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DLA WAIT TIMES THREAD 44

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Kla1913 · 23/05/2024 18:42

making a new thread ✨️

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Fee89 · 31/05/2024 20:15

OneTiredMumma84 · 31/05/2024 20:00

Tell me more about these magic salts! And any magic sleep remedies for an 11 year old who wakes with night terrors/panick attacks each and every blinking night! X

The salts are used to unblock your nose but they leave your brain feeling cleaned out 😂😂😂. Soon leaves you feeling alert and up n ready 😂. Look on amazon xx

Kla1913 · 31/05/2024 21:34

Matilde08 · 31/05/2024 20:03

@Fee89 @OneTiredMumma84 @BlueyMama @Emma2345 @Ljstar thank you ladies for your emotional support and for sending positive thoughts 💗🫶🏻💐❤️ I will get a nice chardonnay chilled ready for Pj's party 🥂

Aww darling, never wanted someone to have such good news in my life even though we are strangers, you deserve it, and hopefully you have an amazing backpay coming your way for your child, you deserve a holiday after all this ❤️ definitely down for the pjs and drink night lol, hope you are doing OK mentally, looking forward to your updates hun 😊 xxx

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Mez2024 · 31/05/2024 22:00

Scan date 19/2
Had 2 letters and today a text saying we are still looking at your claim.

Such a long time to wait now. I claimed in 2016 when my daughter was on home oxygen and it was processed within 3 weeks!

ADT13 · 31/05/2024 23:06

Scan Date: 12/02 - I called on Thursday and was told to wait until the 5th of July. If I don't hear back by then, I should call again. Every time we call, we get a different story, and we have only called four times in 16 weeks on Monday.

We feel that the outcome will be a decline, as our son's EHC has been rejected. This is very disappointing and stressful because we truly believe he needs it, and his teacher, who knows him better than we do(school-wise), actually requested the EHC.

@BlueyMama @Mamof2devils @Kla1913

Thank you so much for your supportive words. Wishing you and your children all the best.

Sarahdestiny · 31/05/2024 23:06

Congrats to everyone 👏 still waiting n listening hope everyone gets the best outcome xx

Kla1913 · 01/06/2024 00:43

ADT13 · 31/05/2024 23:06

Scan Date: 12/02 - I called on Thursday and was told to wait until the 5th of July. If I don't hear back by then, I should call again. Every time we call, we get a different story, and we have only called four times in 16 weeks on Monday.

We feel that the outcome will be a decline, as our son's EHC has been rejected. This is very disappointing and stressful because we truly believe he needs it, and his teacher, who knows him better than we do(school-wise), actually requested the EHC.

@BlueyMama @Mamof2devils @Kla1913

Thank you so much for your supportive words. Wishing you and your children all the best.

Honestly just because you have been denied for the EHC dosnt mean anything regarding DLA, its completely different, dla is how your child is at home during day and night time and what evidence you can provide for this, My daughter has just been awarded HRC LRM, she hasn't got a EHC, she is in year one, she is working at beginning reception level, she is way behind, I sent CAHMS referral letter and a short report of her teacher and the forms i filled out, you just need to be honest in the forms xx

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BlueyMama · 01/06/2024 01:12

Fee89 · 31/05/2024 17:46

Hubby is monster/bang. I get up come down straight to fridge and redbull out 😂 hate coffee. Its so bad but 17 years with little sleep so im not even sorry 😂😂. Costco does come in handy xx

Ah I don't have a cidtco card, but Mt partner buys this powdered energy drink stuff called G-Fuel which is handy, saves on us going to the shop for the cans, I do love my coffee too but I don't drink it as much as I used to, I wouldn't mind costco trips for energy drinks mind😂

BlueyMama · 01/06/2024 01:13

ADT13 · 31/05/2024 23:06

Scan Date: 12/02 - I called on Thursday and was told to wait until the 5th of July. If I don't hear back by then, I should call again. Every time we call, we get a different story, and we have only called four times in 16 weeks on Monday.

We feel that the outcome will be a decline, as our son's EHC has been rejected. This is very disappointing and stressful because we truly believe he needs it, and his teacher, who knows him better than we do(school-wise), actually requested the EHC.

@BlueyMama @Mamof2devils @Kla1913

Thank you so much for your supportive words. Wishing you and your children all the best.

Being declined an EHCP doesn't mean you won't get DLA hun, it's frustrating they're telling you to wait until July but I highly doubt it'll take that long! Will keep fingers crossed for a positive outcome for you! 🤞🏻

BlueyMama · 01/06/2024 01:16

Matilde08 · 31/05/2024 20:03

@Fee89 @OneTiredMumma84 @BlueyMama @Emma2345 @Ljstar thank you ladies for your emotional support and for sending positive thoughts 💗🫶🏻💐❤️ I will get a nice chardonnay chilled ready for Pj's party 🥂

PJ party sounds fab!
I'm going to be waiting impatiently with you for next week to hurry up now, you deserve this so much❤️

BlueyMama · 01/06/2024 01:17

Claire11031982 · 31/05/2024 17:51

Whoops hopefully they don't listen to his recording then or he's in trouble 🤣 at least the wait is over.....I just have to go through it again soon for his mobility when he turns 5 🫣 x

