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I'm slightly pissed off

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5inthebed · 06/03/2009 21:30

My "friend" who is also the godmother of my ds1 and ds2 has just changed her status on facebook to:

XXXXX is licking the windows at the back of the specials bus again

I though so so much better of her. I've sent her a very nasty responce, there really is NO need for that.

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2shoes · 06/03/2009 21:31

oh tell her she is as thick as shit

MannyMoeAndJack · 06/03/2009 21:38

What a terrible thing to write- surely she would know that you'd read it?

And why would anyone write such a comment anyway?

jenk1 · 06/03/2009 21:39

thats awful,i would be angry too.

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5inthebed · 06/03/2009 21:43

I'm fuming at this tbh, she had either better apologise publicly on facebook and have a really good reason for putting it there, or she can piss off. Actually she can do both!

It gets even better though. I've just done her a glowing reference for her new job...looking after elderly disabled people! Maybe I should retract it?

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2shoes · 06/03/2009 21:45

add me on fb and then I can message her

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5inthebed · 06/03/2009 21:48

LOL!!!
Tempted...very tempted

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2shoes · 06/03/2009 21:58

go on.....
[email protected]

wrinklytum · 06/03/2009 22:01

Doesn't sound like much of a "friend" to me

2shoes · 06/03/2009 22:02

just told ds about it...
he said she is a complete fuckhead and you shouldn't waste your time with her...
that is the gospel according to 17 yr old ds

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5inthebed · 06/03/2009 22:06

Very wise words from a 17 year old!

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bullet123 · 06/03/2009 23:15

She sounds spectacularly thoughtless.

Woooozle100 · 06/03/2009 23:30

rather cunty

I don't get it though - er I understand what is meant by windowlicker insult but I don't get why it would be used in this context.

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5inthebed · 06/03/2009 23:31

No, neither do I know why she has used it. It makes no sense at all.

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Woooozle100 · 06/03/2009 23:38

maybe she's just come across it as an insult and thinks its hilarious so is just trying to get it in and appear the height of wit

TotalChaos · 07/03/2009 07:36

crass bitch.

sarah293 · 07/03/2009 08:51

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slackrunner · 07/03/2009 09:20

I would remove her from my FB page.

Phoenix4725 · 07/03/2009 09:27

i agree with riven ex friend be correct , did saqme when someone refed to my son as retard

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5inthebed · 07/03/2009 09:59

Well she has been removed.

She hasn't bothered to apologise or even justify why she had done it. She has read my email to her, and has changed her status.

So one more friend down. But I don't need friends like that tbh. I'm still so annoyed by it all!

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Frasersmum123 · 07/03/2009 10:43

With friends like that you dont need enemies!

What a Cow!

Woooozle100 · 07/03/2009 10:44

wheat and chaff and all that

still for you cos its horrible to think that someone you liked and trusted could be so vile. Shocked for you as well Phoenix. That's awful

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5inthebed · 07/03/2009 15:10

Considering she was a close friend and the godmother of my ds2 I think it is pretty terrible. Even if she done it without thinking, why would you do it? Its just pathetic and child like.

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PheasantPlucker · 07/03/2009 15:22

My God! Just been reading through this with total disgust, couldn't leave the thread till I had read it through completely, and have burnt my cakes as a result! What an ignorant and insensitive cow. And this is your friend?? What a shame.

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5inthebed · 07/03/2009 16:38

Sorry about your cakes PP

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PheasantPlucker · 07/03/2009 16:41

Don't worry about the cakes 5!