ok so i spoke to a really nice man called Graham, He checked and said it's not with a DM yet but is due to be passed over by end of week - So he said just hang in there..... So that is 2 people who have said exactly the same thing to me that is is 16 weeks till it gets to a DM and mine will be picked up by a DM by end of this week... eeeeeeeeeeek i can't take this anymoreeeee x