Is this a Pore of Winer?

[BlooBagoo]

DH has had this on his back for months now. He won't let me go near it, and thanks to this group I looked up the dilated pore of Winer and thought it looked very similar.

It's a little more raised than it maybe looks in the pics, and he has finally said tonight that at some point if I get him drunk and look up what I'm doing then he'll let me go for it. And that's why I'm here, what do I need to do?

noooo update whyyyyyy

He still hasn't let me near it. Believe me, I'm trying. Back scratching still hasn't helped as he seems to have realised what I'm up to. He's had a bit of a sore back recently so I may offer a massage, that might relax him enough to let me near it. I will update when I can, and if he won't let me video then I'll at least take as many photos as I can get away with. He's a complete wimp when it comes to anything involving blood or pain.

Divorce him, this is highly unreasonable behaviour from him.

I reckon he needs a boiling hot bath and you could get that with the knuckles.

What IS a pore of winer?

My EXH had what I can only describe as an ever filling blackhead on his back. You squeezed it empty and went back the following week to do it again.

I think it might be the one and only thing I miss about him 20 years on!

for goodness sake man! tell him to not be a coward! I need him to do this!!!

This is so typical of men. My husband is the same. Utter wimps.

Any news?!

It's a massive ingrowing hair!!!!

It's just a big open blackhead.

I finally have a rather disappointing update.

He changed his mind and wouldn't let me near it, then last night after a shower he came to tell me he'd popped it himself.

The only good news is that it still needed a small amount of pressure with my comedone extractor to fully sort it but apparently I'm too evil and it hurt too much so I'm not getting near anything like that again. So no fun pics or vids.

What a rotten spoilsport. Sorry you were denied access OP

Oh I have one of those. Never knew what it was called. It's quite small, just a larger pore than surrounding skin, I can squeeze a small amount of gunk out of it every month or two. Nothing dramatic. I can always feel a small lump in the skin, though

DP had one of these on his upper arm, he let me squeeze it in a beer garden and didn't flinch, this is why I love him!