Ahh how long have you got until you're going to go theough for mobility? We have a while yet thankfully, basically when award ends but I'm dreading having to reapply🙈

BlueyMama · 01/06/2024 01:20

BlueyMama · 01/06/2024 01:12

Ah I don't have a cidtco card, but Mt partner buys this powdered energy drink stuff called G-Fuel which is handy, saves on us going to the shop for the cans, I do love my coffee too but I don't drink it as much as I used to, I wouldn't mind costco trips for energy drinks mind😂

This was meant to say costco card and my
I need to start checking my writing before i post

Emma2345 · 01/06/2024 01:35

@ADT13 I would appeal the EHCP decision if yourself and school feel he needs it and he exhibits violent behaviours or lack of communication or non verbal excetra then it should of been approved we’re in the process of doing my sons after the HT and my friends has just been approved for the same reasons xx

Claire11031982 · 01/06/2024 03:22

BlueyMama · 01/06/2024 01:17

Ahh how long have you got until you're going to go theough for mobility? We have a while yet thankfully, basically when award ends but I'm dreading having to reapply🙈

He turns 5 in December just before Christmas so it's not the best time of year to be filling out forms again 🫣 just the thought of doing it all again in 6 months scares the life out of me lol x

BlueyMama · 01/06/2024 04:12

Claire11031982 · 01/06/2024 03:22

He turns 5 in December just before Christmas so it's not the best time of year to be filling out forms again 🫣 just the thought of doing it all again in 6 months scares the life out of me lol x

Oh yeah that's nit long at all!
He's a year older than my girl, she's 4 in November so we have a little while yet, I don't blame yoh at all! Hopefully it won't be as bad of a wait as it has been this time around! Xxx

Claire11031982 · 01/06/2024 05:19

BlueyMama · 01/06/2024 04:12

Oh yeah that's nit long at all!
He's a year older than my girl, she's 4 in November so we have a little while yet, I don't blame yoh at all! Hopefully it won't be as bad of a wait as it has been this time around! Xxx

I hope not, don't think I could cope waiting ages again x

Shazzle88 · 01/06/2024 07:09

Claire11031982 · 01/06/2024 05:19

I hope not, don't think I could cope waiting ages again x

My daughter turns 5 in January so ill have to go thru the same thing as you im dreading it hun, this whole process is mental torture xx

Shazzle88 · 01/06/2024 07:12

Claire11031982 · 01/06/2024 05:19

I hope not, don't think I could cope waiting ages again x

I have seen some people get awarded care and mobility to start when they are 5 when they apply near 5th birthday im hoping this happens to us 🤞🙏

Fee89 · 01/06/2024 09:05

BlueyMama · 01/06/2024 01:12

Ah I don't have a cidtco card, but Mt partner buys this powdered energy drink stuff called G-Fuel which is handy, saves on us going to the shop for the cans, I do love my coffee too but I don't drink it as much as I used to, I wouldn't mind costco trips for energy drinks mind😂

You wrote this at 1am, i think spelling mistakes are allowed. I do enjoy a costco trip. I love going near christmas aswell 😍 xx

SB1994 · 01/06/2024 09:06

Scan date 20/02 hoping for some news soon 🤞

UsefulZombie · 01/06/2024 09:15

Scan date 21/2. Called yesterday and told it was with a case manager but may still take until 20 weeks for a decision to be made. Asked if it was worth sending additional evidence at this point and was told no, it wouldn't be scanned in time 🧐

Ljstar · 01/06/2024 09:58

UsefulZombie · 01/06/2024 09:15

Scan date 21/2. Called yesterday and told it was with a case manager but may still take until 20 weeks for a decision to be made. Asked if it was worth sending additional evidence at this point and was told no, it wouldn't be scanned in time 🧐

I called yesterday and was told the same information.
My scan date is 15/02.
I am seeing quite a few people around this date being awarded so it's easy to presume we'll be next, but my pessimistic mind tells me not to presume that 🤣🤣

Crazyhouse4 · 01/06/2024 10:10

Ljstar · 01/06/2024 09:58

I called yesterday and was told the same information.
My scan date is 15/02.
I am seeing quite a few people around this date being awarded so it's easy to presume we'll be next, but my pessimistic mind tells me not to presume that 🤣🤣

Im 16/2, I’ve called 3 times, first time they said it would go to dm at 15 weeks then it would take 1-2 weeks for a decision, second time I was told I would hear by the end of may, but I only turned 15 weeks yesterday so i didn’t call to check, and the third was on Wednesday and he said it’s with dm and I would get a text in the next week, so all roughly around the same timeframe they’ve told me, I’m going to call Tuesday when my children are back at school

ArtfulJoker · 01/06/2024 10:15

So we don’t go into decision makers pile until we are least 15 weeks basically?😱 how can they justify that backlog 🤯 think it’s about time they got extra workers in 🤷🏻‍♀️

Tinxy · 01/06/2024 10:24

@SB1994 I have the same scan date as you I'm also waiting to hear. Fingers crossed 🤞it's soon.