She was and is wrong to make it about Ian Wright specifically for all the reasons you mention. (Although I don't think she is that bad a pundit. Mainly really, really unlikeable!)
But I was trying to amplify her fundamental point which I think is valid - women's football should primarily give opportunities to women - referees, pundits, managers, etc - wherever possible, and not pretend that there is a level playing field across football generally. I think she's right to stick to her guns on that score.
Even in women's football, men have more jobs than women. There are initiatives afoot to equalise this situation and encourage women to train and put themselves forward for jobs in football. And there are things women can do to make themselves more employable - thinking about Carla Ward wanting to be the primary carer for her child as well as head coach of a WSL club. Can't be done. Be realistic. Let your partner do it.