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DLA WAIT TIME THREAD 39

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Emmajm85 · 12/04/2024 16:57

DLA Wait Time Chat

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Bee92 · 17/04/2024 09:50

Just got off the phone with DLA,
Scan date was 09/01
It is now with the decision maker but no decision has been made as of yet but it is getting looked at.
Told that my max date for a decision is 28/05 but should be soon

Fee89 · 17/04/2024 09:54

@Emmajm85 oh my days FINALLY. Congratulations 💝. Awww today is starting off so well 🥰 xx

Tracy37x · 17/04/2024 09:54

Persianpoppy · 17/04/2024 09:03

@Tracy37x @Bee92
Thought id tag you both as I'm still getting used to this!
I genuinely just waiting, very impatient! Aries traits STRONG! 😂
good luck to both of you and everybody else here! Xx

It does become very frustrating! And I’m constantly over analysing everything. Did I write enough? Did I send enough? Have I done the form correct? Hopefully we all get positive outcomes and soon 🤞 xx

kristie198 · 17/04/2024 09:54

Emmajm85 · 17/04/2024 09:49

Oh my days! Our wait is finally over!!

Scan Date 17/11
1 letter, no texts.
no text to confirm the award.

They awarded MRC. I completely forgot to ask how long for.

This is going to be such a massive help for our little one.

i really don’t want to sound ungrateful but i may consider doing an MR once I get the letter as I think she deserves something for mobility. But I’ll check the reasons they give in the letter before I decide.

congratulations on all other awards today 💕 xxx

Yay that's great news hopefully the award letter won't be too long mine came Monday which I thought was quick considering they say 2 weeks xx

SAM2409 · 17/04/2024 09:59

Woohoo! Congrats! As much as I would love them to be well into Jan now (scan date 12/01).
they really are getting into the remaining nov/December dates and it’s great to see everyone finally getting what their child deserves❤️❤️

TiredTilly · 17/04/2024 10:06

Emmajm85 · 17/04/2024 09:49

Oh my days! Our wait is finally over!!

Scan Date 17/11
1 letter, no texts.
no text to confirm the award.

They awarded MRC. I completely forgot to ask how long for.

This is going to be such a massive help for our little one.

i really don’t want to sound ungrateful but i may consider doing an MR once I get the letter as I think she deserves something for mobility. But I’ll check the reasons they give in the letter before I decide.

congratulations on all other awards today 💕 xxx

Finally!!!!!! I’m well made up for you💐🎉 it’s been such a long wait ❤️❤️

Fee89 · 17/04/2024 10:07

Facebook - 3rd January scan date awarded they recieved payment today. 5th January declined last week 😔

January is slowly creeping in guys 💕 stay positive 😘

Jadexxx92 · 17/04/2024 10:08

Leopardprintleelan · 17/04/2024 09:39

Feel so f*ing validated right now!!! Never thought I'd get to do one of these so here goes!
My timeline......
Called for forms 16/11
Scan date 22/12
2 letters and 1 text.
Received the "your child qualifies" text this morning at 9.13
Rang for rates and she has been awarded this morning, HRC & LRM until November 2025!!!

@Alex900 sorry was just crying and hyperventilating whilst on hold haha

@Fee89 I ain't going no where giiiirl!! You don't get rid of me that easily haha!! 💖

Amazing news hun so happy for you ❤️

Fee89 · 17/04/2024 10:10

@TiredTilly Any update on NI? X

Persianpoppy · 17/04/2024 10:12

Tracy37x · 17/04/2024 09:54

It does become very frustrating! And I’m constantly over analysing everything. Did I write enough? Did I send enough? Have I done the form correct? Hopefully we all get positive outcomes and soon 🤞 xx

Same with me! My little one suffers with epilepsy, although he was diagnosed at 5 months old, he was never medicated until end of last year hence why I put in the application because I didn't want to have less information. Also undergoing tests and assessments for ADHD and Autism which I have added with his upcoming appointments.
I have a good feeling for the end of April for January scan dates! 🤞🏼

Persianpoppy · 17/04/2024 10:18

Fee89 · 17/04/2024 10:07

Facebook - 3rd January scan date awarded they recieved payment today. 5th January declined last week 😔

January is slowly creeping in guys 💕 stay positive 😘

04/01 is mine! So I'm hoping 🤞🏼🤞🏼 soon!
Glad they're whizzing through it! Must be us guys pestering them that's given the DM a kick up the bum to go quicker 👀🤣

Fee89 · 17/04/2024 10:19

Persianpoppy · 17/04/2024 10:18

04/01 is mine! So I'm hoping 🤞🏼🤞🏼 soon!
Glad they're whizzing through it! Must be us guys pestering them that's given the DM a kick up the bum to go quicker 👀🤣

Have you called today? The 3rd jan on facebook her award was made on friday which is 14 weeks 2 days if my maths is right 😂 xx

