I really don't want to be argumentative or provocative but would genuinely like to understand how the forum is policed.
Why was the thread about the Cedar Falls breastfeeding debacle deleted - reason given: 'it became very personal' - but a thread titled, for example, AIBU to think that Stephen Fry is a shit? is allowed to stand? Because I would have thought that the latter is actually quite a personal comment as well.
I am genuinely confused about how you decide who it is OK to slag off and who it isn't. 