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DLA WAIT TIME THREAD 39

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Emmajm85 · 12/04/2024 16:57

DLA Wait Time Chat

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Fee89 · 18/04/2024 19:41

Loubyloufootball · 18/04/2024 19:30

I called today (couldn’t resist as haven’t called before) Week 12 on Monday. Shocked to get through straight away. He said he didn’t know if it was in the queue or with DM, just that they aren’t waiting for any further information and that claims are now taking up to 24 weeks! Couldn’t tell me anything. I haven’t sent any evidence with my claim, but think I will send it separately tomorrow as I don’t think I can bear anything else holding things up and then the wait for an MR

They are def not taking 24 weeks 🤔. Unless they need more evidence or applying for NI number 🤦🏻‍♀️

Matilde08 · 18/04/2024 19:42

It's frustrating that more and more who have called exactly today have been left without any update or even clue when to expect any decision. Someone been told that claims can now take up to 20 weeks.. even 24 weeks.. what's the point then to call them for an update at all.

Emzi538 · 18/04/2024 19:45

I sympathise with shopping... as fast as it's here it's gone!
I have 4 children at home now... and me...
My girls (15 &3) are non sen and eat most things... my two sons both sen (12&8) have lots of food issues the elder can onky have natural sugars and the younger will not eat fresh fruit and only some potato products and sweetcorn 😐neither like sloppy textures and elder won't eat pasta... so although they have free school meals I have to send packed lunches it's a huge battle and dinners are repetitive! My average weekly shop is a min of 200!

Loubyloufootball · 18/04/2024 19:46

Fee89 · 18/04/2024 19:41

They are def not taking 24 weeks 🤔. Unless they need more evidence or applying for NI number 🤦🏻‍♀️

I know! I don’t know where that came from!
My letter had NI on, hence why I’m now sending evidence ☺️

Fee89 · 18/04/2024 20:04

@Matilde08 Have you notice though everyone that called today all got told something different?

@Emzi538 This is thing not all families eat the same food so your buying 20 different meals a week and it adds up 😔

@Loubyloufootball I hope they get it in time xx

MrsRawl · 18/04/2024 20:14

Does anyone know how DM usually contact school? And do they always contact school? Honestly our school are absolutely rubbish and I’m starting to worry that they’re going to hold our claim up.
I chased school today regarding my sons autism referral and when Senco got back to me she said it was finally sent on Monday, Senco said she was waiting 5 weeks for my sons teacher to fill her part in. Which I think is ridiculous. And now my son is involved with the school nurse regarding toileting issues and fluid intake, she sent my sons teacher a letter prior to Easter and his teacher hasn’t replied, so the nurse emailed me today saying she was going to ring school, she rang the main office number and they said oh you’re best emailing Mrs…. because she’ll pick that up easier than a phone call. Yet I asked my sons teacher if I could have her email address for the DLA form and she said no the email addresses are private and to just put down the main office phone number and they can ring them. But with how rubbish our school is I’m now worrying what if they ring the office for further information and they don’t answer, or can’t put them through to the teacher straight away etc. then what? A further wait? Or could the DM potentially send a letter to my son’s school addressed to his teacher? school are already terrible at time keeping and replying. Sorry for the long moany post there just fed up of everything having to be an argument with any service we encounter at the moment 10 weeks in now and wishing the next potentially 10 away

Loubyloufootball · 18/04/2024 20:27

I don’t know if to bother with sending evidence at this stage?… surely they will contact agencies themselves if listed on the form? I mean, I’ve waited 3 months already and a lot has happened in that time.

Something tells me dwp wont do that though. They will only look at the claim based on what is written in the form only and I feel confident that should be enough 🤞

Fee89 · 18/04/2024 20:46

@MrsRawl Teachers school email addresses are not private. If you go to main office and ask reception for it they will give you it. Dla usually write to the school and i think (could be wrong) they have 21 days to reply. Sounds like school need kick up the ass. Sorry you are struggling with them 😔.

