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"boomer" thread 2 💥

174 replies

IClaudine · 03/09/2023 08:21

A thread for people who want to combat ageism on the site, because MNHQ can't be bothered to.

OP posts:
CaptainMyCaptain · 03/09/2023 13:08

There's a thread now from a man being intimidated by elderly women at the gym. 🙄

AutumnCrow · 03/09/2023 13:13

EveryKneeShallBow · 03/09/2023 12:04

Okay, I don’t seem to be getting my point across very well, here. @AutumnCrow , I am a 60+ woman myself and I absolutely support the need for women only spaces. This is going off topic (ageism on MN specifically). So I’m out. All the best.

Apologies, @EveryKneeShallBow - I was trying to talk about how we use language and the sometimes unintended consequences of that for older woman. Possibly not very clearly.

Hope we can begin again? I'll attempt to rein it in, and be clearer, and focus on the fact this thread is in Site Stuff and about language & moderation.

jeffgoldblum · 03/09/2023 13:17

Maireas · 03/09/2023 13:05

If there isn't a pension for you, @LittleBearPad , whose fault is that? Maybe the people in charge of the economy. Maybe the wide boys gambling with the nation's assets.

This ! This , right here! , I was told in my twenties by a financial advisor ( came to my work strangely and spoke to all of us!)
That I wouldn't get a state pension so should start planning accordingly, now I tend to blame this , not on older generations ( I wasn't their choice or actions) but firmly at the feet of the government!
They are to blame if you won't get a pension, they are to blame if you can't buy a house, they are to blame if wages are low and costs are high!
Not other people!

Maireas · 03/09/2023 13:18

LittleBearPad · 03/09/2023 13:07

Why does it have to be anyone’s fault?

Edited

Because you're explicitly blaming a cohort.
Because you're accusing a generation of stealing.
Have a look at what happened to the economy under the brief leadership of Liz Truss.

BIWI · 03/09/2023 13:25

TheLongGloriesOfTheWinterMoon · 03/09/2023 12:27

You must have got a different HQer to me. My Karen is still there. P&C parking. "jobsworth Karen" isn't a slur apparently.

Sorry - my mistake - it was the one on the parking in P+C spaces that was deleted

jeffgoldblum · 03/09/2023 13:27

A poster on the royal topic of all places threatened to call us all " Karen's " in retaliation of a post she found offensive that wasn't called out by other posters!!

Maireas · 03/09/2023 13:30

Maireas · 03/09/2023 13:18

Because you're explicitly blaming a cohort.
Because you're accusing a generation of stealing.
Have a look at what happened to the economy under the brief leadership of Liz Truss.

I want to apologise, @LittleBearPad because it wasn't you who said that - it was another poster.
Many apologies.

LittleBearPad · 03/09/2023 13:34

Maireas · 03/09/2023 13:30

I want to apologise, @LittleBearPad because it wasn't you who said that - it was another poster.
Many apologies.

No worries at all.

Rockandchips · 03/09/2023 13:35

Good thread.

Maireas · 03/09/2023 13:35

LittleBearPad · 03/09/2023 13:34

No worries at all.

👍

BellaBellla · 03/09/2023 13:50

Maireas · 03/09/2023 13:05

If there isn't a pension for you, @LittleBearPad , whose fault is that? Maybe the people in charge of the economy. Maybe the wide boys gambling with the nation's assets.

This is the crux really isn't it @Maireas

Also, instead of directing ire towards an older generation, look to the group who have accumulated a truly ridiculous amount of wealth, the group who the "wide boys" court for votes and donations. The group that basically don't pay income tax. We need to generate more tax in this country but it's the wrong people, particularly younger generations, who are being targeted and squeezed.

To me it's a class issue, not generational.

Maireas · 03/09/2023 13:52

It is a class issue, @BellaBellla - did you read that report that the partners in one asset management group paid less tax than the cleaners did?

AutumnCrow · 03/09/2023 13:56

jeffgoldblum · 03/09/2023 13:27

A poster on the royal topic of all places threatened to call us all " Karen's " in retaliation of a post she found offensive that wasn't called out by other posters!!

That board needs a Site Stuff thread all of its own. Another time, though.

TheLongGloriesOfTheWinterMoon · 03/09/2023 14:08

BIWI · 03/09/2023 13:25

Sorry - my mistake - it was the one on the parking in P+C spaces that was deleted

Excellent.
Must've been my bad luck yesterday with the HQer who got my report. Maybe we ARE slowly getting through then...

PhilMitchellsleatherbomber · 03/09/2023 14:19

LittleBearPad · 03/09/2023 12:44

It’s not that younger people have had less time to amass wealth.

On average when they are 65 they will have less wealth than an average 65 year old now.

Today’s average 25 year old when they are 45 will be less well off than your average 45 year old now.

