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DLA WAIT TIME THREAD 37

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MLW92 · 27/03/2024 20:34

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TiredTilly · 04/04/2024 20:23

@Emmajm85 hey. When did you send off the child benefit application form?xx

NotEatingCakesIwish · 04/04/2024 20:35

We were awarded today after 18wk wait, I was expecting it to be another couple of weeks. Had no details yet just money in bank, following a text on 25/3 saying they were working on it. Good luck everyone.

Fee89 · 04/04/2024 20:35

Good luck everyone for tomorrow. This bank holiday has really thrown me, forgot tomorrow is Friday. Only 3 weeks 5 days left off April 😂

Fee89 · 04/04/2024 20:36

NotEatingCakesIwish · 04/04/2024 20:35

We were awarded today after 18wk wait, I was expecting it to be another couple of weeks. Had no details yet just money in bank, following a text on 25/3 saying they were working on it. Good luck everyone.

Congratulations 💝glad your wait is over xx

Bossofthehouse · 04/04/2024 20:37

NotEatingCakesIwish · 04/04/2024 20:35

We were awarded today after 18wk wait, I was expecting it to be another couple of weeks. Had no details yet just money in bank, following a text on 25/3 saying they were working on it. Good luck everyone.

Congratulations on your award 🙌

NotEatingCakesIwish · 04/04/2024 20:41

I actually cried with relief and validation that our child is recognised as needing this extra support it’s a funny feeling but also sad it’s been a rough few years and we were told to apply a couple of years ago but I kept putting it off until we had no choice. I hope you all hear soon.

Fee89 · 04/04/2024 20:46

NotEatingCakesIwish · 04/04/2024 20:41

I actually cried with relief and validation that our child is recognised as needing this extra support it’s a funny feeling but also sad it’s been a rough few years and we were told to apply a couple of years ago but I kept putting it off until we had no choice. I hope you all hear soon.

It's one thing taken off your shoulders. When one thing goes right we feel asthough we have won a small battle. Them forms alone are horrible, never mind the unknown wait x

HG95 · 04/04/2024 20:48

1slamkh · 04/04/2024 19:50

Someone did, implied I lied about the claim being sent a day after the scan date, but I don’t have any reasons to lie… so yes, that’s what triggered all this off.

im assuming it was my comment you are referring to. I wasn’t implying that you were lying. I was implying that the call handlers were lying which we all know they do. We all meet on the thread at 9am on the dot to see what garbage they say for a new day, each day it’s something different, each day another excuse or another tale. Your attitude towards others is ludicrous. Have a little empathy, we’re all getting fed up and anxious but it doesn’t mean we aren’t over the moon each time someone is awarded

HG95 · 04/04/2024 20:51

katiewil · 04/04/2024 20:04

I was told today it was handed to case manager this morning and will definately here within 2 weeks
So I am not ringing until next Friday now.. (I probably will though 😂)

let me know if you ring, I’ve a hospital app tomorrow morning so depending on how long we’re there and what tests they decide to do I may not have time to call it’s getting to be something I just have to do I can’t stop myself 😂 they did say today it should be done by the end of this week though at most end of next so I’m trying to hold off calling

NotEatingCakesIwish · 04/04/2024 20:52

Thanks @Fee89 your right, I’m also juggling the tribunal process for a EHCP and non-attendance at school so at least I can tick this off the growing list.

Fee89 · 04/04/2024 21:03

NotEatingCakesIwish · 04/04/2024 20:52

Thanks @Fee89 your right, I’m also juggling the tribunal process for a EHCP and non-attendance at school so at least I can tick this off the growing list.

😬Good luck. I remember that battle with my eldest. She has adhd,asd,anxiety and tourettes, vocal tic atm is 'April fools', was fun last night while out for a meal 😂. We ended up moving her schools and the senco was sooooo much better at getting things done. We always find strength somehow so kick their a&& 💪xx

Keepgoing88 · 04/04/2024 21:12

Mommy2boys30 · 04/04/2024 18:58

Hrc is for night care (11pm-7am) so does both children need that or did you put that on the form about it to receive it

My son who was awarded HRC def did put more night time needs as that is his biggest issue

Taffylass72 · 04/04/2024 21:22

I shall be ringing at 9 on the dot again! Good luck to you all 🤞🏻❤️

Emmajm85 · 04/04/2024 21:25

TiredTilly · 04/04/2024 20:23

@Emmajm85 hey. When did you send off the child benefit application form?xx

well I filled it all in online, then at the end it asked me to print it off and post it to them 🙄😄 so I sent it on 16th March. And still no sign of it in the building apparently 😅. But I was so silly and just sent it via normal post, I should have done it recorded delivery 🤦‍♀️ Have you applied? xx

Readyornot567 · 04/04/2024 21:36

Taffylass72 · 04/04/2024 19:05

Unfortunately I don’t think it would help in our case, behavioural issues have been outlined by her oncologist in her letter confirming cancer diagnoses and the date she started receiving chemotherapy, alongside all of the other symptoms and side effects which some will affect her for the rest of her life, and this I why I’m finding it difficult to know what more they need from me 🤷🏻‍♀️ x

I realise you have detailed all of her symptoms and issues, etc, but did you focus on the extra care you then need to give her because of those? Sometimes it can be the way it's worded as they seem to have set criteria they have to follow. So rather than talking about her sickness, for example, literally spelling out what you need to do for her as a result. I know it should be obvious, but I think the clearer you make it for them, the easier it will be to assess.

