Sorry, not sure where to ask this:
Searched recently for a couple threads (that I had only had a chance to read part of) using a variety of terms, and can’t find them again.
One was about a recently purchased (charity shop?) knit skirt or dress that OP wanted to hem/shorten.
The other was a family event that OP found out was being held in anti-gay church, and the OP has a same-sex partner (and child/children).
Thanks for any help.