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Fee89 · 28/04/2024 19:47

Chat and wait 🌸

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Fluffs95 · 30/04/2024 13:49

Emzi538 · 30/04/2024 13:30

Wish I hadn't called... not with dm and said highly unlikely decision before 20 weeks :-( 😞 they have all info they need but that's all she could say... so will leave for now ;-/

I’m over 14 weeks and when I called to see if they had received my extra evidence they said I should hear something by next Friday. So don’t be too disheartened, I think they just make it up as they go. Fingers crossed you hear soon xx

Fee89 · 30/04/2024 13:49

@Emzi538 They are done in order to the d.m. not by date. I cant remember your scan date? X

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Emzi538 · 30/04/2024 13:51

Fee89 · 30/04/2024 13:49

@Emzi538 They are done in order to the d.m. not by date. I cant remember your scan date? X

17/01 so 15 weeks tomorrow

Fee89 · 30/04/2024 13:51

@Emzi538 I remember now. 17th. To be fair on facebook iv seen upto 15th. So i reckon at latest friday next week yours could be done by. Monday is bank holiday xx

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AutumnalApricity · 30/04/2024 13:51

Tinxy · 30/04/2024 13:24

Does anyone have a scan date around 20th February and have heard anything??

I'm the 12th Feb but other than the two standard letters, haven't heard anything as yet

Kaz87 · 30/04/2024 13:52

fluffyguineapig · 30/04/2024 13:23

Feeling really disheartened today. I called yet again (scan date 4/1), and they told me that although my application had been with a DM two weeks ago, the DM had (for no discernible reason) put the application back into the wait pile, and nobody had noticed. The man on the phone told me that he's assigned it to another decision maker, but it's at the bottom of the pile again so it's going to be another two weeks.

I've just so frustrated. I've been calling every few days and clearly nobody has bothered to actually check the actual application, and has just fobbed me off. And how long would I have been waiting if this guy hadn't actually checked?! I feel so helpless with it all!

The call centre staff are just ridiculous, what are they doing all day apart from pretending to check claims and making up whatever they like to say?!

@Persianpoppy maybe that's what has happened to your claim ? 🤔 xx

Tinxy · 30/04/2024 13:55

AutumnalApricity · 30/04/2024 13:51

I'm the 12th Feb but other than the two standard letters, haven't heard anything as yet

Thank you. From what I have read it's taking a lot longer than expected

Jom43 · 30/04/2024 14:05

Fee89 · 30/04/2024 13:51

@Emzi538 I remember now. 17th. To be fair on facebook iv seen upto 15th. So i reckon at latest friday next week yours could be done by. Monday is bank holiday xx

What is the Facebook group please?

Fee89 · 30/04/2024 14:24

Jom43 · 30/04/2024 14:05

What is the Facebook group please?

Here you are x

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Persianpoppy · 30/04/2024 14:57

Kaz87 · 30/04/2024 13:52

@Persianpoppy maybe that's what has happened to your claim ? 🤔 xx

Omggg!! It could be!! I didn't even think of that xx

Persianpoppy · 30/04/2024 15:03

@fluffyguineapig we have the same scan date. I've been told the same that it was with DM 2 weeks ago and now all of a sudden there is no update.
Been fobbed off so many times! Genuinely think now they've done the same to my claim.
How dare they? Can't trust the call handlers, can't trust the DMs. Pissing me off now xx

AutumnalApricity · 30/04/2024 15:18

I was brave and called for an update, scan date is 12/02 so still a little while to go but wanted to check just incase there has been any progress. I was on hold for less than 5 minutes but unfortunately not really any news; they just said that it's still waiting to be processed and can take up to 20 weeks from the scan date. Probably shouldn't have called really, don't think I'll call again until 15/16 weeks now.