Please ignore if you have already done this and I hope the chat with the manager goes well.

Berosey54432 · 04/04/2024 21:42

I’ve been waiting 14 weeks today from my scan date what is the average wait time? Had 2 letters so far - 1 acknowledgment and the other the first week of February to say not to ring it may take up to another 15 weeks 🙄 just wondered the average time? Thanks

TiredTilly · 04/04/2024 21:44

Emmajm85 · 04/04/2024 21:25

well I filled it all in online, then at the end it asked me to print it off and post it to them 🙄😄 so I sent it on 16th March. And still no sign of it in the building apparently 😅. But I was so silly and just sent it via normal post, I should have done it recorded delivery 🤦‍♀️ Have you applied? xx

Same here 😅 I filled it in online and printed it, sent it off 20th march. Sent it normal post aswell, didn’t even think to send it recorded lol. I’ll call them tomorrow aswell as DLA😮‍💨
how long would we normally have to wait to hear back from child benefit, this is new to me x

UmElise · 04/04/2024 21:44

1slamkh · 04/04/2024 19:46

Why would I be joking? I’m negative? In what sense? All I did was relay info from DLA, and you’re all attacking me?! Did I say I agree with the DLA timeline system?! Shall we ignore when someone attacked me unprovoked earlier on which started ALL of this?! Please re read everything properly before tagging me.

Who attacked you?? 😳 we was talking about the fb group and all of a sudden you were saying don’t be bitter.

Taffylass72 · 04/04/2024 21:48

Readyornot567 · 04/04/2024 21:36

I realise you have detailed all of her symptoms and issues, etc, but did you focus on the extra care you then need to give her because of those? Sometimes it can be the way it's worded as they seem to have set criteria they have to follow. So rather than talking about her sickness, for example, literally spelling out what you need to do for her as a result. I know it should be obvious, but I think the clearer you make it for them, the easier it will be to assess.

Please ignore if you have already done this and I hope the chat with the manager goes well.

Yes hun my DD consultant and I sat and put all of her care needs through the day and night, I think we have just been unlucky with the DM that ours was handed to unfortunately, but I’ll be putting another complaint in tomorrow, hopefully I can word everything correctly to them on the phone in hopes that it works and things get moving so I can come on here and update you all , and hopefully after that everyone can get things done too ❤️

UmElise · 04/04/2024 21:50

Fee89 · 04/04/2024 19:57

@1slamkh Haram

🤣🤣🤣 7aram 3leyk

kristie198 · 04/04/2024 22:00

Emmajm85 · 04/04/2024 20:16

Ohh that’s amazing! At least that’s one hurdle crossed for you 🙌
I called child benefit earlier and they think my claim might be lost as they can’t see it on the system. Asked me to wait until end of next week incase the bank hol has slowed anything down, but if still no sign of it by next Thursday they will treat it as lost and do the application over the phone with me ! Holy Moly 😂 not even that is plain sailing!

so have you actually got the NIno now? Just thinking if you can see it, I’d be straight on the phone to DLA at 9am quoting it to them 😂 xx

No I still don't know what her Nino is 😂 oh Lord hopefully they will find it for you. I'm going to ring dla Monday to see what they say xx

TiredTilly · 04/04/2024 22:04

kristie198 · 04/04/2024 22:00

No I still don't know what her Nino is 😂 oh Lord hopefully they will find it for you. I'm going to ring dla Monday to see what they say xx

Im going to ring tomorrow. How much shall we bet they will say still waiting for NI😂

kristie198 · 04/04/2024 22:10

TiredTilly · 04/04/2024 22:04

Im going to ring tomorrow. How much shall we bet they will say still waiting for NI😂

I can guarantee they won't have it yet 😂 but surely it can't be much longer xx

Fee89 · 04/04/2024 22:16

UmElise · 04/04/2024 21:50

🤣🤣🤣 7aram 3leyk

Asf 😇x

Emmajm85 · 04/04/2024 22:19

kristie198 · 04/04/2024 22:00

No I still don't know what her Nino is 😂 oh Lord hopefully they will find it for you. I'm going to ring dla Monday to see what they say xx

im actually excited 😂🥳 finally one of us has a NIno on the system! 😂 this should be super quick for you now, well…technically 😄🤞 xx