Well ds Mri results are in and had a meeting , seems that ds laungage or lack of is not just down to the oral dyspraxia .Turns out at some point they reckon probably befor the birth ds had a blood clot and the part of area that controlls speech is completley destroyed which would explain whe he snever done any sound other than uh.
There is also some damage to area that controls movement as well ,That i can handle but was the realastion today that ds is likely to never speak and no amount of speech therapy will make any differnace to his inablity to verbally communicate