@MrsRawl I have two kids who are neorodivergent. Dc 1 has ASD and got awarded HRC and LRM, with a diagnosis and professional reports. He melts down a lot in school, so they filled in the supporting bit saying how much help he needs which was a LOT.
We were advised to do an account of a typical night with ds 1 and send it in - we covered the following: extremely rigid bedtime routine which takes 2 hours including getting undressed, bath, reading story, reading alone, light off and has to be done in the same way each day, needing to re enter bedroom multiple times, needing to sit with him to get him asleep, often for two further hours, waking v very early, which can be at 4 or 5 am. You could complete a diary for a week of nights and send in as extra evidence?
I just sent my form off for DC 2. No award yet. Dc 2 is un dx with asd and is a masker at school. We have two reports from hcps for him and sent that in. My best guess is LRC, LRM if we get awarded, but he should really get MRC as he needs a lot of extra help.