Dimples sorry about ds wetting just as you were leaving for school I’ve had many of those moments when you are like a lunatic trying to still get them to school on time, glad dd had a good swimming lesson.
Sorry everyone’s having a shitty week. Had an awful weekend with ds deliberately pissing on his bed every opportunity he could, I have loads of sets of bedding and I was going through it that quick I couldn’t get the washer / dryer to work quick enough, he kept running into his bedroom pulling his pants off and weeing. He had a weekend of non stop tantrums aswell. Drove me flipping mental! I think I spent the whole of Saturday night crying!
Yesterday he pulled his pants down in the classroom and purposely did a pooh on the carpet and then once they sorted him out he kept pulling his pants down and weeing on the carpet.
Good news to report today though!
Ds teacher came out just before ds at lunchtime to speak to me and said he’d had an amazing morning, he was a bit naughty to start with but I knew about that as it was when I dropped him off (running off from his teacher, throwing stones and being difficult to get off the carpark) so I did worry when I left how he was going to behave today. But he did lots of maths work, fractions / addition / subtraction. He earnt 5 stars and got to choose 2 children from the class to play outside with and played really nicely.
He’s played with the children at break time yesterday and his teacher said he absolutely loves to play chasing with them and they like to play with ds 😍
He managed 20 minutes in the classroom this morning which is the longest he’s managed so far and by September his teacher hopes to have him full time in the classroom. He’s still having 1-1 and 2-1 to collect him and bring him back out but teacher hopes once ds is fully settled into his routine and understands the expectations he can have that stripped back a little.
He’s going in at 9.30 now instead of 8.50 because at 8.50 the buses are arriving and it was too much going on for ds so for the rest of the week he’s on 9.30-12.30, half term next week then 7th June hes 9.30-2pm with his transport but he’ll technically be out the house 9-2.30 with travel time added.
His teacher has spoken to me every day and says ds needs to learn his actions have consequences and then they’ll be able to move forwards he says ds doesn’t fully understand that yet.
Plus he said because ds is so controlling and because he can’t control the staff like he did at the old school, the uptick in him deliberately wetting / soiling is something he has full control over and ds knows that hence why he’s doing it.
Makes sense.