Anxiouslywaitingmum · 17/04/2024 10:25

Fee89 · 17/04/2024 10:19

Have you called today? The 3rd jan on facebook her award was made on friday which is 14 weeks 2 days if my maths is right 😂 xx

I'm 14 weeks and 2 days today 😬
I'm sat at work (I'm alone today) catching up on married at first sight 🤣 just to keep myself busy but all I kept thinking was 'i need to check the thread on the next set of ads' 🤣

kristie198 · 17/04/2024 10:27

@TiredTilly @tireshhave you heard anything xx

Persianpoppy · 17/04/2024 10:28

Fee89 · 17/04/2024 10:19

Have you called today? The 3rd jan on facebook her award was made on friday which is 14 weeks 2 days if my maths is right 😂 xx

I'm too scared to call! 😂 I always get the grumpy ones on the other end of the line and biting my tongue is SO hard!
I failed maths so, I'm just going to agree with you! Hahahah

Fee89 · 17/04/2024 10:29

Anxiouslywaitingmum · 17/04/2024 10:25

I'm 14 weeks and 2 days today 😬
I'm sat at work (I'm alone today) catching up on married at first sight 🤣 just to keep myself busy but all I kept thinking was 'i need to check the thread on the next set of ads' 🤣

Hahaha 😂 it will soon be your turn. It bloody takes over you though. And fact things can change so quick aswell xx

Tracy37x · 17/04/2024 10:29

Persianpoppy · 17/04/2024 10:12

Same with me! My little one suffers with epilepsy, although he was diagnosed at 5 months old, he was never medicated until end of last year hence why I put in the application because I didn't want to have less information. Also undergoing tests and assessments for ADHD and Autism which I have added with his upcoming appointments.
I have a good feeling for the end of April for January scan dates! 🤞🏼

Mine is for my boy who has suspected adhd and autism. He was permanently excluded from school last October and attended an AP. They too suspect the same. I sent camhs referral letters, ehcp, letter form teacher and a few reports from school saying his struggles etc. he has major semh needs which is reflected in most of my evidence. Everything just feels like a battle doesn’t it. My son is currently not attending any education setting, we’re awaiting at home tutoring to start.

so nice to see all the awards coming in today, really praying for the rest of us and hope we all get what we need for our babies xx

Fee89 · 17/04/2024 10:31

Persianpoppy · 17/04/2024 10:28

I'm too scared to call! 😂 I always get the grumpy ones on the other end of the line and biting my tongue is SO hard!
I failed maths so, I'm just going to agree with you! Hahahah

😂 dont be scared, you have every right to call 💕 x

Mamof9 · 17/04/2024 10:35

Scan date 28/12
rang Friday wasn’t with a Dm
woke up this morning to a pending payment for tomorrow . They have awarded middle care and low mobility for 2 year . I hardly had any evidence only proof that’s she’s awaiting cyps assessment for asd I also didn’t write much on the forms I was convinced she would be a decline as she masks well at school . I hope this helps . Good luck to everyone still waiting

Fee89 · 17/04/2024 10:44

Mamof9 · 17/04/2024 10:35

Scan date 28/12
rang Friday wasn’t with a Dm
woke up this morning to a pending payment for tomorrow . They have awarded middle care and low mobility for 2 year . I hardly had any evidence only proof that’s she’s awaiting cyps assessment for asd I also didn’t write much on the forms I was convinced she would be a decline as she masks well at school . I hope this helps . Good luck to everyone still waiting

Congratulations 💝. Loving all the awards being announced xx

HebeMumsnet · 17/04/2024 10:46

Morning, everyone.

We've just noticed that there are a lot of these threads in our Childcare section, which is really for threads about nannies, childminders, nurseries etc.

We can see lots of people are finding the threads useful, so we're going to move this over to our SN Children section where threads about these issues tend to sit, and hopefully they can be of help to even more people there.

Persianpoppy · 17/04/2024 10:50

Fee89 · 17/04/2024 10:31

😂 dont be scared, you have every right to call 💕 x

The people on the other side make you feel like it's almost ILLEGAL to keep on calling! 😂😭

TiredTilly · 17/04/2024 10:51

Fee89 · 17/04/2024 10:10

@TiredTilly Any update on NI? X

Nothing 🙁 got cut off today was on hold 30min. Going to call later at 2
fed up honestly😢

TiredTilly · 17/04/2024 10:52

kristie198 · 17/04/2024 10:27

@TiredTilly @tireshhave you heard anything xx

No just what they told me 2 days ago. Gotta wait 12 weeks for child benefit and DLA said NI should be any day now which I don’t believe at all🙁 xx

Fee89 · 17/04/2024 10:55

@Persianpoppy Dont allow them to let you feel like that. There are some lovely call handlers that are more than willing to help. If you feel a call handler is rude to you as for a manager xx

@TiredTilly What an utter joke 🤦🏻‍♀️ start looking into how to make a formal complaint. You know things can be done but they just seem so unwilling with you 😡😤. Let us know how the call goes later xx