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Should MN have a People of Color Section?

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KickAssAngel · 10/09/2016 19:28

Firstly: I am deeply ashamed that it has taken me 13 years to even think of this.
Second: My apologies if there is such a thing but I looked under the Talk headings and couldn't see one.

Like most of mainstream UK/Westernized culture there are certain POV or voices on MN which are more dominant. In an attempt to create a bit of space for people who somehow don't fit that kind of profile, MN has a few areas for those people. Cat lovers have the litter tray, there's a special needs area, and feminism topics (and others). I see those areas as places for people who are particularly interested in those things as being able to post there more specifically about their lives, hopefully (although not always) without being railroaded and drowned out by people who don't share those experiences.

BUT - I see nothing that provides people of color with a space.

I wouldn't want to invade there, but as someone who is white, and very aware that I pretty much just get the 'white story' from all areas of society, including MN, is this something that should be established?

I would see the potential benefits as 1. People who might want to share their experiences with others who would more immediately understand/agree with them could do so, and 2. I would want to lurk and hear the 'voices' of POC in order to drown out the white dominance I've grown up with.

I really hope I have raised this in a sensitive and appropriate way. I was prompted by a couple of things - one thread here about why women may not want men joining in a lot, which got taken over by a load of men joining in - and also, in RL, when a white friend shared some problems she's had as the partner of an African American, which really shocked me. I realized after that story that I have NO idea just what it is like to live with everyday racism, and then noticed how there isn't a space for that discussion on MN.

Would posters want this, or is MN so 'white' that other forums are being used instead?

OP posts:
Lorelei76 · 13/09/2016 18:21

Empress "no it just makes you ignorant."

charming. I too experience racism. I am well aware that some people respond differently to me than they might to a white person.

I too want to rant about it sometimes but I'd like to put those rants on MN in general - and I have done.

I'm not suggesting everybody has to agree btw but I felt like Helmet was saying that only a really bad/stupid/let's add ignorant now shall we - person would feel the same as me and not care about colour in the way that I don't care about it.

A previous poster refers to colour blind bingo. To me that's like saying it's bad that I don't think about the colour of anyone's skin. But I don't and because I don't, I feel it's important to do others the courtesy of recognising they might not care either, but that doesn't mean they minimise racism.

anyway, I think this is one of the conversations where actually no one will learn anything so I will bow out.

Helmetbymidnight · 13/09/2016 19:20

I felt like Helmet was saying that only a really bad/stupid/let's add ignorant now shall we - person would feel the same as me and not care about colour in the way that I don't care about it.

Well, that's not what I was saying, nor what I feel, but apologies if it (my ranting) came across that way.

BathshuaSpooner · 14/09/2016 21:53

For whomever was interested OTBT can be found in the Other Stuff section.

frogmore · 15/09/2016 22:48

I thought I'd read it all.
White
then
Coloured
Asians
Kaffirs (Blacks)

That is how I grew up until 1994- and it was called Apartheid.
Never in a million years did I think I would come close to it again, and then I read this Shock

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