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Friday Night Thread

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SallyBear · 13/04/2012 17:05

Back to school on Monday. DS4 starts his new Special School then. It will mean that I am driving all over town doing 3 school drop offs, but we are really looking forward to a new approach. Grin
We had a mixed week, bought a trampoline which DH is putting up over the weekend. Managed to be successful in the Wimbledon Ballot so I have Court No 1 tickets. Very excited. Not quite so exciting was my trip to A&E last night after DD broke her nose. She has a craniofacial syndrome, so we are off to see her Maxillofacial surgeon next week for his professional opinion on whether it will need resetting!

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SallyBear · 13/04/2012 18:32

I lmao at the DD's cyber stalking you Dame! Mine just aren't that switched on to care what I am saying about them!

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Ben10NeverAgain · 13/04/2012 18:33

I do love a huff Hmm. I wanted to slap them in hospital when they wanted me to huff. Poor DD :(

Dame could you keep one part of your name the same or do they still find you?

EllenJaneisnotmyname · 13/04/2012 18:33

Your mother! Shock My mother is 81 and sadly, never likely to go online.

DameHermione · 13/04/2012 18:35

I'm far too obvious and identifiable to people who know me i think. coupled with verbal diarrhoea. I just have to watch who i'm moaning about Grin

moosemama · 13/04/2012 18:42

Sally, I have a dx of 'probable MS, but they are waiting for me to have 'another serious neurological episode' before I get the full dx. I was very poorly last winter, but am generally not too bad at the moment, just short relapses and the odd strange episode, like yesterday's.

The percussive tapping thing sounds a bit like the beating I used to have daily when I was hospitalised with pneumonia as a child. Mum had to do it for a while after I was discharged as well, so she could show me how. Ds2 is very like me, they can never hear he has a infection until its too late, they usually only track it down eventually by tapping and listening for dull spots. (Of course they won't listen to me when I tell them they need to do this, so its inevitably the 3rd or 4th doc that susses it out. Angry)

As a child, I was getting progressively more and more sick for months with the docs saying they couldn't find anything. Ended up being rushed to hospital where they said I was basically on my last legs, but they still couldn't track down the infection. In the end one very old school radiographer decided to try a clever and little used angle and there was my double pneumonia in all its glory. It was mycoplasmic pneumonia as well, which is usually mild and known as walking pneumonia because most people never even realise they have it.

I was extremely lucky they caught it and also that I didn't end up predisposed to chest infections. Unfortunately, ds2 is definitely pre-disposed since he was hospitalised when he was 4, the GPs have his notes red-flagged to see him as an emergency if there is any hint of a chest problem, yet they still refuse to treat him until they can 'hear it'. We saw the head of practice both times with this infection and he was shocked when he realised that he'd turned ds2 away 5 days before when he did actually have an infection. Ds had been spiking temps up to 39 degrees for at least 10 days by then. Angry

EllenJaneisnotmyname · 13/04/2012 18:45

Should have got your 'MNSN' trademarked PITA t-shirt and steel toe capped kicking boots on, Moose. Grin

moosemama · 13/04/2012 18:46

Thanks for the link Ben, might give that a go as well. He's started coughing properly now, rather than just a hard cough, but its still non-productive. Mind you, I never managed to cough up enough for them to even do a lab test on when I was ill. My poor dcs only ever seem to inherit the shonkier parts of my genetics. Blush

No, not a three week holiday. We are Midlands, which for some reason was out of sync with the whole of the rest of the country and didn't break up until the day before Good Friday.

moosemama · 13/04/2012 18:50

Good point Ellen. I'm sure they're multi-functional LEA/NHS. Grin

Not doing to well with the kick-ass moves just recently though. I seem to have lost confidence a bit since my memory has given up the ghost and my words refuse to come out in the right order.

I can still write a mean letter, as I have time to read and re-read it, but one to one, I'm a bit, well pants really! Blush

EllenJaneisnotmyname · 13/04/2012 18:57

Yeah, any annoying type who refuses to believe that mothers can, and often do, know best. I'm much better with words on a page as well, and without your MS issue. I think it gives me time to make sure it sounds right, as I do tend to suffer with verbal diarrhoea and foot in mouth. Blush

SallyBear · 13/04/2012 18:59

Oh I hear you Moose. The chest thing is my nightmare. The one thing I can say that has worked, and it maybe worth checking this out genuinely, is when we saw a SALT at GOSH who said to me that it's not normal to have more than ONE chest infection in a year, and seeing as we were averaging at five a year then there was an underlying problem. It turns out that after they discovered her collapsed half dead lung, that she has night time reflux. We are now on omeprazole mups for the reflux and Azithromax ABs for her chest. It's a prophylactic AB which she takes 5ml three times a week, every week. We have only had two chest infections now since august 2010. We do have to do twice Daily Physio but it's worth it to keep her safe.

I am sorry about your MS. My grandma had it, but hers was late - the primary progressive type. My sister's best friend has it, but hers is the relapsing remitting MS. She mostly has good days, and tries to keep her stress levels down so works for a local Hospice as a fundraising manager (how that's not stressful I will never know!!).

