[quote DropDTuning]**@MrsHusky* Sick to death of step mums being villified by women who have no clue what its like trying to be a step mum.*
Do you think it's accidental that we 're not stepmothers?
Do you not grasp that it's a choice whether or not to start a relationship with someone who already has children?
And that if you do, it's your responsibility as a decent human being to put that parent-child relationship first?
I'm a mother. And a daughter. I would never have married a person who already had children. And if I had done, I wouldn't have then tried to destroy, diminish and eat away at their relationship.
I've been on here as long as you have, and I've seen that far too many times as well.[/quote]
Look, you might think you are superior for not having married a man with children (well done you! have a gold star!) but that doesn't give you any authority here. You know fuck all, because you've not been in this situation (again, well done, very good).
How very dare you say that OP is trying to "destroy, diminish and eat away" at the childrens relationship with their father?
Where is your evidence that she is doing anything of the sort?
Because you have never been in this situation, take a minute to imagine how fucking hard it might be for op, remind yourself she is a human being, and think before you type - eh?
again, WELL DONE for not becoming a step mother, excellent job, but basically shouting about that on here whilst being horrible to someone who is clearly struggling, is revolting. It is in fact, much more revolting, than struggling with a problem as OP is.