Zembo - Just received this from DH - thought I would pass it on...!
''What a fanastic evening that was. Just back from spending the evening with xxx and some other Muslim colleagues. He has a massive tent on his lawn and we were treated as guests of honour. Also present were guys from Saudi, Yemen, Afghanistan, Somalia and Egypt.
The evening started with coffee and a chat around a fire. Then we broke the fast with starters before our hosts went to quickly pray and then come back for the main course. The food was amazing - all different dishes from the respective countries. Some spicy, some very sweet but all really tasty. The wife of one of the Yemenis had even cooked a curry for us (despite it not being what they would usually eat). We were waited on hand and foot and then returned to the fire for sweets and coffee. I am genuinely so full that I am on the verge of being sick! Whenever our plates got below 2kg of food, we were given more - as there must have been 20 main dishes and 20 starters then there was always something else to try and we did not want to appear rude.
The conversation was very good - funny and a really good chance to find out some of the views of the guys there. The whole event was very humbling and, to top off all the generosity and kindness, were given a huge goody bag on departure. I am very glad we turned up bearing gifts (not just dates but sweets, nuts, chocolate for the kids and coffee). I have drunk so much coffee (nice Arabic coffee with saffron and cardamon) that I suspect I will not be going to sleep for some time yet!!
Please thank your Mumsnet friend for me when you get a chance.
I am heading off to bed (with my massively distended stomach - I feel like a snake that has swallowed a cow!!!''
So your words of wisdom were of help. 