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Disability hate on MN

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IClaudine · 02/05/2024 13:31

Hi MNHQ

Since Sunak’s announcement on disability benefits, there has been a big increase on MN in hostility towards people who receive then.

The abuse, hate and outright lies (my neighbour’s son’s cousin’s wife climbs Mount Everest but gets PIP etc) being spewed on MN towards disabled people, a group with protected characteristics, has been dreadful and very distressing for disabled people and their loved ones to read,

Please can you do something?

Here is a small selection of the threads where the disability benefit bashers have paid a visit and had a field day. There may be more, but I can’t face searching for them!

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5064828-to-be-terrified-about-pip?utm_campaign=thread&utm_medium=share  

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5065470-people-who-work-have-anxiety-too?utm_campaign=thread&utm_medium=share

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5066670-aibu-to-hope-that-able-bodied-people-will-support-disabled-people-against-the-tory-attack-on-pip?utm_campaign=thread&utm_medium=share

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/money-matters/5064856-pip-vouchers-to-replace-money?reply=134966246&utm_campaign=thread&utm_medium=share

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/money-matters/5066331-do-you-feel-bad-for-receiving-a-high-amount-of-uc?utm_campaign=thread&utm_medium=share

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KellyMumsnet · 27/05/2026 10:25

Morning, everyone. Thanks for flagging this. We'll take a look at the thread as a whole this morning. If there are any specific posts anyone wold like us to look into though, please do hit the report button and we can then prioritise those.

Piggywaspushed · 27/05/2026 10:54

That thread has reached 32 pages. Individual Mumsnetters do not have time or energy to go through 800 posts individually checking them and reporting them. I feels strongly that this is not our job.

Can I ask- once a thread has had several reports and deletions doesn't HQ take a proper look at it??

ConcernedForWales · 27/05/2026 12:08

KellyMumsnet · 27/05/2026 10:25

Morning, everyone. Thanks for flagging this. We'll take a look at the thread as a whole this morning. If there are any specific posts anyone wold like us to look into though, please do hit the report button and we can then prioritise those.

I have reported a few, Kelly, which have been removed. But personally I don't have the stomach to read too many of the posts, let alone the time.

BeckyAMumsnet · 27/05/2026 16:15

Thanks for your comments.

We’ve looked at the thread, and posts that were reported have been reviewed and deleted where appropriate.

We do understand why threads about disability and the benefits system can feel particularly upsetting and personal to many MNers. Posters are allowed to discuss these subjects, including robustly, but they do still need to stay within our Talk guidelines. We’ll remove posts that cross the line into personal attacks, or language that makes the thread unnecessarily unpleasant for others.

A few posters have asked why we’re asking for individual reports when the thread itself has been mentioned here. The short answer is that Site stuff is useful for alerting us to a general concern, but it isn’t a substitute for reporting specific posts. A report puts the post, poster and context directly in front of the moderation team at the point it’s happening, which means we can look at it much more quickly.

We’re not asking anyone to go back through 30 pages of upsetting posts. But if you’re reading a thread and see something you think breaks guidelines, please do report that post rather than assuming we’ve already seen it, or that someone else will report it. That’s especially important on fast-moving or emotive threads, where individual posts can otherwise be missed.

Reports also help us see patterns. A single post may be borderline, but repeated derailing, goading or bad-faith posting can become much clearer when reports come through.

Mumsnet is post-moderated, which means we don’t see every post before it appears on the site. So while we can’t prevent every guideline-breaking post from appearing, we can and do act when those posts are brought to our attention.

Thanks,
MNHQ

PickAChew · 27/05/2026 17:58

BeckyAMumsnet · 27/05/2026 16:15

Thanks for your comments.

We’ve looked at the thread, and posts that were reported have been reviewed and deleted where appropriate.

We do understand why threads about disability and the benefits system can feel particularly upsetting and personal to many MNers. Posters are allowed to discuss these subjects, including robustly, but they do still need to stay within our Talk guidelines. We’ll remove posts that cross the line into personal attacks, or language that makes the thread unnecessarily unpleasant for others.

A few posters have asked why we’re asking for individual reports when the thread itself has been mentioned here. The short answer is that Site stuff is useful for alerting us to a general concern, but it isn’t a substitute for reporting specific posts. A report puts the post, poster and context directly in front of the moderation team at the point it’s happening, which means we can look at it much more quickly.

We’re not asking anyone to go back through 30 pages of upsetting posts. But if you’re reading a thread and see something you think breaks guidelines, please do report that post rather than assuming we’ve already seen it, or that someone else will report it. That’s especially important on fast-moving or emotive threads, where individual posts can otherwise be missed.

Reports also help us see patterns. A single post may be borderline, but repeated derailing, goading or bad-faith posting can become much clearer when reports come through.

Mumsnet is post-moderated, which means we don’t see every post before it appears on the site. So while we can’t prevent every guideline-breaking post from appearing, we can and do act when those posts are brought to our attention.

Thanks,
MNHQ

The OP asked for suggestions to help improve her family's income in difficult circumstances and got pages of people unhelpfully telling her that it's all her fault, without actually answering her question, and that people like her are the whole problem with this country, which descended into a total bun fight long after she'd gone from what had been a brutal pile on.

Is that the direction that Mumsnet is happy to be taking, these days @BeckyAMumsnet ?

Piggywaspushed · 27/05/2026 18:03

I mean, yeah...there were posts the Nazis would have agreed with. They may as well have written the words 'useless eaters'.

ValleyClouds · 27/05/2026 18:38

I mean the MN response is the usual blah blah bullshit. I’ve said it before you need disability discrimination training but no one cares

Deludamol · 27/05/2026 18:48

BeckyAMumsnet · 27/05/2026 16:15

Thanks for your comments.

We’ve looked at the thread, and posts that were reported have been reviewed and deleted where appropriate.

We do understand why threads about disability and the benefits system can feel particularly upsetting and personal to many MNers. Posters are allowed to discuss these subjects, including robustly, but they do still need to stay within our Talk guidelines. We’ll remove posts that cross the line into personal attacks, or language that makes the thread unnecessarily unpleasant for others.

A few posters have asked why we’re asking for individual reports when the thread itself has been mentioned here. The short answer is that Site stuff is useful for alerting us to a general concern, but it isn’t a substitute for reporting specific posts. A report puts the post, poster and context directly in front of the moderation team at the point it’s happening, which means we can look at it much more quickly.

We’re not asking anyone to go back through 30 pages of upsetting posts. But if you’re reading a thread and see something you think breaks guidelines, please do report that post rather than assuming we’ve already seen it, or that someone else will report it. That’s especially important on fast-moving or emotive threads, where individual posts can otherwise be missed.

Reports also help us see patterns. A single post may be borderline, but repeated derailing, goading or bad-faith posting can become much clearer when reports come through.

Mumsnet is post-moderated, which means we don’t see every post before it appears on the site. So while we can’t prevent every guideline-breaking post from appearing, we can and do act when those posts are brought to our attention.

Thanks,
MNHQ

I just got a notification that this thread is still going. I left two years ago because of this affecting my mental health and you still can't find a solution for the rampant ableism.

Now I come on here and skim through a linked thread where I see eugenics against the disabled is being discussed.

It's not good enough. Ban them. First time, no exceptions.

Piggywaspushed · 28/05/2026 10:39

So the NEETs thread which I genuinely believe was started completely earnestly is going as expected...

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