Hi all, I've tried calling IPSEA over a week but can't get through ATM.
School are leading on EHCP for my 13 year old in mainstream. Ed psych have already been in and assessed. School arranged all this.
Son diagnosed Autistic, ADHD, three years ago. Pronounced tics. I am not main carer as have ongoing health challenges. Comms with other parent is currently very difficult.
I want to understand exactly what the agenda is here where school actively lead like this. ( I'm being somewhat distanced from school and requests for particular info are not being given)
I was sent a document from school to support the application - with 3 questions, what works in school, what doesn't basically. There's so much more to this. I have relentlessly researched what a good parental statement looks like. I have compiled something based on strengths and weakness under the 4 strands.
Is it important to talk about background and history.
I do fear that a FII narrative has been subtly planted. I have overt accusations of Mental illness by ex. This has led me to think how much detail should I go into regarding myself, my physical illnesses etc. I fear a behavior problem narrative could be seen as the issue instead of accommodating the ND issues. I believe therapeutic support would be helpful for child and want to highlight this. Understanding that there is stress there and environmental stress. But, this is not the cause of all the detentions imo. It's being ND.
I am low on capacity with very significant challenges in managing my own conditions atm. I can't afford a fight.
How much depth in this situation is right for my part ( parent statement) in support of school EHCP application?