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Fee89 · 28/04/2024 19:47

Chat and wait 🌸

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Fee89 · 29/04/2024 20:28

WaitTimeWarrior · 29/04/2024 20:25

Thank you so much! I'm so worried its going to be a rejection as he's got no diagnosis but they are saying he is autistic with adhd traits, very delayed in all aspects.

Can anyone explain how the mobility side work? He's only 3 so doubt we will be entitled .

Remember dla is based on care need. So aslong as you can prove he needs/gets more care than a child his age then keep fighting. Mobility is high from age 3 and low from age 5 xx

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Mammy1979 · 29/04/2024 20:29

Brokenbey · 29/04/2024 09:49

Scan date 11/01
DD5 has been awarded HRC and LRM, I’m so over the moon as we had to stop her private OT a few weeks ago due to the cost (£600 a month), and this will almost cover it.

for reference she is not officially diagnosed yet but is under CAMHs and SEN at school.

Just a question for fellow Sen parents. Is it appropriate for me to order a radar key do you think? DD is terrified of toilets (hand dryers and all the general noise) and will often wet herself mid meltdown as I’m trying to get her to go in.

@Brokenbey Congratulations xxx

Mammy1979 · 29/04/2024 20:33

Justkeepsplashing · 29/04/2024 10:05

My daughter’s been AWARDED!!!!!!

Decision made on April 26th, scan date December 19th but they’re back paying to December 4th. The woman was lovely, she’s called Denise and I cried on the phone with her!

I wish I could meet you all now for a coffee and hug because this is such a lonely journey. I’ve no family and her dad says she’s naughty (he’s abusive), so it’s just the two of us and I was ready for MR. Gosh, cup of coffee would be nice but I’ve no milk and can’t leave as she’s home from school!

Fi - thank you so much for all the support you give us here xxxx congrats and good luck everyone

@Justkeepsplashing Congratulations xxxx

Mammy1979 · 29/04/2024 20:35

Matilde08 · 29/04/2024 10:11

I have started to giving up on mine at all 🤦🏻‍♀️ I know it's a bit different case for me, but this waiting makes me pessimistic.

Good luck to everyone for this week!! 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

Hang on in there @Matilde08 and if you ever need to rant xxxx

Kmcx93 · 29/04/2024 20:51

Late to the party but joining to follow others progress!
COC scan date 16/04- so aware we have a good while to go.
Call handler today told me 15-17 week wait same as that of new claims (not holding on to that at all!)

Jom43 · 29/04/2024 20:59

Fee89 · 29/04/2024 09:34

Omg omg omg omg im crying.

Congratulations. I've been silently reading these posts and you have been so supportive of everyone. So pleased you got your answer

Fee89 · 29/04/2024 21:01

Jom43 · 29/04/2024 20:59

Congratulations. I've been silently reading these posts and you have been so supportive of everyone. So pleased you got your answer

Thank you 🥰. Il be sticking around to support everyone 💕 xx

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Mommy2boys30 · 29/04/2024 22:32

NameChange30 · 29/04/2024 19:13

Oh and they haven't asked me for a birth certificate. My child is a British citizen and has a passport so I put the passport number on the application. I guess if your child isn't British or doesn't have a passport you might be asked for the birth certificate?

He is British and has same last name as me also passport number on form, some do and some don't ask I guess x

Accbabymom1994 · 29/04/2024 22:43

Kmcx93 · 29/04/2024 20:51

Late to the party but joining to follow others progress!
COC scan date 16/04- so aware we have a good while to go.
Call handler today told me 15-17 week wait same as that of new claims (not holding on to that at all!)

Hey mine is 3/03 ,COC too .

Waiting1901 · 29/04/2024 23:11

Mammy1979 · 29/04/2024 20:18

@Waiting1901 keep is posted xxx

Will do going to ring again end of week as it will take while to get forms bk from school

NameChange30 · 29/04/2024 23:51

Mommy2boys30 · 29/04/2024 22:32

He is British and has same last name as me also passport number on form, some do and some don't ask I guess x

Interesting, I don't understand why they'd want the birth certificate on top of everything else but what the hell! I guess they might still ask me to send it. We'll see.

Mommy2boys30 · 30/04/2024 06:48

NameChange30 · 29/04/2024 23:51

Interesting, I don't understand why they'd want the birth certificate on top of everything else but what the hell! I guess they might still ask me to send it. We'll see.

Honestly after being here since thread 25 and sending forms you honestly you never understand a lot of things you hear from them, there is no order with this system so I'm not surprised they ask some but not others.

