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DLA WAIT TIME THREAD 39

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Emmajm85 · 12/04/2024 16:57

DLA Wait Time Chat

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Fee89 · 15/04/2024 10:03

@Emzi538 I think most of us could form our own circus 😂. Huge respect to single parents doing this single handed. If i could support/help you all i would. I was single mum with my eldest for 4 years and my god i was pulling my hair out. All i wanted was to sit and have adult conversation 😂 xx

Kirstygingee · 15/04/2024 10:04

Well the wait is over! Mrc and Lrm awarded Friday, the cry of relief when I got off the phone call! Good luck everyone else still waiting!

Emilymarie245 · 15/04/2024 10:05

Rang this morning, scan date 27/12 said its still open and they have not made a decision yet, so I'm guessing that means it's at least with a dm? Said the deadline for her decision should be 15th May.... surely I shouldn't have to wait that long 😫 I'm Autistic myself so constantly overthinking it.... 😏

Kirstygingee · 15/04/2024 10:05

Does anyone know how to update u.c with this please? Thankyou

Fee89 · 15/04/2024 10:06

Kirstygingee · 15/04/2024 10:04

Well the wait is over! Mrc and Lrm awarded Friday, the cry of relief when I got off the phone call! Good luck everyone else still waiting!

Finally!!!! So chuffed for you 💝 xx

Kirstygingee · 15/04/2024 10:07

It's been a long road and I hardly had any evidence, and I expected a decline so to hear those words she's awarded soo much relief! Can finally get things in place for her now! Hope you hear soon!

Fee89 · 15/04/2024 10:07

Emilymarie245 · 15/04/2024 10:05

Rang this morning, scan date 27/12 said its still open and they have not made a decision yet, so I'm guessing that means it's at least with a dm? Said the deadline for her decision should be 15th May.... surely I shouldn't have to wait that long 😫 I'm Autistic myself so constantly overthinking it.... 😏

I think they state that long incase they need to contact school/gp for further evidence. Call back wedensday as things can change so quick x

Holllymum · 15/04/2024 10:07

To everyone that’s waiting my wait was 16 weeks… the day before I was awarded was told it hadn’t even been looked at. The dm called me to ask a few questions she was really lovely compared to the call handlers… my daughter has autism and adhd she was awarded hrc lrm I hope all your children get what they deserve

Nickij2024 · 15/04/2024 10:10

Tasha0429 · 15/04/2024 09:50

@Leopardprintleelan same women as me 🙈👊👊 she was rude as fuck!!!

@Fee89 that's it, onit this morning though sent a message to the social worker! And trying to get through to he's peadatrion.

I need support somewhere! It's ridiculous! Why should we suffer in silence any longer! Xxxx

Good luck @Tasha0429 - fingers crossed for you xx

Fee89 · 15/04/2024 10:15

@Kirstygingee It great finally seeing dec claims being processed. But to know your child has got what they deserve is amazing xx

@Holllymum Usually they are as they dont handle to call center 😂. Glad your child was awarded xx

Kirstygingee · 15/04/2024 10:28

Fee89 · 15/04/2024 10:15

@Kirstygingee It great finally seeing dec claims being processed. But to know your child has got what they deserve is amazing xx

@Holllymum Usually they are as they dont handle to call center 😂. Glad your child was awarded xx

Honestly I was worried not enough evidence and presumed it was a decline so elated with MRC and LRM! its like a weights taken off. Hopefully not long for you

UmElise · 15/04/2024 10:29

Hi is anyone still waiting for a backdate payment from uc? The disabled child element.

Kirstygingee · 15/04/2024 10:36

UmElise · 15/04/2024 10:29

Hi is anyone still waiting for a backdate payment from uc? The disabled child element.

Do you have to ask them to backdate it?

UmElise · 15/04/2024 10:38

Kirstygingee · 15/04/2024 10:36

Do you have to ask them to backdate it?

Yes otherwise they won’t. Unless you ask they won’t add it at all 😳

Kaz87 · 15/04/2024 10:45

Just got my 1st text saying that they are still looking at my claim.
Scan date 04/01

Tasha0429 · 15/04/2024 10:45

@Emzi538 same as me, I'm a solo, my life feels like a circus 😂 and I'm the clown 🤣

@Nickij2024 Thank you love 💗

Just had a long call with my auntie who's a qualified social worker. She's been giving some support made me feel a little better 🥰

@Fee89 I'm onit 💪 Im not stopping now! I'm going to rant and rave at everyone untill we get support we need

Sorry if Ive missed anything guys, I can't keep up 😂😂

Alex900 · 15/04/2024 10:46

Kaz87 · 15/04/2024 10:45

Just got my 1st text saying that they are still looking at my claim.
Scan date 04/01

I literally just got one too I’m 8/1. Does anyone know how long a decision is usually made after receiving the text?

07whatever · 15/04/2024 10:50

Alex900 · 15/04/2024 10:46

I literally just got one too I’m 8/1. Does anyone know how long a decision is usually made after receiving the text?

Yup just had one too. I'm 11/01.
From experience, I had two texts saying this about three weeks apart then around six weeks from the first text I had backpay in my account (my DC1's claim last year)

fluffyguineapig · 15/04/2024 10:56

Kaz87 · 15/04/2024 10:45

Just got my 1st text saying that they are still looking at my claim.
Scan date 04/01

I just got the same text with the same scan date. No idea what it means though.

MsTB101 · 15/04/2024 10:58

Alex900 · 15/04/2024 10:46

I literally just got one too I’m 8/1. Does anyone know how long a decision is usually made after receiving the text?

And me, also 08/01 . . .

80smam · 15/04/2024 10:59

Morning all.

had a text this morning stating I’d been awarded. Middle rate for 2 year! Over the moon.

scan date 15/12.

Kaz87 · 15/04/2024 11:00

@Alex900 I just thought the same thing

@fluffyguineapig I think its only an acknowledgement message not meaning anything

Shannon157 · 15/04/2024 11:00

Kaz87 · 15/04/2024 10:45

Just got my 1st text saying that they are still looking at my claim.
Scan date 04/01

I just had the same 03/01

Kirstygingee · 15/04/2024 11:01

Alex900 · 15/04/2024 10:46

I literally just got one too I’m 8/1. Does anyone know how long a decision is usually made after receiving the text?

I got the text 3rd April, awarded 12th April

Fee89 · 15/04/2024 11:03

😡 tried calling, first time it wouldnt connect. Tried again. On hold for 30mins for it to disconnect. Give up