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SallyBear · 13/04/2012 19:19

FFS!!!!!! This is Friday 13th after all, but DH has just cone in from the garden with his skin sliced right to the knuckle!! Owwwwwww! The thing is he did it on the fence so it will need proper and careful irrigating with syringes (that I don't have), steri-strips and glue or stitches. SadSad

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signandsmile · 13/04/2012 19:24

Hi everyone, I am just marking my place for a proper read tomorrow, we have visitors tonight, so I am just sneaking on... Blush

Just wanted to say have had a fab 4 days at Dalesdown Centre, with Thru the Roof trust, ASD family holiday, really really fab (expensive, but worth it Grin). ds took part in the talent show, (got up on stage, with mic and sang twinkle twinkle christmas star Shock Grin Grin all by himself, Grin) It was lovely some of the non verbal kids wanted to get up and take part, (picking the farm animals for the verses of old mac donald, a couple of others sang a verse of Balamorey) some of the sibs danced or sang, I signed a song.

Will be back tomorrow to respond to previous posts.

moosemama · 13/04/2012 19:26

We don't do too badly with frequency of infections Sally, he tends to get one really bad one a year and it pretty much always ends up as pneumonia. I stoopidly thought we'd got away with it this year, because its usually around late Autumn that he comes down with it, but of course all the bugs this year have been delayed until now, due to the odd weather I suppose.

I'm still not sure how I feel about the MS thing. I have spent my whole adult life thinking I had ME, so I've always managed the symptoms without help, but then I didn't have any significant neuro symptoms until last year. I am definitely finding the neuro stuff a lot harder to cope with than the exhaustion etc, I don't like my brain and body not doing as they are told. Grin

moosemama · 13/04/2012 19:27

Ouch! Poor dh. Will that be a visit to A&E then?

Sign your holiday sounds fantastic. Enjoy your evening. Smile

creatovator · 13/04/2012 19:29

Hi All,

Sorry to hear about the broken face, MS, chest infections and tough times. Yeah for all the good bits.

Bit tired tonight and have been grumpy as I'm trying to eat healthily and get fit, which is hard when I really, really want a nice cream cake Sad.

Generally a good week here though, DCs have been pretty well behaved and weather has allowed them to get out and play. DS has had colour in his cheeks which is so good to see - he's usually very pale. They go back to school on Mon and I always have mixed feeling about it. DD is very chatty all the time, so it's good to get a break from that, but I miss them.

DH has his birthday tomorrow and wants to do nothing. He might fire up the BBQ if it's a good day Grin. I love BBQ, but will have to make sure I don't undo the good I've done with healthy eating all week! Why is it so easy to put on pounds and so hard to take them off? Confused. Moose hope you're doing better than me!

SallyBear · 13/04/2012 19:31

DH just texted. 3 hour wait. I'm hoping that the triage nurse will sort it out for him. Sigh....Sad

Sign what a fabulous sounding place!!! I will google it. Smile

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creatovator · 13/04/2012 19:34

Just x posted. Sally ow - hope he's better soon.

Sign so glad you had such a good time.

Moose hope things get better soon. I know the feeling when your brain isn't working right... it is not nice.

SallyBear · 13/04/2012 19:34

Creator. I hate dieting. There is a skinny Minnie bursting to get out of me, it's just that she's been hiding from me for the last 18 years..... Wink

Yay to bday bbqs. Just remember to lightly dress the salad, steer clear of the potato salad and the coleslaw!

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creatovator · 13/04/2012 19:36

Yes and I'll do wholemeal roll and hopefully venison burger or venison sausage.

moosemama · 13/04/2012 19:45

Urgh! 3 hours sitting in a waiting room full of sick people. Poor dh. Hope they manage to get him sorted sooner than that.

Creatovator. I have been doing embarrassingly badly at eating healthily for the last few weeks, as I had the audacity to go to a party and then spent the next four weeks paying for it. Also, I daren't admit how much chocolate I stuffed over Easter, Blush but I resolved to get back into it from last Wednesday, so have actually managed to do stick to it for .... oh - all of three days! Grin I've around 3 and a half stone since last June, but most of that was before Christmas and I've really struggled to pull myself back into line this year.

EllenJaneisnotmyname · 13/04/2012 19:48

Hey moose, I've lost 3 stone now on the 'trauma' diet. I've now got a chicken neck and an 'apron' and enormous bingo wings. Keep up with the shred if you can. x

creatovator · 13/04/2012 19:50

moose well done for 3 days.... that's 3 days more than before Smile. I'm using the Healthy Eating Guide which has really tasty recipes, but on a Friday I just want a bag of crisps and a bottle of pear cider Hmm.

creatovator · 13/04/2012 19:51

Ellen 3 stone - how long did that take?

EllenJaneisnotmyname · 13/04/2012 19:55

The first 2 1/2 stone took 4 months, the last 1/2 stone has taken about 3. Not to be recommended as a diet method, I'm so untoned and it was unhealthy, just not being able to eat. But, I don't half look better, so long as I keep my clothes on! Grin Blush Every cloud...

moosemama · 13/04/2012 19:57

Ellen, I'm not very happy with my face now I've lost weight. I'm sure it looks older and more wrinkly, in particular those horrible ageing lines down from the sides of the nose to the upper lip, like the ones they always draw to make cartoon characters' mouths open and close.

I haven't been able to keep up with the shred this year, due to two relapses - one after my MS tests and one after the party. The first one lasted 6 weeks and the second 4 weeks. I can't believe how quickly I've lost fitness and strength, although I shouldn't really be surprised as relapses pretty much equal sitting on my backside comfort eating for weeks on end. Blush Re-starting the shred this week has been just as hard as when I first did it last August and I'm having to force myself to do it, as my poor muscles hurt soooo much. I know from experience that it will be ok once I get past the first 3-4 days though and then I should start enjoying it again.

Theres a great mini workout for bingo-wings on youtube . The woman is really irritating, but the workout does actually work.