Fee89 · 30/04/2024 07:13

Good morning everyone. Hope you all slept well and ready for the day ahead. I'm hoping some of you get good news today. Will be 👀. Dont take no bullshit if calling. Remember you are your childs voice 💕 xx

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Matilde08 · 30/04/2024 07:13

👋🏻 Good luck to everyone who's patiently waiting 🙏🏼✨️
Hopefully more awards in today 🤞🏻

Day 162 for me ...let's make it a bit more dramatic for me 🤭

@Mammy1979 thank you 😊

Matilde08 · 30/04/2024 07:19

@Fee89 you are so right about us being our childs voice ❤️ it makes me extra upset in this whole situation that they need to do additional checks if he's even eligible when there's so much of evidence of school, hospital, assessment in process. And all just because his dad passed away.. I know I overdramtizing a bit here...

Fee89 · 30/04/2024 07:22

Matilde08 · 30/04/2024 07:19

@Fee89 you are so right about us being our childs voice ❤️ it makes me extra upset in this whole situation that they need to do additional checks if he's even eligible when there's so much of evidence of school, hospital, assessment in process. And all just because his dad passed away.. I know I overdramtizing a bit here...

Lovely you have every right and we are all behind you. The way its being delt with is utterly shocking. Has your claim been made a priority yet? Xx

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Emzi538 · 30/04/2024 07:23

Morning all
Good luck to all those who call! Keeping fingers crossed for you all x

OneLoyalAzureLion · 30/04/2024 07:29

Morning, long time reader 1st time poster here. Hope there's some more awards for people today! I'm just hitting 15 weeks but sent extra evidence that arrived yesterday, does anyone know how long it's taking to scan things on and would it be worth calling them and asking them to put a note that it's been sent? Thankyou :)

Fee89 · 30/04/2024 07:33

OneLoyalAzureLion · 30/04/2024 07:29

Morning, long time reader 1st time poster here. Hope there's some more awards for people today! I'm just hitting 15 weeks but sent extra evidence that arrived yesterday, does anyone know how long it's taking to scan things on and would it be worth calling them and asking them to put a note that it's been sent? Thankyou :)

Yeh id give a call as you may find they dont see it in time x

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Matilde08 · 30/04/2024 07:34

Fee89 · 30/04/2024 07:22

Lovely you have every right and we are all behind you. The way its being delt with is utterly shocking. Has your claim been made a priority yet? Xx

I'm not sure if it has been made like a priority.. he said they will try the best to deal with it as soon as possible, BUT if I can hear anything back from them for following six weeks, I should call them 🤦🏻‍♀️ I even mentioned that I already had a call nearly two months ago asking to explain about that pension. So I have no idea why it still takes so long.

OneLoyalAzureLion · 30/04/2024 07:39

Fee89 · 30/04/2024 07:33

Yeh id give a call as you may find they dont see it in time x

Thankyou @Fee89 , il ring them after school run, hopefully I get a nice call handler 😅. Also congratulations on your award 👏👏👏

Fee89 · 30/04/2024 08:00

Matilde08 · 30/04/2024 07:34

I'm not sure if it has been made like a priority.. he said they will try the best to deal with it as soon as possible, BUT if I can hear anything back from them for following six weeks, I should call them 🤦🏻‍♀️ I even mentioned that I already had a call nearly two months ago asking to explain about that pension. So I have no idea why it still takes so long.

Call the long way 523. Be firm state you want to check its been marked as a priority and if not for them to do so now. Tell them its causing a great deal of stress that you are not sleeping and now your anxiety is become sever x

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Fee89 · 30/04/2024 08:01

OneLoyalAzureLion · 30/04/2024 07:39

Thankyou @Fee89 , il ring them after school run, hopefully I get a nice call handler 😅. Also congratulations on your award 👏👏👏

Im sure you will. Kill with kindness. Unless you get Kim then be horrible 😂. Thank you xx

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Persianpoppy · 30/04/2024 09:28

Good morning!
Fingers crossed for all those awaiting awards! 🤞🏼
Im fuelled on caffeine today but, someone's going to have to tie my hands to stop me from ringing today! 😂

Tracy37x · 30/04/2024 09:30

Persianpoppy · 30/04/2024 09:28

Good morning!
Fingers crossed for all those awaiting awards! 🤞🏼
Im fuelled on caffeine today but, someone's going to have to tie my hands to stop me from ringing today! 😂

I literally don’t know how you’re coping this long!
my scan date is 26/1, and I’m already getting itchy 😂😂 I think if/when I receive the text to say they’re looking at it, then il ring daily. TIL then I think it’s pointless for me. Really keeping everything crossed 🤞