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Cup and the Teaset face 2012- and this year, Beatrice means business!

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cupofteaplease · 06/01/2012 17:02

Hi. Chances are if you've opened this thread, you may have followed us from here I thought the new year needed a new thread (also the old one was nearly full!)

The basics: Beatrice has central arthrogryposis and extensive cortical dysplasia. She is 16 weeks old and weighs 8lb 1oz. She is on continuous oxygen at 0.2 litres. She is fed Infatrini with Duocal mixed in via NG tube. She is undergoing ponsetti treatment for her talipes, she also has splints for her hands and is now in a pavlik harness full time for her shallow hip sockets. She is coping very well with all of her treatments. Smile Her community children's nurse describes her as 'defying all the odds'.

The positives: If you have a 4 month old NT baby, the following will probably seem pretty poor progress, but for Beatrice who was stiff and non responsive at bith, she has made great gains. Smile Bea seems very alert in this last week and is becoming more vocal too! She happily shouts at me when something isn't going her way- a vast improvement as she couldn't even cry when born. She moves her arms in all directions now and manages to lift her legs, even with the cast and harness. When she is under her play gym with lights, she moves her arms and legs in appreciation. She also mouths when she is hungry. Her breathing pattern seems much more regular since being on oxygen. She not only recognises my voice and turns to find me, but she can also distinguish other people talking and will move her head in different directions to find who is talking. We assume her eyesight is very poor, although we know she can see shadows and bright lights when it is dark. She adores the cinema and has been twice now!

The downers: Her weight gain is painfully slow- on average 2oz per week. She has fallen off the growth charts completely. She is still sick a couple of times a day. She is having a barium meal and swallow study on Monday to see if there is anything going on. Her sats are irregular and heartrate is very high, so weaning her off oxygen (which she started when she had pneumonia before Christmas) hasn't started yet.

Support: Beatrice was finally awarded DLA at the highest rate today, and we have been told to apply for a blue badge as parking in tight spaces with her oxygen is somewhat problematic Hmm. Next week, our lovely physiotherapist who has been administering the weekly plaster casts is going to start coming to our house to do some massage and play and encourage her arm movements even more. The referral to Helen House Hospice is still being processed. After Bea's casts have come off permanently (just 2 more to go!!) I plan on taking her swimming at the hydrotherapy pool in the special school where my SIL works as a SLT.

At the end of January we have a review with our 'lovely' paediatric consultant, Dr Scrooge. We havent managed to shake her off yet!

Thanks for following us here- I'll add some more pictures in a minute. Smile

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ArborFields · 25/01/2012 22:21

I've been a quiet follower since the beginning and have to finally post. I am so proud of you and Bea. My heart skipped a beat when I read about Bea earlier. I am so happy that you are all doing well and sending lots of love and prayers your way.

eaglewings · 25/01/2012 22:26

Prayers continue in the Eagle household. Thank God for wonderful GPs

cupofteaplease · 25/01/2012 22:33

It was such a bizarre experience. The GP was in a panic and kept saying, 'I feel so helpless, where's the ambulance? I should drive you myself. I can't do anything here!' etc etc and I was patting her arm saying, 'Its ok, don't worry, you're fine, she'll be ok.'

It wasn't until Bea was settled in a&e that I realised I was shaking!

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MadgeEstic · 25/01/2012 22:38

I'm just in awe of your strength Cup, well done. Have been praying for little Bea this evening. Hope you all get a good night's sleep xx

MamaMaiasaura · 25/01/2012 22:41

So glad she's stabilised. Read with tears in my eyes your account. Bea is such an amazing baby girl and has a mummy to be proud of xxx

Thumbwitch · 25/01/2012 22:45

oh cup!! What a wonderful GP and nurse you have there, so pleased that they responded appropriately when the ambulance wasn't sent. Unbelievable that they didn't send one, btw!! Shock

Poor you - I should imagine you just were shaking - a reaction to the adrenaline that kicked in and helped you get everything done.

I hope Bea is ok - poor little love, she's putting you and herself through it at the moment, isn't she - glad you all got her there and she is stable again. Love and prayers for you all xx

OhDoAdmitMrsDeVere · 25/01/2012 22:55

Good on you Baby Bea x

Do they have plans for the aspiration chest infections cup. How many times has this happened?

Does Bea have a peg/ng?
You dont have to answer of course sweetheart.

I have been wondering how things have been going since we chatted x

JugglingWithSnowballs · 25/01/2012 22:58

Praying that you can walk through the primroses with Bea in the spring-time
and see many more spring-times together.

Well done to you both for today x

AncientsOfMuMu · 25/01/2012 23:10

Thank you so much for taking the time to update this evening.
Thinking of you all x

KateUnrulyBush · 25/01/2012 23:15

Bea is truly loved by so many, but none more than by her amazing mum :)

I hope you get some rest now Cup, you must be so tired after today. Just ask if you need anything x

FriggFRIGG · 25/01/2012 23:16

Thinking you you all tonight,
I can't believe the strength you and Bea have shown.
You are an inspiration.

Stay strong Bea.x

ledkr · 25/01/2012 23:32

Your gp and co sound amaazing cup. My dd had an aspiration pneumonia at 6 days-the threads are still on here.She was in hospital and on anti b's and make a full recovery.I hope that he;ps you a bit xx Give her a kiss from all of us.

strictlycomedancingdiva · 25/01/2012 23:52

Thinking of you all x

WetAugust · 26/01/2012 00:40

It's frightening just to read it.

Hope Bea continues to improve.

Take care

ChippingInLovesEasterEggs · 26/01/2012 02:26

Bea - you certainly like to keep us all on our toes!! Your poor Mummy!

Mind you - sounds like the GP was in a worse state than you Cup Confused. I think you are becoming a seasoned pro at keeping calm in the face of adversity! Thank goodness! I'm pleased the GP was able to keep her wits about her and drive you to the hospital though.

I hope they kick some butt over the ambulance not turning up - for goodness sake - if they can't send one straight away when a doctors surgery calls what hope do the rest of us have?!?

The equipment that the doctor used - do you have that at home?

saffronwblue · 26/01/2012 03:05

Love and thoughts to cup, Bea and all the Teaset. It must have been awful seeing the GP panic but she sounds very much in Bea's corner. Quite a crowded corner!

BB3 · 26/01/2012 06:42

Cup, I think you're just amazing! I hope bea had a good nights rest and is getting stronger by the hour. X are dd1 and dd2 ok? Love and hugs x

CotherMuckingFunt · 26/01/2012 06:54

You and your daughter are simply amazing.

Continued prayers here for you all.x

RatherBeOnThePiste · 26/01/2012 07:06

Morning Smile I 've been thinking of you so much since I read Bob's thread last night, thank you so much for the update, sending you all love and strength. x

RatherBeOnThePiste · 26/01/2012 07:08

Morning Smile I 've been thinking of you so much since I read Bob's thread last night, thank you so much for the update, sending you all love and strength. x

RatherBeOnThePiste · 26/01/2012 07:08

Two lots of strength!!

KnottyLocks · 26/01/2012 07:13

And a huge pile of strength from me too.

Thinking of you all xx

Come on, Bea, you little darling.

starfish71 · 26/01/2012 07:23

Have been reading and following your journey, sending lots of positive thoughts and love xxxx

brandysoakedbitch · 26/01/2012 07:24

Wanted to send you all best wishes this morning and let you know we are thinking of you x

ohmeohmy · 26/01/2012 07:37

Hats off to you again. Sounds like the GP could do with reviewing the incident with someone. She got you to the hospital in the end but staying calm is part of the job.

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