Well, at the weekend we had further eruptions from my dp's ex regarding me meeting their son.
DP has worked really hard to ensure that ss was prepared and happy to meet me for the first time, we had discussed what we were going to do on the day (planned a visit to the local farm) and ss seemed perfectly content.
Anway, dp received a text from the ex on Saturday declaring that she wanted to come along for the first meet and spend the WHOLE day with all of us. She implied that dp was upset about the arrangements and that he wanted his mummy to be there. Dp later realised that she has simply put these words into ss's head by asking him how he was feeling about the meet and dictating that it would help if she was there (easy to do with a six year old).
She really is so manipulative- she just cannot see that my partner also wants whats best for his little boy; she just has to interfer and has now worked everyone up so much about the meet thats its going to be ten times more stressful (for all of us) !!!
When dp told me about her demands, I unfortunately didnt handle the situation very well and basically started crying and calling her all the names under the sun (im putting this down to pregnancy hormones). I really didnt want to behave like this because i want my dp to be open with me and for us to discuss issues like this sensibly