer so she was walking outside quite a lot. They were also great for toddlers and nursery but if your DD is only walking inside she's probably be best in grippy socks or the soft leather ones.

I'd really love to join you dukaners but I just can't do no carbs or 'proper' veg. Am tempted to do SW (not go to the meetings - can't think of anything worse Shock) but just follow the eating plan. Won't be as dramatic as dukan results but easier for me to live with. 7lb by Christmas would be nice.

Hooray for the boots OWW!

hellsbelles · 18/11/2010 12:28

Yangy - I get that envy too but I like it. You lot can all be as gorgeous as you like as long as you don't live next door to me Grin....that's the great thing about virtual friends..I can truly appreciate the total wonderfulness of each and everyone of you without feeling insecure (as I don't have to actually see your beauty all the time in RL if that makes sense!).

Bunny - I suspect DD's nn will become obvious when you see her little face. One will work and one won't so no point worrying till she arrives.

OWW - hurrah for boots....boo for bazzar

I'll keep out of the sleep training debate...I did do a very gentle version with DS but only because we were totally desperate - we were all like Zombies (this was at 9 months) and it changed everything very quickly...thankfully DD has been a wonderful sleeper.

Janeeece - received her second compliment - though my head looks horrendous on top of the outfit. I'm a greasy haired mess today (actually have a blow dry tonight though for a treat!)

traceybath · 18/11/2010 12:32

Marsha - I always fed her to sleep. To be honest part of it for me was laziness in that I knew a quick feed would send her back to sleep quickly.

MrsJ - I got your pm and will respond Smile

MarshaBrady · 18/11/2010 12:37

mrsJ well done! 18 months, fab I shan't feel bad about taking it slowly.

hells I sometimes feel inundated by number of people irl (lovely as they are) so this is a nice, light escape.

Romanarama · 18/11/2010 12:37

Have put you on my list OWW and 40. Good news on boots btw!

DS3 slept with me and bf'ed most of the night for the best part of a year. When I was back at work ft and with 2 other under-5s it was the only time I ever saw him! He still needs to touch me more than the others do or ever did, but they all sleep in their own beds for the most part now - they rarely come in before 6am, and the alarm often goes before they get there at all.

pickledsiblings · 18/11/2010 12:37

All you ladies speaking about babies falling asleep on you and BFing to sleep etc are making me sooo broody. My youngest is 3.5 and he still comes in during the night from time to time for a cuddle (and gets sent straight back when he's had it Grin). Except for this morning when he promptly yelled at the top of his voice "Mum, is it tomorrow yet" just as a faint flicker of sun came up. Cue tossing and turning and chatting for the next hour until the alarm went off.

Oh for the days when he would just lie there quietly and be BF back to sleep.

hellsbelles · 18/11/2010 12:51

yes - me too. Very broody (though will come to nothing). DD is so 'busy' all the time she finds it hard to sit still for a cuddle. Rather wonderfully 7 year old (nearly 8) DS is till very happy to be cuddled and that shows no signs of abating. It amazes me how affectionate he is - and like Roma mentioned with her boys...he loves the morning tradition of all climbing into our bed.

hellsbelles · 18/11/2010 12:52

meant to say - WIT has a rather pretty top on today. May seek that out (top shop)

Romanarama · 18/11/2010 12:55

hells ds1 is rising 9 and still loves his cuddles.

OllieWollieWoo · 18/11/2010 13:14

Agree re WIT Hells - loved the scarf she had on yesterday too but no idea where it was from?

Roma - can only agree with the others - you are truely mooi (Dutch for beautiful!).

DS1 loves early morning cuddles. DS2 loves in the middle of the night ones......!

40deniertights · 18/11/2010 13:21

Absolutely gorgeous pics Yangy and Roma, and seriously lovely DC. Yangy colouring probably similar to mine, although I have the ability to look very washed out. Blusher and lipstick are my friends!

As for sleeping, I've decided to chill and have mine with me when they want for as long as they want because I love it. Smile They were fine when babies but seem to want us more now.

mrsjuan · 18/11/2010 13:44

Oh yes - nothing like snuggling up with a sleeping baby and we've got a lovely big bed in anticipation of lots of morning cuddles in the future. But unfortunately at the moment DD sees coming into our bed at any time as an invitation to practice her gymnastic skills Grin

Am mega broody at the moment but not going to act on it yet.

Have a rather dull 'what would you do' to put to you:
I bought these tights at the weekend and after one wear they have got a hole in. Not that happy as although £12 isn't going to break the bank, I thought they might last a bit longer than super cheap ones. Think I would feel a bit of a prat taking them back but should I do it or just put it down to experience?

bunnymother · 18/11/2010 13:50

MrsJ - not the quality you'd expect - return them!

Sleep - v similar sleep training here w DD as described by MrsJ. DD is 17 months' old and currently sleeping pretty well (almost 12 hours w only getting up once or twice - for dummy and sometimes bottle). We regressed v badly the other week as we were in her room while our bedroom floor was repaired, but she returned to normal as soon as we moved back out of her room. Our approach has been quite indulgent - never ignored, no CC, DH pulls her in w us if she won't settle in her cot. Many many times threatened to get tough w her, but couldn't, and feel quite happy w where we are now. Next challenge - newborn twins!

blossoming · 18/11/2010 13:54

Great news on the boots ollie. Shame about the craft fair though. Dh is asking whether I have a contingency plan for things I don't sell, so I'm avidly and wisely looking for local farmer's markets!

mrsjuan, I'd put it down to experience. And buy M&S next time! In fact, I have a lovely grey pair of cable knit tights from m&s, that even my sister liked!

I think WIT is having a bad week! I hated that midi length dress yesterday. If you saw that on the street you'd think the person wearing it was part of some weird cult! Okay, maybe just me.

Off to the surgery next. Dd's jabs. Ouch.

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Romanarama · 18/11/2010 13:59

Me to bloss - she looked hideous in that dress.

MrsJ take them back if it's low effort - might as well have a go.

notyummy · 18/11/2010 14:01

MRsJ - I feel your pain. I discovered a huge hole in a pair of lacey tights after 2 wears(Transperenze (Sp?)) so NOT cheap. Have bought cheaper M and S ones and hope they stand up to real life a bit better!

pickledsiblings · 18/11/2010 14:03

I also hated the midi bloss and Roma, glad it wasn't just me.

MarshaBrady · 18/11/2010 14:03

Me too. I bought some Iro very fine wool leggings from Asos for £15. Riddled with holes!

And the real price --> £85 Shock

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