Matilde08 · 30/04/2024 15:54

@CoralSheep thanks for your kind words ✨️ I'm trying to not take it too personally, but it starts to upset me a bit too much. It has been such a lovely sunny day, but I felt so down and stressed with overthinking..it really affects me mentally. I have wrote down complaint letter with @Fee89 help and encouragement. Mentioned dates of calls, details, updates I have not been given or when given, confusing ones...Mentioned how much it affects my mental health at the end of the day. Will give them a call on Thursday and if the same response: just wait! Then my complaint letter is ready to go. I think 24 weeks and still nothing is 'a bit' too much.

Fee89 · 30/04/2024 16:03

Matilde08 · 30/04/2024 15:54

@CoralSheep thanks for your kind words ✨️ I'm trying to not take it too personally, but it starts to upset me a bit too much. It has been such a lovely sunny day, but I felt so down and stressed with overthinking..it really affects me mentally. I have wrote down complaint letter with @Fee89 help and encouragement. Mentioned dates of calls, details, updates I have not been given or when given, confusing ones...Mentioned how much it affects my mental health at the end of the day. Will give them a call on Thursday and if the same response: just wait! Then my complaint letter is ready to go. I think 24 weeks and still nothing is 'a bit' too much.

So glad you have done that. I know it would of been draining for you to do it 🩷. We are human and have feelings. It becomes a point where you have to say enough is enough! Xx

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Claire11031982 · 30/04/2024 16:09

Parking...12 weeks today scan date 30/01 🤞

DaniCooling · 30/04/2024 16:18

I’m almost at the 15 week mark and keep checking my text messages like a madwoman. This wait is driving me crazy 😂

fluffyguineapig · 30/04/2024 17:40

Persianpoppy · 30/04/2024 15:03

@fluffyguineapig we have the same scan date. I've been told the same that it was with DM 2 weeks ago and now all of a sudden there is no update.
Been fobbed off so many times! Genuinely think now they've done the same to my claim.
How dare they? Can't trust the call handlers, can't trust the DMs. Pissing me off now xx

That's so weird that we have the same scan date and exactly the same thing has happened. I wonder if we're in the same batch and something has gone wrong? It's making me so frustrated too!

Persianpoppy · 30/04/2024 17:47

fluffyguineapig · 30/04/2024 17:40

That's so weird that we have the same scan date and exactly the same thing has happened. I wonder if we're in the same batch and something has gone wrong? It's making me so frustrated too!

Orrrr the DM is just a complete TOSSER!
excuse my language.. @Fee89 has been a naughty little influence on me recently 😂😂😂

im sorry you've had to go through that! I hope you have good news soon!

Accbabymom1994 · 30/04/2024 18:14

Lol I'm in March so I'm just gonna carry on waiting till Summer😂

Fee89 · 30/04/2024 18:20

Persianpoppy · 30/04/2024 17:47

Orrrr the DM is just a complete TOSSER!
excuse my language.. @Fee89 has been a naughty little influence on me recently 😂😂😂

im sorry you've had to go through that! I hope you have good news soon!

Glad you dont live near me 😂 xx

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NoWordForFluffy · 30/04/2024 18:22

Accbabymom1994 · 30/04/2024 18:14

Lol I'm in March so I'm just gonna carry on waiting till Summer😂

Mine arrived with the DWP yesterday. By the look of it, I could go into autumn!

Every now and then you hear about an anomaly claim which somehow ends up at the front of the queue straight away with a super-speedy award. Not many people are that lucky though!

Persianpoppy · 30/04/2024 18:29

Fee89 · 30/04/2024 18:20

Glad you dont live near me 😂 xx

I'm relocating near you! 😉😂 x

Fee89 · 30/04/2024 18:31

Persianpoppy · 30/04/2024 18:29

I'm relocating near you! 😉😂 x

Il have tent ready and waiting 😂 x

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Matilde08 · 30/04/2024 18:44

@Fee89 Thanks for your influence and helping me with complaint letter. I think it's the right next step for me.

Fee89 · 30/04/2024 18:48

Matilde08 · 30/04/2024 18:44

@Fee89 Thanks for your influence and helping me with complaint letter. I think it's the right next step for me.

Anytime! Its no trouble. Give me a shout if i can do anything to help. Just make sure you are also looking after yourself 🌸

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