DP and his ex have a baby. She left him while she was pregnant.
She wanted him to have contact every weekend and he agreed. I’ve tried my best to accommodate this and help.
Baby is formula fed cow and gate, she usually sends powder in a little pot but when I’d gone shopping I saw the same milk in little bottles already prepared (first milk) so had got a few as thought it would be easier. We used them over the weekend and I sent the rest back in the bag as thought they may be handy for her to have ? She called DP having a go what are they he said is picked them up and what was the issue as they are the same but she said I changed her baby’s milk??
I do some night feeds and she doesn’t like that but DP is a heavy sleeper so I do the 3 am feed usually . She said she will get a court order that the feeds are all to be done by DP, that he should be in the spare room with the cot not the cot in our room. Wanted to know have i changed nappies and if so not to anymore. Apparently someone had seen us out and I was pushing the pram and that will now be forbidden too as only DP should.
When she came to collect the last time baby was asleep on me as she had been a bit unsettled so I’d been walking about. She was angry. Told me it’s not my baby and I need to back off and let DP see his child . That she didn’t go through pregnancy and birth alone to enable me to play mummy.
Im trying my best but she hates me
I don’t understand about the milk either it’s the exact same ?