They will never have as much wealth as my generation. (Gen X) or my parents generation (Baby Boomers).

All the wealthy Baby Boomers and Generation X will all pass their ‘wealth’ down to their children and grandchildren, no one seems to address that, if the main problem of ageism is that older generations have more money which really does seem to be the root of it all, then surely then we need to look at inheritance and how that is taxed so we become a fairer society?

LittleBearPad · 03/09/2023 14:52

PhilMitchellsleatherbomber · 03/09/2023 14:19

All the wealthy Baby Boomers and Generation X will all pass their ‘wealth’ down to their children and grandchildren, no one seems to address that, if the main problem of ageism is that older generations have more money which really does seem to be the root of it all, then surely then we need to look at inheritance and how that is taxed so we become a fairer society?

They will but likely much later than was historically the case as Baby Boomer and GenX live longer than the Greatest Generation / Quiet Generation. So it won’t buy family homes for middle aged children as perhaps it once did, it will supplement pensions.

ruby1957 · 03/09/2023 15:12

Samcro · 03/09/2023 10:34

I wish people would just drop the silly "boomer" type labels. I am classed as boomer. it includes people born after the war up to early 60's. so such a wide cohort. im just on the edge of it.
each generation has their issues. growing up in the 70's we certainly had ours.
just get the labels dropped and see people as people.

Exactly - I was born at the beginning of 1947 so part of the post war baby boom. This generation spans 18 years so it is possible for a parent and child to be in the same cohort. Furthermore there was another baby boom in 1963.
What irks me is that other 'generations' are 15 years and none of them so far have been the butt of any negative connotations.

ruby1957 · 03/09/2023 15:19

That should be 16 years not 18 years.

PhilMitchellsleatherbomber · 03/09/2023 15:30

LittleBearPad · 03/09/2023 14:52

They will but likely much later than was historically the case as Baby Boomer and GenX live longer than the Greatest Generation / Quiet Generation. So it won’t buy family homes for middle aged children as perhaps it once did, it will supplement pensions.

Yes I think that could be the case in some part, however even if inheriting in your 60’s with life expectancy ever increasing there will be some very wealthy late middle age people, there will still be a huge divide, also there does seem to be a trend that children of wealthy parents are often skipped in favour of the grandchildren inheriting, there will be a lot of twenty or thirty somethings inheriting a lot of unearned wealth.

RudsyFarmer · 03/09/2023 15:34

The only people who have amassed wealth through means other than inheritance or a high paying career are home owners. They were able to benefit from huge house prices and are often sitting on a huge amount of equity. However that does not account for all people in their seventies and beyond. My parents didn’t benefit from being house owners. I think those who could buy council houses for a couple of quid provable benefitted the most and those lucky enough to live in an area where prices absolutely sky rocketed, but that wasn’t all those people that was some of those people.

So, we have lazy generalisations of older people being wealthy, younger people being entitled and feckless. People in need of salary top ups being lazy, the disabled ,

SageFennel · 03/09/2023 15:37

I just reported a post where the poster resorted to "OK Boomer" in a discussion and it was deleted instantly, possibly someone else reported it before me. TY MN.

ilovesooty · 03/09/2023 15:42

SageFennel · 03/09/2023 15:37

I just reported a post where the poster resorted to "OK Boomer" in a discussion and it was deleted instantly, possibly someone else reported it before me. TY MN.

Good.

FarEast · 03/09/2023 15:45

I think that the difference between the MN treatment of the protected characteristic of “gender reassignment” and the combined protected characteristics of sex and age, is verrrry instructive.

<strokes old-lady hairy chin>

C8H10N4O2 · 03/09/2023 16:34

Echobelly · 03/09/2023 12:11

I (gen X, 45) do think boomers are unfairly maligned and I do think a lot of this is to do with the fact a lot of the media is owned by very very wealthy, right-wing white male boomers who amplify their own opinions and thus give many people the impression that all boomers are wealthy, slagging off young people for being lazy and not understanding the challenges young people face etc and that's not true. After all, people have kids and grandkids and they know what they are up against, but the media amplifies the 'They just need to make their own coffee and tighten up the purse strings like we did and they can buy a house' types/

But most of the press isn't owned by boomers.

The Telegraph Group has long been controlled by the Barclay Brothers - Greatest Generation. Ditto News International under Rupert Murdoch. The Daily Mail group is the Rothemeres but for some time has been under the current Lord Rothermere who is a Gen Xer, inheriting from a Greatest. The Express/Mirror now belong to the same publishing group chaired by a Gen Xer.

The Guardian/Observer belong to a publishing trust - this seems to be the only one chaired currently by a boomer. These are all longstanding ownerships/chairs and not recent changes.

All white and male, but not boomers.

Maireas · 03/09/2023 16:36

I think the key is white, male and rich.