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DLA WAIT TIME THREAD 39

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Emmajm85 · 12/04/2024 16:57

DLA Wait Time Chat

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Alex900 · 17/04/2024 08:12

Anyone ringing today?? I’m 8/1 and I’m past waiting now i sent the forms 8/12 scan day 8/1 it feels like I have waited forever for this. I’m ringing this morning

Emmajm85 · 17/04/2024 08:14

Fee89 · 17/04/2024 06:57

@Emmajm85 It's horrible isnt it seeing our babies struggle. But we then become frustrated as all we want to do is take it all away yet we cant. How old is your daughter? X

It is heartbreaking! Yes you’re right, it is frustrating. We’ve got a new paediatrician that isn’t listening 🙈 which is pissing me off to the max too 😡
She’s 3 and a half. She has cerebral palsy, we’re maxed out on doses of calpol and neurofen most days now and she’s screaming in agony and I can’t do anything with her when the pains like that. It’s got to a stage now where she’s stopped wanting to try and join in playing with other kids because she knows she will fall and hurt and then suffer with more pain later in the day after being busy and playing 😞 but paediatrician gave her melatonin a few weeks ago saying that should help. It’s done bloody nothing.
sorry, you only asked how old she was and I got carried away 😂
i dont know a huge amount about diabetes, but my grandmother was type 1 for as long as I can remember and I know how difficult that was to manage. Let alone for a little one and the struggles of trying to get the balance right. Bless you. Just know you’re amazing 💕 How is she this morning? xx

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Anxiouslywaitingmum · 17/04/2024 08:18

Alex900 · 17/04/2024 08:12

Anyone ringing today?? I’m 8/1 and I’m past waiting now i sent the forms 8/12 scan day 8/1 it feels like I have waited forever for this. I’m ringing this morning

Yes please ring!!! I'm gonna wait til Friday but I know by midday I'll talk myself out of waiting and call and then get the ump cos they'll tell me the same as yesterday 🤣🤣

Emzi538 · 17/04/2024 08:24

Alex900 · 17/04/2024 08:12

Anyone ringing today?? I’m 8/1 and I’m past waiting now i sent the forms 8/12 scan day 8/1 it feels like I have waited forever for this. I’m ringing this morning

Good luck!

Persianpoppy · 17/04/2024 08:34

Bee92 · 17/04/2024 07:52

Morning!
My friends scan date is the same as yours and got her decision through a few days ago but unfortunately it was a rejection.
My scan date is 09/01. Hoping for some good news soon

Oh gosh!
now I'm hoping, no news is GOOD news! 😭 I received a text the other day saying they are still looking into the claim.
I was told all January scan dates will have decisions end of April to the beginning of May, not sure how true that is as I feel like they just say different things to everybody! Good luck to you too! ❤️

Tracy37x · 17/04/2024 08:37

Persianpoppy · 17/04/2024 08:34

Oh gosh!
now I'm hoping, no news is GOOD news! 😭 I received a text the other day saying they are still looking into the claim.
I was told all January scan dates will have decisions end of April to the beginning of May, not sure how true that is as I feel like they just say different things to everybody! Good luck to you too! ❤️

I got told the same yesterday end of April/May xx

Bee92 · 17/04/2024 08:40

Persianpoppy · 17/04/2024 08:34

Oh gosh!
now I'm hoping, no news is GOOD news! 😭 I received a text the other day saying they are still looking into the claim.
I was told all January scan dates will have decisions end of April to the beginning of May, not sure how true that is as I feel like they just say different things to everybody! Good luck to you too! ❤️

I was told the same when i rang a few weeks ago to update my contact details that it was down to a 15 week wait and would hear around the end of April. Going to give them a call today to see how the claims progressing.
Good luck!! Hopefully we all get some good news very soon

Fee89 · 17/04/2024 08:45

Emmajm85 · 17/04/2024 08:14

It is heartbreaking! Yes you’re right, it is frustrating. We’ve got a new paediatrician that isn’t listening 🙈 which is pissing me off to the max too 😡
She’s 3 and a half. She has cerebral palsy, we’re maxed out on doses of calpol and neurofen most days now and she’s screaming in agony and I can’t do anything with her when the pains like that. It’s got to a stage now where she’s stopped wanting to try and join in playing with other kids because she knows she will fall and hurt and then suffer with more pain later in the day after being busy and playing 😞 but paediatrician gave her melatonin a few weeks ago saying that should help. It’s done bloody nothing.
sorry, you only asked how old she was and I got carried away 😂
i dont know a huge amount about diabetes, but my grandmother was type 1 for as long as I can remember and I know how difficult that was to manage. Let alone for a little one and the struggles of trying to get the balance right. Bless you. Just know you’re amazing 💕 How is she this morning? xx

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Let it out. We all have. Broke my heart reading shes giving up trying to play 😔 shes still only a baby, having to deal with so much. Oh i just want to hug you both 💕. You can get deep heat bubble bath do you think that would be any good for her in the evenings? Im sat trying to think of ideas but know for a fact you would of tried everything 🤦🏻‍♀️. Im keeping everything crossed for you that today is positive 💖 xxx

