Actually I have reached a point where I do find some of these threads faintly amusing.
I LOVE how many people are prepared to write with huge authority and great understanding about having a disability or caring for a child with disabilities when they have not a farking clue.
Its right up thee with 'I know about race issues because my best friend is balck'.
The sad thing is that most of these people seem to think that the super race would be them - smug, patronising, delighted by their lack of experience,arrogant enoughto think that their ability to imagine a life with disability is equal to the experience of those iving it.
What a bunch of super wankers.
It would be so nice just occasionally to have someone post 'what is it like living with x - what do you feel is the hardest thing about living with y' - but thats not goping to happen.
FWIW every single difficulty in my sons life exists only when he is in a room with NT people. The hardest part of living with disability is without doubt the general public.
And these threads often allow them to convince themselves that their negative views are reasonable.
FWIW I don't ever have a problem with any individual choosing a termination.
My issue is with people perpetuating the idea that a life with disability is less of a life - which increases the liklihood that mothers, with no real understanding will terminate out of fears unknown and often unfounded