@Loubyloufootball I think it depends on the d.m you get and if they feel a need to contact anyone else. In my opinion id keep the new evidence incase you need to do an mr. Atleast then you know you can fight the mr if needed better but also if its not needed then its not gain no loss if that makes sense

MrsRawl · 18/04/2024 21:05

Fee89 · 18/04/2024 20:46

@MrsRawl Teachers school email addresses are not private. If you go to main office and ask reception for it they will give you it. Dla usually write to the school and i think (could be wrong) they have 21 days to reply. Sounds like school need kick up the ass. Sorry you are struggling with them 😔.

@Loubyloufootball I think it depends on the d.m you get and if they feel a need to contact anyone else. In my opinion id keep the new evidence incase you need to do an mr. Atleast then you know you can fight the mr if needed better but also if its not needed then its not gain no loss if that makes sense

Oh really? She said the email addresses are for teachers only to contact each other on and outside services, not for parents to have and hand out? I have the email address for the main office so I may email them and say DLA need it and see if they’ll give it me. Might speed things up a little 😂 ( doubt it )

Fee89 · 18/04/2024 21:12

MrsRawl · 18/04/2024 21:05

Oh really? She said the email addresses are for teachers only to contact each other on and outside services, not for parents to have and hand out? I have the email address for the main office so I may email them and say DLA need it and see if they’ll give it me. Might speed things up a little 😂 ( doubt it )

Unless my kids primary and high school are different but we have email addresses for every single member off staff. Infact some are even on the schools websites 😂. I got my daughters senco email address off the school website. Every time they find out their new teachers we get a slip with their teachers email address on it. Only thing we dont get is the extension numbers direct to the classrooms x

Fee89 · 18/04/2024 21:19

@MrsRawl I used to work 13 hour shifts 7.30am to 8.30pm (3days one week 4 the next) so wouldnt be at drop off/pick ups. And in my job i couldnt call, so if i had concerns or wanted up dates id email. How does your childs school expect other parents to communicate with them 🤔

Anxiouslywaitingmum · 18/04/2024 21:22

I'm so worried they'll call our school but I have said in my forms that he masks so hopefully they don't.
Senco always made me feel like I was just lying about everything!!
Another day of not ringing.. go me 🤣🤣

Fee89 · 18/04/2024 21:29

Anxiouslywaitingmum · 18/04/2024 21:22

I'm so worried they'll call our school but I have said in my forms that he masks so hopefully they don't.
Senco always made me feel like I was just lying about everything!!
Another day of not ringing.. go me 🤣🤣

Im actually sad at how many schools are not helping. Well done. Just tomorrow to get through xx

Anxiouslywaitingmum · 18/04/2024 21:32

Fee89 · 18/04/2024 21:29

Im actually sad at how many schools are not helping. Well done. Just tomorrow to get through xx

I really don't want to call tomorrow. No work so I have to keep myself busy and out of the house!
Hoping lots of you wake up with payments and lots of awards!! X

MrsRawl · 18/04/2024 21:40

Fee89 · 18/04/2024 21:12

Unless my kids primary and high school are different but we have email addresses for every single member off staff. Infact some are even on the schools websites 😂. I got my daughters senco email address off the school website. Every time they find out their new teachers we get a slip with their teachers email address on it. Only thing we dont get is the extension numbers direct to the classrooms x

Aw really, thats good, wish our school did that, our school doesn’t give any of that out. We have to communicate with them through dojo, and they never ever reply and most of them have a message that says sorry I’m currently away at the minute so may not reply and then they never do 😂 I’ve got a meeting at school on Monday with his teacher, his TA, Senco, SALT and the school nurse 😂 so I’ll ask again then, the decision was made to get everyone in one room at the same time because the communication is ridiculous, forever waiting weeks for a reply about anything x