Emilymarie245 · 17/04/2024 08:52

Woke up to a pending payment for £1950 coming in tommorrow! So happy, as was expecting a decline! My scan date was 27/12 not sure what her rates are, if anyone has a clue let me know 🤣 but I'm so excited, going to start adapting her room with all the exciting sensory bits she needs 😁😁😁

kristie198 · 17/04/2024 08:55

Emmajm85 · 17/04/2024 07:59

I’m on it first thing! Today is my day 🙌😬 xx

Yes good luck keep us posted xx

Fee89 · 17/04/2024 08:55

Emilymarie245 · 17/04/2024 08:52

Woke up to a pending payment for £1950 coming in tommorrow! So happy, as was expecting a decline! My scan date was 27/12 not sure what her rates are, if anyone has a clue let me know 🤣 but I'm so excited, going to start adapting her room with all the exciting sensory bits she needs 😁😁😁

When did you request forms or did you print out at home? So we can help you work out rates. Congratulations 💝 xx

SAM2409 · 17/04/2024 09:02

Congratulations on all the recent awards! They really seem like they are getting through December at least❤️

I wanted to say thankyou to those aswell who replied to my message the other day about me worrying about the amount of evidence on the forms.
I would of replied individually but locked myself out of my account and now I can’t find the tags🤣

but I swear this wait is making me crazy! Although I’m doing is refreshing this page and trying to stop myself from calling!
what are you guys going to keep this out of your mind?😂

Persianpoppy · 17/04/2024 09:03

@Tracy37x @Bee92
Thought id tag you both as I'm still getting used to this!
I genuinely just waiting, very impatient! Aries traits STRONG! 😂
good luck to both of you and everybody else here! Xx

Persianpoppy · 17/04/2024 09:10

Emilymarie245 · 17/04/2024 08:52

Woke up to a pending payment for £1950 coming in tommorrow! So happy, as was expecting a decline! My scan date was 27/12 not sure what her rates are, if anyone has a clue let me know 🤣 but I'm so excited, going to start adapting her room with all the exciting sensory bits she needs 😁😁😁

Congratulations!!
makes me much more hopeful!

SAM2409 · 17/04/2024 09:11

SAM2409 · 17/04/2024 09:02

Congratulations on all the recent awards! They really seem like they are getting through December at least❤️

I wanted to say thankyou to those aswell who replied to my message the other day about me worrying about the amount of evidence on the forms.
I would of replied individually but locked myself out of my account and now I can’t find the tags🤣

but I swear this wait is making me crazy! Although I’m doing is refreshing this page and trying to stop myself from calling!
what are you guys going to keep this out of your mind?😂

*all I’m doing

clearly I’m sleep-deprived too

Alex900 · 17/04/2024 09:14

very abrupt man. “No decisions been made! Anything else” yeh have a great fucking day to you too sweetheart 😂😂

Leopardprintleelan · 17/04/2024 09:19

OMG I can't breath, just come out of school after a crap morning holding back tears talking to SENDCO outside, ended up calling at 9.10 thought I'll never get through now..... Just looked whilst I'm on hold and I've got the your child qualifies text at 9.13 @Fee89 @Tasha0429 @Jadexxx92

Fee89 · 17/04/2024 09:22

@Leopardprintleelan OMG!!!!! YES 🥳🥳🥳 Awwww im so friggin happy. Well done. Eeekkkkk get the chocolate out 💝 xx

Wait no, that means your leaving us 😔😂 xx

Alex900 · 17/04/2024 09:25

Leopardprintleelan · 17/04/2024 09:19

OMG I can't breath, just come out of school after a crap morning holding back tears talking to SENDCO outside, ended up calling at 9.10 thought I'll never get through now..... Just looked whilst I'm on hold and I've got the your child qualifies text at 9.13 @Fee89 @Tasha0429 @Jadexxx92

When’s your scan date sweet x

sjm100 · 17/04/2024 09:26

Congratulations on all awards super happy for you all x

Kaz87 · 17/04/2024 09:32

Bee92 · 17/04/2024 07:52

Morning!
My friends scan date is the same as yours and got her decision through a few days ago but unfortunately it was a rejection.
My scan date is 09/01. Hoping for some good news soon

I'm sorry to hear that. My scan date is the same, if you don't mind me asking-do you know what condition/ disability was your friend applying for ? Sorry it made me really nervous 😓

Bee92 · 17/04/2024 09:34

Kaz87 · 17/04/2024 09:32

I'm sorry to hear that. My scan date is the same, if you don't mind me asking-do you know what condition/ disability was your friend applying for ? Sorry it made me really nervous 😓

She was applying for autism (suspected) she didn't have any evidence other than what she was saying and she didn't put a huge amount into the form so that is probably why it was rejected

Leopardprintleelan · 17/04/2024 09:39

Feel so f*ing validated right now!!! Never thought I'd get to do one of these so here goes!
My timeline......
Called for forms 16/11
Scan date 22/12
2 letters and 1 text.
Received the "your child qualifies" text this morning at 9.13
Rang for rates and she has been awarded this morning, HRC & LRM until November 2025!!!

@Alex900 sorry was just crying and hyperventilating whilst on hold haha

@Fee89 I ain't going no where giiiirl!! You don't get rid of me that easily haha!! 💖

Fee89 · 17/04/2024 09:48

@Leopardprintleelan I can only imagine how you feel right now. Hoping you feel abit more at ease 💝. A nice treat for you all is deserved xx

Emmajm85 · 17/04/2024 09:49

Oh my days! Our wait is finally over!!

Scan Date 17/11
1 letter, no texts.
no text to confirm the award.

They awarded MRC. I completely forgot to ask how long for.

This is going to be such a massive help for our little one.

i really don’t want to sound ungrateful but i may consider doing an MR once I get the letter as I think she deserves something for mobility. But I’ll check the reasons they give in the letter before I decide.

congratulations on all other awards today 💕 xxx

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