MrsRawl · 18/04/2024 21:43

Anxiouslywaitingmum · 18/04/2024 21:22

I'm so worried they'll call our school but I have said in my forms that he masks so hopefully they don't.
Senco always made me feel like I was just lying about everything!!
Another day of not ringing.. go me 🤣🤣

Aw I remember speaking to you a few threads back. Our school sounds similar, and the senco rolled her eyes several times at me until I showed her video recordings from home. Shouldn’t be such a battle should it? I also said on my form that he masks at school but he does have other ongoing issues at school, just worried they won’t support me fully. Keeping everything crossed for everyone 😩

Chickapea77 · 18/04/2024 22:11

I haven’t called since I requested the form. I used to work in a call centre for a bank and I remember some of the other handlers were absolute a**holes to the customers. It was around the time of the credit crunch and so many people were struggling badly, I am maybe too empathetic and found it so hard… a few of my coworkers seemed to love having the power to upset someone going through a rough time! Honestly, I hated it there.
I can imagine they have a script of what to say roughly and if they don’t want to help they can get away with parroting the same thing or looking for excuses to say nothing. I wouldn’t be surprised if some don’t even bother searching for the case notes, looks like some even work from home… Kim may be sitting there in her pjs taking calls between wash loads and cups of tea as far as we know 🤭

Lrachell · 19/04/2024 06:01

Hiya I rang on Monday wasn't even with the decision maker then rang on weds and she's been awarded on Tuesday apparently (middle rate care) I sent through extra evidence EHCP application that was delivered on the 9th and it still hasn't been scanned on. She said when it does get scanned on they will look and see if it makes a difference and let me know but how long am I supposed to wait for it to be scanned on they wouldn't give me a time scale.

Scan date was 28/12

Jempeech · 19/04/2024 06:23

@MrsRawl I’m so sorry your school is letting you down like that . I work in education myself . And I see it from some other staff members time and time again . They do get time to do these things in the school day as they are stretched with a lot but not that stretched ! It makes me sad . My advice is to mention governors … say you don’t feel supported in the process . Both my kids are SEN and this is why I’ve chosen to work with the amazing kids I do . So they have someone who gives a shit fighting for them everyday ! Does he have a TA ? They could also provide evidence! Good luck !

Persianpoppy · 19/04/2024 06:45

My 15 weeks was YESTERDAY. Scan date 04/01
Should I ring this morning? Last time I rang was last Monday.
is anyone else joining me in the 9am calls this morning?? 😅

Kee3k · 19/04/2024 07:16

Persianpoppy · 19/04/2024 06:45

My 15 weeks was YESTERDAY. Scan date 04/01
Should I ring this morning? Last time I rang was last Monday.
is anyone else joining me in the 9am calls this morning?? 😅

Yess call! Letter states 15 week it’s been 15 week! Good luck fingers crossed xxx

Bee92 · 19/04/2024 07:16

Persianpoppy · 19/04/2024 06:45

My 15 weeks was YESTERDAY. Scan date 04/01
Should I ring this morning? Last time I rang was last Monday.
is anyone else joining me in the 9am calls this morning?? 😅

Let me know how you get on! Fingers crossed that today is your day!! ❤️ I only rang Wednesday and I'm trying my hardest to wait till Monday to ring again 😂

Channy2777 · 19/04/2024 07:21

I'm calling 16 weeks today I called Wednesday and was with dm so hopefully some news I have requested a text but never get them last letter i got was 15th Feb

Kaz87 · 19/04/2024 07:24

Good morning @Persianpoppy yes call as I darent 🙈 We are the same scan date so hopefully you can have some updates x

Persianpoppy · 19/04/2024 07:28

@Kee3k @Bee92 @Kaz87
Good morning ladies!
@Kaz87 ill get our update for us today, seeing as we're the same scan date!
ladies, keep those fingers tightly crossed please! Hopefully some awards and good news today! 🤞🏼